Awesome post, andreboba! :smt026 I realize I will never have credibility with TDK, and that's fine. But I'm so appreciative when others post the very thoughts and sentiments I am trying to communicate.
Who cares my dear? Here are several women, around fourty or over fourty. We all don't feel worthless, ugly or old. Most of us know, what is right or wrong, believe me
TDK has run off a few (putting it mildly) women who aren't thin. Don't let him do the same to you. Your input is valued here even if he doesn't. I wouldn't worry about it. As they say......consider the source.
Yes it is and TDK is in deep shit right now but funny thing is he gets a lot of ass requests so he might not be seen as a woman hater by all the women here lol.
Ok young Captain. I can go into the who social break down so you'd see where I'm coming from but I my role is to be the villain so be it lol. I don't know if you've ever looked on a dating website but people often set parameters. A lot of women don't want men old enough to be their fathers or men under a certain height. As I'm sure there are men who don't want women past child rearing years their prime years. Unless you don't give a fuck about that kind of thing fine why not. I sure there are men who like a soccer mom hairdo and a chick in some mom jeans(if I were talking about you be smart enough to know the evil man would say your name). As far as being offensive hit the fucking ignore button if what I say bothers you to the point of public complaining. Wouldn't a smart mature person be bright enough to click a button and let it be. But nope there's a bunch of winners who would prefer I just do as they say and are pissed that I wont play nice. I personally know I never ran anyone off this forum. That's an incredibly weak cop out.
My rep comments would make you blush my friend. I don't get why you're so anti-me. Thought we always got along. My mistake I guess.
If you're referring to Ches there are many times where I don't even speak to that woman but she insists on trying to sway my pov. She brings it on her self. I'm not going to comb through posts to prove it but like I said earlier if I am so insulting instead of trying to change me just hit ignore. Isn't that the smart thing to do? Unless you (in the general sense not personal) enjoy having something to bitch about(perfect time to point out I used the word bitch but you're smart enough to know I'm not insulting you)
The big 4-0 here with a couple of kids and still fabulous. Fanny used to get under my skin, but I've come to understand that he is who he is, his opinions, whilst offensive, are his own, and they amuse the hell out of me. I know that I'm not past my expiry date and therefore whatever he says on the subject matter does not bother me and I put it all down to his age now.
Show me a single instance in our interaction where I said the contrary. I'd ware that ass out as I've told you before on numerous occasions.
One thing is correct..my nephews are the same age range as he is and I pampered them, while I was already driving a car. But- maybe he is just around 30, he is also already around 30. It is funny sometimes, which bs he says, but the ignore buttom also don't help. His addiction to critisize all and everybody (not only the females, he doesn't feel attracted to, also to males, he thinks he can be their boss)- just to make himself shining out of the crowd, just forces everybody to read, what he writes. 16000!! posts in 2 yrs, I have 3000 and I was active, too.
I think the real reason why people come at you is because you don't actually say these comments in a certain way. for example: When a single young man is looking to start a family, It is more than likely he will be looking for a single young woman. But you don't sugar code. That's really how I read some of your stuff. That's where all that bull crap arguments come from. You don't sugar code your stuff. It is good because I like to see the arguments(I like to see chaos) but it is bad for you because you have to go through them and look like the big bad boogieman. Reality is most guys think like I said(or think like you do) that are in the same situation(single, young and without children). You just got a mean way of saying that stuff.
I tried that route. I won't sit by any longer and see others insulted while he licks my butt. I won't excuse away rudeness as that is just the way he is. I think Desmond Tutu said it best. If you are neutral in situations of injustice, you have chosen the side of the oppressor.