Wrote her a love letter...now shes avoiding me....WTF???

ok as u all know i go to an acting school here in NYC and one of the girls i met is this british hottie named Mel...

this is her on the left with her dorm roommate pothead Sarah on the right:



Her accent is so sexy and shes super cute. She kinda has a snotty attitude sometimes and thinks she is always right about everything so thats 1 thing about her that always kinda annoys me, but anyway....

...we met very early on and hooked up, and for some reason I thought this might mean something was gonna go on between us. I started to have all these feelings and I wrote her this page long love letter about wanting to be her boyfriend and stuff....

....and now she doesnt wanna hang out anymore, she acts all distant towards me, and things have just gotten really weird & awkward.


--Should I have just left it at that? A random one night stand, drunken sex thing? Or what? I hear she hooks up with a lot of different guys or whatever but rumors are just that...rumors. I dont know what to believe. And the girl that told me this (Tori) is some dumb blonde airhead chick who is known for being gossip hound so who knows whats true, especially coming from her a$$. Im just so confused. Maybe by writing that letter I scared her off and f*cked up what could've been a good thing. I just wish I knew what the deal was. I really liked her.


Any thoughts?

 

Well, playboy... I would be out there about it and ask her about her feelings about the letter. Rumors say she's a slut but as you said rumors are just that. If she's acting distant towards you that might be a clue. Sounds like she would make a good f*buddy, if you're into that. If she sleeps around you may not want that either. I would tell her you want to talk to her and ask about the letter. At least you will clear things up and you'll know where you stand. Good Luck :!:

 

You prolly scared her away being the drama queen you are

 

Stop writing these women love notes so fast if that is indeed the case because you will scare them off,also I don't think is is a good idea to post a person's pic up and call them a pothead because it is possible that a future employer might see that. You should have just kept is as a hook up and not caught feelings.

 

I'm wondering if you have permission to be posting these photos on this site (or anywhere for that matter)

 

Hahahaha. :lol:
I thought we might still be at school here for a moment.

 

Conversations.

Is the charge of libel a possibility if this person you posted undergoes negative consequences because of the posting? Just asking.

 

Me and her talked it out the other day. Basically I was her "black guy experiment". Meaning she had never been with one before and I was her guinea pig. Its funny I never picked up on this since the DAY WE MET she mentioned how she was always forbidden by her "mum" not to date black boys and she said she always wanted to. I should've known from that moment that any quick hook up would be just that, a quick hook up, nothing more. Like always I catch feelings and got played.

UPDATE:
In an e-mail she first is like, "I'm still in love with my ex-boyfriend" (whom she only "broke up" with because she moved from England to the US to attend our acting school). But now shes like "me and him are just friends and we arent ever getting back together" or whatever. so i dunno what to believe.

But we are still hanging out alot and i cant drop my feelings for her. i dont know what to do but i like her alot even thought she sa bitch and all we do is fight but i get this vibe from her, as if she likes to fight, like its her way of flirting, cause she can be really funny too. she just as sarcastic as i am. our sense of humor are exactly alike, its scary. all i know is i LOVE being around her. her accent, the way she walks, talks, carries herself, is so fly, so sexy. I'm just gonna go for it see what happens. No regrets....

 

HOLY S$*T!! You are really mentally sick. Please get help dude, this can only go so far.

 

im mentally sick because i fall for girls too fast? hmm...maybe you're right?...

 

Sooo what happened?

 

the only good thing about this thread is some of the old posters...got to love chi...she never wasted any time calling a man on the carpet

 

Damn where do I even begin with this mess lol.

First and foremost...a love letter??? Homie, how fuckin old are you? That is high school/junior high shit right there.

Secondly, you might of sucked in bed. She probably didnt like your dick too much.

smdh at some these cats on this website.

 

Lol. Love letter?? Lol smdh also.

 

smh @ bumping 4 1/2 year old threads for no ungodly reason.

 

Northside bumped another of playboys threads that was like 7 years old and asked him how it ended up. Sheet.......after that long playboy doesn't even remember.

 

How bored do you have to be to go digging through the archives for this stuff?

 

Cut him some slack he lost his job........he's got time on his hands til he finds a new one. :smt043

 

whoops didnt even look at the date of this thread lol sorry

 

Wow how callous are you? That shit ain't even remotely funny. Losing a job is no joking matter. Show some compassion or is that something the men should only show to the women. Smdh.