Seal and Heidi Klum

I got your point ma but my point was rather than try to change the unwilling nature of others simply allow them to be who they are and let them burn out. They eventually will. Essentially a fire can not spread without oxygen so don't give it any.

 

I have nothing but love for you Sin! rayer: From your posts to your avatars, they are all gold.

 

ROFLMAO

I agree with a lot of what you're saying. I can't lie and say that my beliefs on relationships aren't a combination of what I thought before my marriage and what I have experienced during its breakup. There's quite a few sharp people here on the forum and between education and life experience I'm sure we've all seen quite a bit in our collective lives. I, for one, enjoy the spirited conversation.

I hear you Sin. I'll keep that in mind as I post. I try to keep cool, but on some topics I can get a bit, shall we say, animated, lol. You're right, we don't know these celebs at all. The most anyone can make is an educated guess.

 

You got that right.....for "some" white women especially those who never dated black its easy to fall into that trap..things do change when some white women see that anger side of a black man...it falls into those stereotypes

 

Kiss it

 

Update?

I'm impressed by his perspective...

Says he's still wearing his wedding ring because he's "still married to this incredible woman"

 

Damn. What a shame. Holla at me Heidi

 

why they broke up....we may never know but the fact , at least on his side of the fence, they are acting civil. that may change when they have to go to court....I hope not tho.

 

Am I the only one sick to my stomach at how Seal is crying for her to come back like some bad 90s R&B song. I heard Boyz II Men is down a member. He should join. Smh.

 

sadly that's how some mofos are

i knew a guy who couldnt handle is liquor and would turn into Mr Hyde after drinking, and treat his woman like shit

she'd leave him and he'd beg for her back when sober...then do the same shit again with his drinking...split again.........beg again...

some relationships become cycles like that...but some people get tired of em

i would just move on if I was Heidi, because people don't change

 

what was the reason for the break up

 

They've always kept a civil front...no natter what...And more-so in this case, he may not have a choice..he's promoting an upcoming album as well.

It's called being humbled. And taking for granted or realizing what you had and losing it. His declarations are no different than say, your wooing serenade video in the ladies Locker room to Espy. He's simply letting Heidi know he wants her and still loves her. Can't fault him for it - it's not like he cheated which might make it futile to get her back.

On the flip-side who knows, he may be FURIOUS she filed on the cusp of his album release - which could directly affect his success...so he is retaliating by publicly laying is on super-thick so his female fan$ might sympathize. And it might prevent Heidi from revealing her negative reasons why, least she be viewed as (airing) the dirty (laundry) of the two.

 

Woo Espy? I was joking around. I'm 30 if I have to woo someone to get or keep her she's not for me and can easily be replaced.
Humble is one thing ie sending flowers and apologizing when you know you're not wrong but this public dispay of romance is weak especially for a woman started messing with him because he got that bbc(true story look it up).
I don't get why its ALWAYS the dudes fault and the dude ALWAYS has to apologize. Another lesson in why its important to bag a chick walks behind you not beside you because eventually that heffa wants to lead.... don't stone me just joking lmao

 

You might be joking but what you think is funny gives others insight into what you really think. :smt069

 

I'm sorry, I thought you were sincere with your compliments on the Espy vid, not pulling a gag. I figured if you were gonna joke, a mock e-card to her email would have sufficed, not a public display of romance which some of the folks here said was a corny-assed way to get a woman's attention..(remember that thread?, lol)

Yeah I know about the BBC, I think he felt the same about HWP (hot white pussy) cause she was a sexy Victoria Secret (Super) rmodel...they both have said it was love at first sight for them.

When did he apologize? Who said it was his fault? Heidi has said nothing...Seal only said "all marriages have problems"...you're seeing male blame that isn't even there, lol.

 

True, true. It can happen, but it's extremely rare.

 

If you ever read our exchanges on this forum its well known I didn't have to make a youtube video to get her attention and I think I said it was for all the women who didn't like the idea of being wooed. It was in reference to that Hope Solo thread which was what people were calling corny. Good try though lol.
Him constantly publicly professing how he feels would make one believe there is an omission of some sorts especially if he's whining about staying together, like I said earlier plain weak. In private fine. We've all been there but going on Ellen like a lame is weak.

 

I thought we weren't talking what happened to that agreement?