Have you ever stayed home with little ones? Mothers often can't even use the bathroom or take a shower in peace, much less work out. Even when kids nap, we use that time to get stuff done we can't when they're awake. I know being a stay-at-home mom looks like a cakewalk to someone who has never done it but as any mom who has will tell you, its not.
I am not say any woman cant teach me anything i meant YOU in particular. Somehow rooting for marines who pee on corpses informed my decision about your inability to school me or anyone for that matter. Dont make this a gender thing. Got it "maite"? Another neg rep on my way i guess, keep it coming guys.
No one can 'school" you because you CAN'T read. Rooting for? Show me or shush it. I don't think what they did was CRIMINAL, got it? Again, as I said, what they did was classless/in poor taste, but if you want to me feel sorry for the Taliban and call for our Marine's heads like you have....uh, no!
LOL @ DK thinking mom's have way more time through out the day to look good. I guess he probably this is how every mom-to-be should look like, too... Wonder if all Moms and M2B's get an assistant, too. (and hairdresser, stylist, make-up artist...etc...) :smt006
There is nothing worse than a fat person blaming childbirth or any other thing with the exception of one on medical grounds as reason for gaining weight waay after childbirth. The are ordinary women who have shed their baby weight after childbirth by working hard to stay in shape and not being lazy and eating late and not doing any exercise at all. Those who have been fat from birth i might understand but those who were skinny and have let themselves go have no excuse except medical. If you want to stay fat stay fat but dont come up with some cock and bull story about age or childbirth being the factor. Its just lame.
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Um where did I say stay at home mom? I said stay at home wife. Big difference. And to further elaborate a lot of these women who require a man with money usually get a nanny and a cleaning lady who comes by two to three times a week. So why can't they spend hours at the gym daily? And to answer Ches yes I've stayed home with little ones. When I was 15 my aunt hired me for an entire summer to take care of my cousin and that shit was tough to be honest taking her to the park and playing with her kept me incredibly active even more so when her sister came along two years later. Small kids are tiring as fuck and that's when I was a teenager but around age four to five you can pop in a barney tape and they usually sit still for a couple of hours.
You're right -now my bad. True about the Barney tape, but not ideal for the child. My son wasn't content with that for too long. Hated the playpen too. I am really thankful that I had the opportunity to be a SAH mom for 8 years. I was the most content with myself and what I was doing then. I was alot more creative and I truy enjoyed all the domestic tasks. Being married to the guy I married wasn't what I had hoped it would be, but being a mom and homemaker was.
Your last paragraph sums it all up for me. I don't get how Elin gets to lord being a mom over his head when she got the greatest gift period. Time to bond with the kids. Him working made that possible and I don't think its fair to be able to throw that in someones face later.
That supposedly 'plus-sized' model is not that big. Kirstie Alley is what I would consider an attractive plus-sized woman. And Amber Rose's body approximates perfection. The only way skinny is hot to me is if it's from fitness, endurance sports, etc. I am NOT a fan of concentration camp/heroin junkie chic.
She kept going after DWTS weight loss. This was her a few months ago. You may have to find a new plus size woman to use as example.
Iggy, you might want to look at JordanC's post above before you issue such a sweeping statement, lol. JordanC, I had no idea. Oops, I stand corrected. Well, that makes two of us.
Lol it's not physics its biology which is true but here's one thing to be greatful for. Women can just eat less or just eat better and walk 5 times a week and get away with being thin to satisfy their attraction requirements. A man has to do all that and be muscular as well and that shit ain't remotely easy.
Lol true But be real to have that sculpted body women drool over it takes a lot more than three days a week on the eliptical lol
We drool over it but I bet if you asked the average woman if she requires that in a man, she would say no.
Well I don't require a girl who looks like a cover model but damn it if I wouldn't be happy as hell if I had a girl who looked like that. Besides girls around my age kind of do. You keep forgetting women in your age group are of an entirely different mindset.
Even when I was your age and younger, I didn't require it. Most of the guys I dated were soccer players (coincidence), so they were fit but none of them spent time in a weight room. My ex came home from AOCS all buff and it was nice, but he didn't keep himself that way and I didn't care. Imo, I think alot of people are drawn to fit and/or athletic rather than what we see in the threads on here. Yes? No?