Random Conversation 2.0

Yeah I did. Men don't generally view sex the way most women. Our biological predestination wont allow it. You as individual might view it differently but in the majority of situations I've been involved with or witnessed girls want more than just sex. When I see a woman who is all about just sex red flag goes up just like if I see a guy willing to commit very quickly. Red flag.

 

interesting

 

No, you didn't.

I asked why it's okay for you to want sex, but it's not okay for the women you have sex with. You still haven't answered that question. So, let me ask it a different way.

Why is it okay to hold the women you're sleeping with to a different standard than you set for yourself?

 

I thought I answered that.
But I don't typically sleep with women I've only know for a couple of weeks. That was something I did when I was younger and reckless but as an adult when a woman is willing to have sex without really knowing me its a urn. I assume she's fucking a lot of guys.

 

Missing the point. YOU claimed little respect for a woman who would sleep with you before 3 weeks of dating. YOU are therefore making the madonna/whore double standard YOURS. And then you claimed that it's women who have those standards. I asked you, after your comment on oral sex, if blow jobs were part of your three week rule or not and you never answered.

Why would you think that women looking for a relationship as opposed to having a good time would withhold sex for some X amount of time (and of course, those rules change, man to man, so women never know what the "magic" number is supposed to be)? Sometimes I think you really don't believe women like sex, that it's just something we do to please men.

I notice you also don't seem to hold yourself to that 3 week standard. You don't claim to be "not respectable" if you sleep with a woman before that time is up. Why is it you have a different set of rules for women and for yourself?

BTW - my age has zip to do with my not looking for a relationship. Just like everyone else, I'd love to have a partner - I get lonely too, quite a bit, and miss partnership. It's the MS that prevents that - I cannot expect a man to take on me and an unpredictable disease. If I didn't have MS you can bet your arse I'd be looking for a partner, but I wouldn't be playing silly "you can touch me here on date X" games, because I'm a grown up woman who knows what she wants, and doesn't hold to a double standard of sexual behavior

 

So men who like to fuck are cool dudes, and women who like to fuck are crazy??
LOLOL Yanno - we're the ones who have multiple orgasms.

You are so very wrong about this, DK. I was never in my LIFE wounded that a guy considered a situation just sexual, as long as he was up front with me right from the start, as I would be with a guy.

DK, you know I like you. But what you know about women could be engraved on the head of a pin with room left over for the Oxford Dictionary

 

I answered that in my post to DB. But to dumb it down further men and women ARE different. Sorry just a statement of fact.

 

DUDE. Multiple orgasms. Just sayin'

 

Bad assumption. Maybe she finds you hot. Again, you're working from a place where you assume women who want sex are emotionally fucked up. That's just - weird.

 

that's just the way it is, cupcake

we get to run around topless, you have to wear bras or a shirt (even if your chest are flatter than a board)

don't be hatin

 

Again, you havent answered the question. WHY is it wrong for a woman to have sex - worse still to WANT sex, when you want it too? Why the double standard?

 

That's you genius. Not every single woman is like you and I did say in my experience yours might be different. And let me point out something a woman doesn't have to be upfront. If all they want is sex and never mention it guys generally aren't hurt by it. Many women as illustrated by this very forum don't like when a man isn't upfront. Men don't care.

 

I'm not hating, I think it's silly and ridiculous. Jeebus, Petty, for a man who puts so much energy into being healthy and looking good (and you do), it surprises me that you think the women you're trying to attract are nuts to sleep with you.

 

lmao

fuccccck you got me there

:smt043

 

You'd obviously be surprised by a lot of men I know. But what interests me here is that you're saying men are the expert on how to get women, and they're also the experts on what men want.

Is there ANYTHING women are expert at? Or are we all just dumb holes who don't know what we want, shouldnt want sex but should have it after some mysterious amount of time you decree (but don't tell us, so we probably will either wait too long or not long enough, and to hell with what we want anyway)?

 

I never said it was right or wrong just says a lot to me if they're willing to have sex with someone they don't know. That's wreckless and I don't do that. Want sex all you want but the minute I see you as easy that's all you'll ever be period the end. No one wants to make a ho into a housewife.

 

Seriously, I dont think I've seen your face, but from the neck down you remind me of the younger guy I was seeing - I could ping quarters off his muscles. A woman would have to be brain dead not to want to sleep with a body like that.

 

So, as a rule, your assumptions are always correct? Because there's never a chance that assumptions are based on...thin air?

How do you get to dictate what a woman who is interested in sex is thinking? If she's interested in sex, and hell, sex with YOU even, why is that a crime against her? And why is it not a crime against you? Especially with the little 'tests' you give a girl to see if she will sleep with you at a point when she's clearly interested? And you have said yourself that a woman knows if she wants to sleep with you within five minutes, so, by your rules, she's not allowed to mention that or act on it until the time you've dictated, but not communicated, as a method to weed out, what exactly? A woman who's comfortable in her sexuality?

I truly do not understand your thoughts on this.

 

no argument there, lol

:smt047

fine fine, i'll stop cosigning TDK...i was on autopilot anyway

(im not reading all this shit)

 

I never said women aren't experts at anything you sure know how to annoy the hell out of me. I said men are generally better at giving advice on how yo get women because of the decades spent getting women. Women don't have to pursue men so you don't have the experience to give guidance on it. Like I said before there's a difference between observation and actually doing.

Never said women don't want sex but there's a difference between class and whorish behavior.