True, but on the other hand, I think it's better, if they stand outside the exclusive club, because honestly said, what does one want with them? As soon as someone outside doesn't agree, he or she is running away and leaves you? But it would be interseting to know, whether someone already had made the experience that he or she was left, because of the influence of someone outside the relationship?
Yes. I love white women and I always have. If she's never dated interracially before and I'm her very first black man, then it's really no biggie. I could care less as to why she never did in the past because I'd just be fortunate enough to have her at all. If I encounter a WW who only dates BM, I'd be just as happy if not more so. Welcome back IB.;-) *waits for IB to post a new foot pic in the ww feet thread.*
Thanx, Tony! It's time to give myself a pedicure, cause I'm overdue, so I'll try and remember and post one for ya...lol
I would date a lady who has never been in an IR relationship before. As with any relationship, it's what the two people inside it make of it.
Depends on her circumstances but I prefer a woman who has before more so because at this point in my life I no longer want to be a token negro explaining" black culture" to people.
Not a big deal to me at all. What I look for are women that are secure, sexy and smart, the three S's. As long as we share some mutual interests and I click with them its all good.
We all have to get started somewhere.. If I was just dating or whatever, I wouldn't care if it was their first time in an interracial realtionship. The only place I'd likely find a BM to date is in the US and since I'm in the DC area.... a lot less stares, lol. However, if I was really looking for someone to bring home and meet the family/settle down with, I'd want them to already have been in an IR relationship in the past. Either that or they'd have to be VERY secure. This is mainly because I'm from an island with only about 500,000 people... IR dating is very unseen here (I've only seen one IR couple here in the capital city... not a fair assessment, but you get the idea, lol). This means there would be a LOT of staring, and a person would have to be able to deal with that. It all depends on where I'd see the dating going and how secure they are. But, whatever happens happens. Never know, someone might come along without the security or the experience and it would just 'feel right'.
lol, OH, how I would love to be the token negro of that Russian college chick who bought a condo for whooping 88 Million dollars in NYC with billioniare Ruskie daddy, oh how I would love to bend backwards do cart wheels and teach her all the blk culture in the world, lol.....
Neither my last partner nor I had been in an IR before but I had gone out with a couple of BM. I was fine with the relationship, but he was never really comfortable dating a WW. For one, I think he is still very attracted to BW. I don't think he was really looking to date a WW when he met me.
I like it if they have experienced interracial dating, but it doesn't bother me if they haven't. I've dated a few men who'd never dated a WW before. As others have already mentioned, the advantage of someone having previous experience is he knows what to expect, & it's easier if he knows he can handle what comes with it, but when it boils down to it, it's about the individual. If the attraction, interest, timing, compatibility etc. are there, the lack of IR experience isn't a good reason not to date someone IMO.
