Fatten Him Up

I think our needs change as we age, which is why our "tastes" change. JMO of course. And hey, if we all liked the same people/type, there would be a lot of people missing out and dying alone. LOL

 

I AGREE, wholeheartedly. Fat rolls are not curves. "Big so-called "Beautiful" Women" are not necessarily beautiful. It is very loosely defined - as loose as the skin on their abdomens, breasts, and buttocks. Many of them look like beasts of burden. It is not fucking natural. It is a disgusting state of being. They do a disservice even to the name of Rubens (the artist), from whence the term "Rubenesque" originates...

Also zaftig, a Yiddish word, which means to carry your weight very well, a beautiful shapely figure... has been abused to the highest degree... These women are in no way proportionate and are a disservice to the human race - they are a testament to gluttony and poor breeding.

I am around 180 lbs and 5'6. My boyfriend was 6'1 and gained some weight, worked out, until he was around 220 - he was a beautiful Adonis of a man, nearing 50, while I am close to 38. He can carry me up a flight of stairs and makes me feel gorgeous when I am around him (which is not often - we don't live in the same city).... I won't date an obese man. Never have and never will. I am a curvaceous and strong woman who walks lightly and proudly and carries herself well. I will only date a man who carries himself in the same way.

 

I'd say that you're the one who's being naive, or more likely drawing from a limited well of experience. There are men who aren't in the best shape, going bald, and possess a variety of other aesthetic shortcomings who have attractive wives and girlfriends that love them. I've seen it and the notion that these men are wealthy is ridiculous, as it is not only statistically improbable but discounts the idea that women aren't willing to let other traits function as stand-ins for traditional notions of handsomeness.

 

In LA? Negro please. LA is probably the econd most shallow city I've vistited outside of Miami with NY being a close third. I don't doubt you've seen pretty with less attractive men but I wouldn't doubt those women were with them before they got fat or balding. Women are just as shallow as men if not more so in general.

 

There are a shit ton of lonely people who die alone kid lol. You remind me of my sister she thinks because she found love pretty early in life and is happy that everyone will find it totally ignorning her 20 single female friends lol.

 

Ha, awesome!

 

True and true, some peeps wear it well. I had to figure out what was healthy for me when I first moved out to Colorado... I thought I was fit when I got here HA! My ass got a rude awakening real quick! I'd go out running or skiing and my lungs felt like I poured tabasco on them b/c that high altitude was ripping me a new one. I could get back to 250-260 and carry it good but it's not pragmatic way to go living out here.

 

This.

 

I had a whole rant written out to address the direction this thread has taken and lost it, which is just as well. The bottom line is: We are all unique and have our own unique preference. That should be all we need to state. It's not necessary to tear down the people who don't match your preference, or to bash people who prefer something you don't. It's simple enough to say "I prefer petite blondes with a big booty" instead of saying that and following it up with something nasty and degrading about what you don't like. Or presuming to know how the other side thinks and making generalizations based on those presumptions. Why should any of us have to defend our preference? We all have a right to like what we like for reasons that are our own.

I find it ridiculous that people with the education and level of intelligence on here still feel the need to resort to this bashing.

 

What bashing? :smt017

 

Iggy,
In recognition of your fine photo contribution of Kristen Bell, I thought I might finalize the portrait........

 

Best post in this thread.

 

lol, someone neg-repped me because I don't think sloppy fat gluttonous women (or people, men included) are beautiful.

There is nothing beautiful about someone's stomach hanging down and touching one's kneecaps, or one leg being bigger than the other and flowing over your shoe onto the floor from some freak obesity issue.

There is nothing beautiful about not being able to walk or have sex normally or having to have other people take care of you. This is not how God intended us to be!!!!

If it's because of gluttony, then God help you and it must be a horrible addiction, just as bad as alcoholism, and there must be some kind of intervention. Lucky for you there is such a thing as stapling your stomach these days. I'm not even skinny, but these girls at my work that have had gastric bypass don't even speak to me, don't smile or anything - it's almost like they hate me, when I've never said a word (except for to smile and be pleasant). Strangely, they've had this surgery to shrink their stomachs, yet they eat just as much or MORE than I do for lunch. Also for the record, one of my best friends there has had gastric bypass and used to weigh 400 lbs, so it's not my being an awful person - it's their hatred. They hate me because I'm not "skinny", but I don't have to have gastric bypass to keep myself from being a fatass. I weigh 180 lbs and look pretty and dress beautifully and it pisses them off. Even the receptionist is "obese" (clinically), but she doesn't have a rotten attitude -she's a sweetheart and so she seems (and is) beautiful and everybody loves her - the guys flirt with her constantly...

I would date a guy who was 300 lbs - if he were about 6'3 or more and carried himself with grace and pride, like I do. It has to do with style and bearing, and being attractive in the first place. If you have bad genes, losing weight will only reveal it more and more. Good genes can handle more weight.

 

Completely agree there.

As for the "bashing" goes, I must admit that I am very outspoken and will state my opinion on things whenever I choose. In this thread, I was just saying how overly PC our society has got in regards to body types(especially those of females)

 

Agreed.

 

Thanks, Sin!

 

Well, since most of the country leans towards obesity, a similar preference from a preponderence of said population is to be expected.

 

Yeah that's the catch 22 joint

women want a stud when they're a dud

they want a guy who brings in the bread like a traditional man, but don't want him slapping her, telling her to make him a fucking sandwich, or running the show like a traditional man in a traditional family where women had their role and played it to the t (wait wat?)

 

A lot of them want equality that only benefits them. Its actually fascinating.

 

Its chivalry when they like it...sexism when they don't. smh