I swear to God I'm not trying to insult you but sometimes I really can't make out what you're trying to say. Is Dark Knife suppose to be a jab? And I am not one to over use the infamous n-word but I am a man who believes in the idea of everything having its time and place. And that simply calling a word evil makes it so. It's like the concept of intention means nothing to you people. Perhaps you live in a polite world where others never use what some might deem as insulting in otherwise "civilized" conversation. I live in a world where myself and my peers use whatever words we fancy with the knowledge and understanding that tone, inflection, and intention mean more than just the word. As far as insulting and degrading her, she's another in the long line of women on here who find insult in the mere mention of a topic that they feel relates to them. If I or another man says we don't like overweight women that's bashing women based on weight. When other women on here say they don't like short men or they prefer tall men there isn't an uproar of men bashing based on height. I don't and will not cater to victim mentality, but if reporting me makes you feel free to do so my friend.
lol trust me ive argued with dumb ass white people when it comes to that, they fail to see the truth and continue like their a victim
Didn't you hear a slur is a slur lol. Kind of liking calling a man and a woman a whore is the same exact thing and carries the same weight and shame lol
Lovely DK, You DO insult, degrade and bash - incessantly, you are like a broken record.... Your view is NOT the mainstream (I know you think the majority of males agree w you but don't speak up)... and the only one you fool by thinking that, is you. In the end.. everybody else will be moving on, and you will be the one you hurt the most with your extremely jaded, cynical biased and dismorphed views. You would do yourself a favor by actually listening for a change and evaluate your stance in anything regarding women, especially ww - or just stop dating them. Like I said, in the end, the women you insult will move on and live their lives, you - on the other hand, is stuck and is the one you punish the most. You make yourself the biggest victim, and you dont even see it. I thought it was funny for a while.. but I really feel sorry for you and really wish you the best. I cant imagine how you got to where you are and I really wish you the very best.. I dont want to see you as DJ4life but your a smidgeon away..... You have been escalating rapidly in the time you have been here.... and you really should be evaluating why. People stop responding to you because you are so incessantly stubborn. I, for some reason cant give up on you, you are like my little brother and I REALLY don't mean that as an insult, its actually a complement. I care.. and I really wish you something better than this. As I said, in the end, you are the one that looses the most. Everyone else will eventually move on and forget... you, are stuck.
You think I don't weigh things out? I tried to see where a lot of the posters were coming from on this argument of using the word nigger and nigga. I thought about how and when the word was used. In my entire life as a black man living in the US. The word has only been used as a term of endearment when other black people use it or on some occasions as a descriptive pronoun where as by others who aren't black usually use it as an insult (barring those who might be singing along to a song). So I came to the conclusion that word itself isn't the problem. The problem is the meaning people attach to the word and what it means to them when using it much like the word bitch which is used often in American language but you never hear a cry for women to ban together to stop usage of the word especially if they don't want to be called that. We seem to be smart enough to apply the word appropriately and understand the meaning when it is said. So simply being told that I should never say the word nigga under any circumstance and by using it gives people the right to say it to me as an insult sounds ridiculous. That has been my overall conclusion. As far as some of what might be considered insulting on this forum I usually do it stir some shit just like a lot of posters do. Like I stated before there is this idea that you're bashing someone personally if you talk about a topic generally. I used the height thing as an example. Several women on this forum have expressed their dislike of shorter men (much unlike weight is something that can't be helped or changed) but you haven't heard one man say they felt like they were being picked on or excluded correct? I just don't cater to over sensitivity. There are plenty of men who are here to pump up egos and make every woman feel gorgeous seeing as I'm not one of them it might be easier to put me on ignore and leave to my "rantings" lol. I'm not stuck nor am I jaded or cynical I just truly see what people are and what they do. Dude it would be in my best interest to believe in fairy tales and rainbows the way some of you do when it comes to love and coupling but I can't ignore what I see and experience. In my world and in my life wealth and looking a certain way equals an awesome life experience(others have said this in one way or another but never get called jaded or cynical) I'm open to being wrong. I always admit it when I am it just seems that most have very short memories big sis.
The last thing you are is open to being wrong and yes, you are cynical and jaded. The alternative is not fairy-tales. You always go to the extreme opposite to justify your view. Why on earth you got that extremely balack or white is bizarre to me.
