Some Blacks insist: 'I'm not African-American'

Discussion in 'In the News' started by Bliss, Feb 5, 2012.

  1. Bliss

    Bliss Well-Known Member

    A thorough read. (sorry Tony :eek:)

    I use AA sparsely...mostly defering to Black in discussions because most I know use it to describe themselves, plus it encompasses many genres of cultures to me (but not all).
     
  2. wtarshi

    wtarshi Well-Known Member

    interesting read.

    i would use the term aa in the 80's and 90's, but it wouldn't occur to me to use it now.

    i find it a strange way to describe a "people" and feel that it's excluding them in a way. you don't say white american or korean american, so why african american? if you're born in america, then aren't you american? my family originally are not from here, but i would never think of calling myself an english, scottish australian.

    am i making sense? i'm rambling & it's hot and windy which make my mind fuzzy
     
  3. The Dark King

    The Dark King Well-Known Member

    Just call me TDK
     
  4. wtarshi

    wtarshi Well-Known Member

    nah. i'll stick to fanny or fanbox thanks
     
  5. The Dark King

    The Dark King Well-Known Member

    Your spot on my friend. We're the only immature fucks who still do that shit.
     
  6. Ches

    Ches Well-Known Member

    I never really liked the term African-American. I don't call myself a German-American. I'm white and I'm an American. All the BM I've had this conversation with wish to be called black. None of them like AA.
     
  7. Bliss

    Bliss Well-Known Member

    Yes yes, great post girl! I feel the same way - we don't say White American, or European-American, we say just American.

    If I m talking amongst my white friends, I might distinguish cultures and say "I met a sexy Italian guy', as I would if I talked to my Black friends and said, "I met this gorgeous Jamaican guy" etc...

    Like the one lady said...AA today is almost like being PC...Particularly by White people, whom seem almost afraid to use Black, as if it's offensive. Black is beautiful.
     
  8. Thump

    Thump Well-Known Member

    African-American is a term used to try to stitch together some connection to our ancestral homeland. Of all the cultures in America, Black folks are the only ones who were forcefully severed from our history. Few if any Black Americans can trace their roots to Africa. After all, you always see white people in America call themselves Irish, Italian, Dutch etc. So if some Black folks want to keep a connection to their roots I say more power to them.
     
  9. Bliss

    Bliss Well-Known Member

    You make a good point about the lineage tracing. Particularly since the collective amount of immigrant Africans to the US pales in comparison to the volume of Africans forcefully brought here (and whom make-up the bulk of Black-America's ancestry). What I've observed is migrant Africans clearly defining themselves by their country, ie: Ghanian, Nigerian, Haitian, Jamaican, etc;. Consequently, they tend to somewhat disassociate themselves from AA/Black-American culture, from what I have noticed.
     
  10. Stizzy

    Stizzy Well-Known Member

    I'm black, and proud of it. Lol
     
  11. The Dark King

    The Dark King Well-Known Member

    I can't speak for the other cultures listed but being Jamaican or more accurately Caribbean I find that I have way more in common culturally with a Dominican, Puerto Rican, or Cuban than I do with someone who is traditionally considered AA. Just like white people are allowed to have ties to their culture of origin I don't see why we shouldn't.
    But then again I've always been one to want to due away with culture of origin and stick to the fact that we're all American and for those of us claiming areas like Italy, France, Ghana, Jamaica, and other foreign lands we're Yankee Americans. They don't recognize us as one of them. Even me being first generation whenever I visit the island they are very quick to tell me I ain't Jamaican I'm from foreign so at this point I don't see why aren't just Americans plain and simple. I was curious why do you distinguish men differently when you're with friends, why is it a hot "Italian or Jamaican" guy and not just a hot guy period. I know guys who do that shit too and I never got it. Especially people who brag about the mixed chick they met. "I just bagged this Brazilian French Peruvian joint" and maybe I don't get it but I don't see what talking about their heritage proves.
     
