Fatten Him Up

Ain't that also the truth...

 

No as it should it be

Fat people (men included) shouldn't walk around with over inflated egos. Its literally killing them.

 

Nah man, can't stand hearing someone with a great figure talk about how 'fat' they are.

 

In fairness its because there are too many dudes willing to hook up with them making them believe its an actual option.

 

From that perspective I hear you but nothing worst than a person who's 50 pounds overweight acting like Gods gift.

 

With all due respect, men, take a long, hard look in the mirror and you will understand why so many women think this way.

 

I think I'm missing something here?

 

Yes you are and its called logic and there is none in the statement chesbay made. Granted that some men may make disparaging remarks about women's weight, women make some of the most vicious statements about women who have some weight even if it is minimal. Women ridicule their fellow women if they have a big ass while most men love it. I think the women should rather look in the mirror.

 

Funny, most men i know don't talk that way to women; rather, the pressure women feel seems to be self imposed, primarily from their intake from media (kinda like soda addicts), and other women.

 

true and false on that point

 

Exactly. Again another men are the problem statement without seeing the real problem. Smdh.

 

I work in the Conde Naste building, and the elevator talk can be hilarious.

Girl A: " i think i should eat a salad"

Girl B: "yeah, you need to loose at least 5 lbs"

Me ("you'all need sammiches, how do you sit on that boney ass?")

 

funny is a lot of people think if you thin you do not eat

 

I always say that women go the extra mile to look good for other women. My ex who was a size 2 or whatever... something tiny.... would not have sex during the day because she felt that she was fat and she didn't want me to see it. Despite me telling her over and over and over that I thought she had a wonderful body, she just had this thing about herself. A friend of mine invited us over to get in her new Jacuzzi, she would not go because she didn't want my friend to see how 'fat' she was. It drove me up the fucking wall!

I had another ex that was not as extreme, but not too far off. With both of these girls, all of my friends (male and female) thought they were absolute knockout gorgeous... but they just refused to accept it.

Same with make-up, most men that I know don't give a shit about make-up. Personally, I loathe the shit. I love a woman who gets up, washes her ass and face, brushes her teeth and is good to go. As opposed to spending hours caking on that shit that's going to just ruin their skin as they get older. I'd be willing to bet dollars-to-donuts that most women have far more women compliment them on make-up than men. I'm also pre-calling any woman who says that's not true a liar.

 

PD ain't none of these broads gonna disagree with you homie. As they shouldn't since you're 100 percent right lol.

 

LOL..correct:smt031. Of course not all girls in that extreme ( I am i.e. exhibitionistic), but all women have that behaviour, more or less..

 

Many women (not all), if honest, will say they fight to maintain slim, fit bodies in order to be attractive to men. I will get flack for that but that is my experience. Men prefer slim women. That has been established many times over on this forum and in life in general. I have had many discussions with women over the years about this, both when I was slim and now that I am not. I don't want to infer that men are the sole reason women are conscious of being "fat," but it is a big one.

Read through these threads and note how often men comment about how gross or disgusting it is if a woman carries any extra weight. And if she is overweight, the only men she will get are those who "are desperate and willing to hit anything that moves." How does that make any woman feel? Paranoid about her body. I have seen in it the lives of women I know who are terrified to gain even a couple of pounds for fear their man will look elsewhere. And let's face it, men, being the visual creatures they are, will look at the next hottest chick, even if the one they have is hot. We know this, but it still jabs like a tiny knife when we catch him looking. (Yes, women look too, but for myself, when i'm in love, I have eyes for my guy only. Other men may be pretty scenery, but that's it.)

In my own life, I was almost 5'5" and weighed 125 lbs when I got married. My ex liked me even thinner (I had no boobs or booty). Over the first year of marriage, I gained 15 lbs (I wasn't as active as I had been and was taking the pill, both of which contributed to the weight gain.) I was still within the acceptable weight range for my height. But my husband thought I looked fat. I can't tell you how that worked on my psyche. I had never had to worry about my weight prior to that.

Women are conditioned at an early age to be thin because only thin is sexy. And where does that idea come from?

 

The whole super thin thing is more of gay obsession that spilled over into fashion which then spilled over into popular media. Asking that someone stay height weight proportionate is not a herculian effort. It just requires a little discipline and an hour of activity a day. If you can devote that much time to tv then investing the time into your health and relationship should be a no brainer.
And btw most men might look but a good man would never disrespect himself or his family because someone is hot and new. That's cowardly.

 

You are very right..the pressure on women is very high, but there are some men that prefer curvy women.

Weight problems can ruin a woman, no doubt about that and the constant insults don't really make it better. And- age, pregnancies are factors, too.

A few weeks ago I've seen a report about girls between 12-15yrs, nearly all of them talked about loosing weight and how fat they are (definitly they weren't). They are thinking like that, because of theis stupid Germanys Top Model show.

 

I got you, and I can agree with that. One of my good friends from this forum pointed out to me that I obviously go for petite women. Of course, I fought back saying "That's not true, soandso that I dated was not a small woman". Her response was, yeah but what about GirlA, GirlB, GirlC, and GirlD. Basically the ratio of 'big' to 'small' heavily favored small.

Men have the same issues though. Why do you think so many men pump their bodies full of synthetic supplements that damage their liver and spend so much time in the gym? Big muscles, low BF% and nice abs. It's for women! Also evidenced on these very boards is the fact that it's the soapy models that women drool over their keyboards over. Men may not be as obvious or vocal about it, but believe me it doesn't go unnoticed.

Disclaimer: NOT FISHING
I'll admit, I have my own hangups about posting pictures in this forum, because I do not have the adonis physique. I run, mountain bike, rock climb, surf, etc.,. etc.,. so my physique is more athletic than it is bulky muscular... and I'm fine with it, if I wasn't I'd have changed it by now. I'm just very aware of 'whats popular'.

But yeah, long story short it's definitely a 2-way street.