I really wish there was a way we could see the amount of times I've said fair enough on this forum lol. Well as I've said before until I see actual proof of the contrary I am compelled to carry my pov. A lot of you see one positive thing and focus on that and ignore the bad. I applaud you. I am burdened with seeing everything not just what I want to see.
Case in point.... the way YOU WANT to see it. Very telling. Your "fair enough" is really not counting for anything the way you carry on. Nobody is fooled by your "fair enough". Come one, do you think we are that stupid we buy that? We all know it means nothing and nobody has convinced you of nothing. It simply boils down to the fact that you are comfortable in the corner you painted yourself into and that you have no burden to carry, its every body elses fault. Nothing you say or do is wrong, the situations you find yourself in, has nothing to do with you. Its just life and reality.. you are not accountable. As I said, in the end, YOU are the one that pays the biggest price and as long as you can not see that,,, well I find that very sad. You are 2 inches away from DJ4LIfe, great future you have, unless you start to listen... I just wish you take charge and change that, its a victim mentality you have and its sad you dont even recognize that.
The problem is, you don't merely say "I don't find overweight women attractive." You and others go beyond to the point that it becomes rude. You are basing your evaluation of a woman on her appearance much the same way racists evaluate people - by their appearance (skin color). I have no problem with you or any man saying they don't prefer older women or overweight women, or short women or whatever. But when you start saying they look disgusting, they're lazy, they're past their prime, etc., and when you start in on the guys who like bigger women, that's crossing the line. State your preference and respect others' preferences. Is that so hard? I find it ludicrous that you even point the finger at overweight women. I've seen your video in the Ladies Locker Room.
Don't know when the day will ever come that we as a people are going to acknowledge that using a disparaging term for blacks as a means of communication is the height of utter ignorance. There is always some excuse, rationalization or red herring discourse about its utilization. No one stated at any point what that magazine posted was acceptable. What is the contention of the matter is that walking around calling yourself a nigga, certainly opens you up to being called one. If I'm walking the streets talking about I'm that "fuckin swagged out nigga" Or saying "niggas could suck my dick" How the hell do you think people are going to look at me as a man when trying to claim respect. Its a reflection of absolute ignorance and a low class mentality. How many educated, upwardly mobile, respectable blacks do we see using that term in their discourse with each other. Do you think you would dare catch Michelle Obama using that word for example to Barack or others. Some folks need not get shit twisted. I always tell people. I pride myself on being a well spoken black male, but I could also spit some Ebonics vernacular if push comes to shove, but I respect myself as a black person to know better about our history and what it entails. What is accomplished by using that word except making ourselves look wholly ignorant. When you call your own self a nigga, dont be surprised when others call you one. You set the ball up on a tee for them. All the excuses and rationalizations in the world doesn't alter that you choose to reference yourself as a "NIGGA" That leaves it open to being interpreted by others in any way. Its like when some black women walk around talking about I need me a real "nigga" W.T.F. What the hell does that even mean.
Correct. I live in a polite world, but that's not accidentially, it's intentionally. If someone doesn't want to have manners or talk in a decent, adult and educated way, I don't want him/her in my life. I know, out of experience, that these people will cause problems. I was working hard to be where I am and I want much more, so I will not waste my reputation or my energy for nonsense like that. On the forum it just costs my nerves and I feel sorry for the people you attack, but I also know, that nothing, in the near future, will convince you to change. So at the end I agree with FG, just with one restriction- I don't have her pity. You've hurt a lot of girls here, with a smugly smile on your face and you know that. You want to be stubborn- I will be stubborn...the reason, why I've said I will report you...Let's see, which bullishness gets more on webbies nerves..lol:smt066
LOL, I like white women that have a big, bubbly, milky, white ass on them. Yeah I said it. I prefer some meat on a woman. Sometimes I see some of those infomercials talking about reduce your weight, trim your fat and they show those "Before and After" shots of the women's butts. I will look at the women like wasn't a damn thing wrong with your ass in that bikini before woman.
When I use the term past your prime its past your physical prime that's science that's not me kid. And its an accurate assessment when talking about people of a certain age. The only reason I don't mention men past their prime is because I don't date men. Sorry you pass the age of your highest social value. That's science not me boo. Again with the false comparisons. I can tell you're limited as far as analytical reason is concerned. Ches i'll go shirtless pic for shirtless pic anytime you want boo.