  12. FG

    FG Well-Known Member

    This is exactly how I feel about the term AA.
    I only use AA if someone prefers that - but I only know one that prefers that, the rest prefers Black. Seems to me that its something that is used more by white people than black people in my experience.
     
  13. GQ Brotha

    GQ Brotha New Member

    This is a very good point you raise bro.

    I was born on the tip of South America in Guyana

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    Surely my ancestors are descended from slaves brought to the New World, but I couldn't begin to tell you where from in Africa.

    There is no marker there that I can trace and know about, certainly not easily if I wanted to.

    As far as African American, Black American, American, matters little to me. No one else can define me for me, my own actions will do that.
     
  14. GQ Brotha

    GQ Brotha New Member

    As someone who is not born in America, but is black, yet grew up in America in black neighborhoods I can relate to what is described.

    What they generally are dissociating from are the negative stereotypes of black American ghetto culture, i.e. gangbanging, drug dealing, pants falling of your ass, etc.

    In a way its a simplistic view because those characteristics don't encompass all black Americans, but it is the one's highlighted for labeling purposes.

    There are many middle class black Americans and hardworking poor ones as well who don't care for the negatives either.

    The irony is many of the young Africans I know love them the latest hip-hop album, but then again so do a lot of white suburban kids.

    Something to also show the paradox of this all, is I have many relatives who are American by birth and so I realize there is no one size that fits all as far as their makeup.

    I've never felt the need to define myself as not African American, but that is because I have never felt the need to define myself in the first place.

    As Stizzy posted above in his comment, I'm black, people can make what they want of it.
     
  15. FG

    FG Well-Known Member

    I cant trace my origin either.. I have no clue.. My mother was adopted, all I know is that her father was a "no good, gambling, drinking Jazz musician from America" and my dad was living in East Germany before he came to Sweden when the wall was built - all document were destroyed during WWII -- he was not from there originally, neither was his family... Our surname has been changed numerous times due to the civil unrest up to and during the WWII so there is no way to trace it back.
     
  16. GQ Brotha

    GQ Brotha New Member

    LOL, that is actually fascinating FG.

    As a history buff it would make a great historical data hunt to uncover as much as possible.

    Linking together, America, WWII, East Germany, Sweden.
     
  17. FG

    FG Well-Known Member

    LOL.. Well, to be correct - it wasn't East Germany when he left as he left right when the wall was built. I learned some gruesome stories my father never shared about his escape by his GF he had before he died. I wish I could trace both my mothers and fathers lineage... I am dying to know. I have done some research on my last name and it turns out that is a hybrid name due to the changes of it.. and most likely, all people with that surname are related due to its being changed several times and is sort of ,made up.. it was changed to sound German at some point and then changed to sound Polish and then back again -that is all I know from my father before he passed - He had ties to East Prussia but what they were, I dont know.. On my mother side, nothing apart from my American grand father.

    Maybe you can help me. lol.
     
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  18. GQ Brotha

    GQ Brotha New Member

    :smt043:smt043:smt043

    You know us brothas love to make that shit sound as exotic as possible.

    Not only is she a "Brazilian French Peruvian joint"

    but she has long, flowing dark hair down to her back and her ass is hella thick.

    :D
     
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  19. GQ Brotha

    GQ Brotha New Member

    Looks like his family may have left East Prussia for today's identifiable Germany after all the upheaval of the wars that went on. Prussia always had a significant Slavic population and it is in fact part of Lithuania and Poland today, so that might explain the change to sounding Polish in your surname and then back to German.

    Could it be you are of Scandinavian/Slavic extract.
     
  20. The Dark King

    The Dark King Well-Known Member

    So damn true my boys brag about that shit all the time. Last week we were at Iguana's in Midtown and my friend met this cute girl and first thing he says "I love your eyes and your cheek bones you mind me asking what your background is"
    She says "Italian Swedish and Nigerian" all night this dummy couldn't stop talking about how rare a mix that was. Smh
    Personally cute is cute to me. Maybe because I don't have any mixing in my lineage I don't give it much thought but for a people who wants to be judged on everything except our race we focus a lot of attention on that shit.
     

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