Mehcad Brooks & Elisabetta Canalis

ditto

i remember my family telling me i'd become a manager somewhere, because i was very articulate

i also remember a white girl telling me i was the 'whitest black guy she'd ever met' while walking home from tennis practice

:smt021

 

Story of my life bro. Add that to the fact I was on cross country not the basketball team(despite the fact we won the CHSAA Championship) and did the school play(one of the leads in Oliver Bill Sykes baby. Still remember my songs lol) and the fact I was in honors I didn't stand a chance. My only saving grace was I was big for my age(5'10 at 14), I did karate, and it was the mid to late 90s when it was really cool to be black so by association I made others cool.

 

im just sayin

growing up in america as a black man is a very 'unique' and paradoxical experience

 

Nope.

Its the same as everyone else's experience.

That notion of 'blackness' is all in your head.

 

cant tell if ur being serious or joking with that one

but uve probably never had a threatening white guy, call u nigger to your face in a white neighborhood, or had parents telling you to embrace your blackness, but speak like a white man and do what they do

 

Ain't that the truth and trust me LA was joking

 

I think it's just a question of admitting it.

I believe most women (regardless of race) could list at least one black man they found attractive. I don't really buy into the whole "I'm just not attracted to x y z."

I never really found Indian women attractive but I've met a few that have dazzled me. Granted I'm a dude, but I figure it works in pretty much the same way.There are exceptions to every rule.

Besides, when it comes to white women and black men, the first question isn't about attraction.--It's about openness and willingness to risk it despite a perceived stigma.

I was out recently at a bar and this white girl and I met eyes. She was with some of her friends (I think one of them said something but I can't be sure) and I was on my way out so I just figured I'd call it a night. Instead, she starts to follow me, catching up to me and asking if I wanted a smoke. I told her I didn't but that we could chill outside anyway.

On the way down she's complementing me--all seemed good. Then we get outside and she's like "it's too bad." I'm like "huh?" "Color."

I left quickly after that. No point in trying to convince someone who admitted they were attracted that it's okay to be attracted...in 2011 in a big liberal city.

LOL, at least she was honest. Anyway, I've noticed that the more adamantly a white girl appears to be averse to the brothers, the more (secretly) attracted she is. After all, a girl who simply wasn't attracted--and I've met some of those--would treat you neutrally (if not be friendly). But if you're "not attracted" why go out of your way to avoid the person?

 

Wow. WTF? If she wasn't interested, why the hell follow you out? I just don't understand some people.

And I agree on the other bolded part - I'm not generally attracted to Indian men at all, but I have a friend whose boyfriend is Indian and Scot and the man is drop dead mouth wateringly gorgeous, as well as a sweet man and very sexy. Unfortunately, he's also very gay.

I don't think there's an ethnicity or race that I haven't found at least one or two guys attractive.

 

What a surprise the woman who is willing to date bm is open to other men of color lol

 

LOL! What's been interesting to me lately is discovering how many of my white middle aged married forever to a white guy friends harbor a secret lusting for good looking black men. They're all over 30, sorry gents, but if any of them were to wander (or become single), I think it would be in the direction of black guys.

 

At least you're honest

 

Always. As I've said before, in my case other than one guy I dated briefly years ago, I didn't run into a lot of black men outside of work, so opportunity wasn't really there. A friend of mine pointed out it was hard for me to meet men in general when I was working 60-80 hours a week and raising a child.

Black men generally never evinced much interest in me until recently - I have no idea why that is, but I'm glad it's changed.

 

is this the part where you tell us about attractive bm?

 

You mean that there are middle aged (and older) WW who wouldn't mind chasing after black dick (that's attached to good looking, younger BM) once their marriages to non-BM end? Freddy's never heard of such a thing. Tell us more. :roll:

 

No, that's really not what I'm saying. The age of the BM isn't a factor - they're just women who married young in most cases, and have been out of the dating scene a long time, but who are attracted to black men and would be open to dating them if they were single.

 

Kind of sad

 

they may find them good looking but thats about it, if someones got no desire for someone then thats how it goes

 

But for an entire race? Seriously? That shit is actually racist. Every group has its exceptional hotties.

 

no ones gonna meet an entire race, yup they do but just some people know what they like and it seems to bother people these days, like everyone is supossed to like every race of people

if they are racist then there is no point losing sleep over them, they aint gonna change their views or ways, some do many wont, some of the stuff i have read is shocking

 

When you're married and faithful, you forego acting on your attraction to anyone. It's kind of part of the deal.