how to make his hair really wide weavy?

I see what you mean, and to an extent I'd agree. From the broadest sense, it is the same. Dating a person is dating a person. The smaller nuances just come through experience. I'm not sure what kind of advice I could give someone who is 'considering dating a BM' aside from to say look at him as a person and not a color, which is what I meant when I said it's the same as dating a WM. I certainly wouldn't even think to approach it from a hair angle.

 

very well stated. we do need to make a thread that is geared toward that and have an honest and thoughtful convo about. Are guest up for it ? I will make it .

 

Agreed - like I said, I think how a man wants to wear his hair is up to him. Would a gorgeous set of dreads turn my head on the street? Yes, just like a lot of men like to see long hair on a woman. But I like my hair short, I think it looks better, and I wouldnt change that to suit a guy, and I wouldnt ask him to change how he likes his hair to suit my preference. To me, that's about respect.

 

Jordan, I wasn't trying to be rude, I honestly did not understand. Of course she's going to make mistakes if English isn't her first language, I just needed clarification to understand what she was getting at.

 

Lol

like jaisee said tho, there is a problem with many blacks, that don't appreciate their hair. I for one let it grow out a while before cutting it back down. We were given a specific type of hair just like everyone else and I love it. I hate when people tell me it's time for a cut.

 

On the whole people changing people thing, I was under the impression that this was a standard, especially for women

they're usually neater, have better fashion sense, etc. I haven't met one girl that hasn't tried to doll me up for nights out

 

online can cause a lost in translation.

Im a bald guy and love it. I save on hair cuts because I do it myself.

its like that for real. women love dressing us up. dont fite it just flow with it

 

If the hair dry and the ends look bad or some other problem and look bad, ok to try and do something if not nothing wrong natural ..