The only time you care about bigotry is when you think it's directed toward WM. I noticed that about you.
I believe she was responding to the last line of his post, as if to say, "come on now, do you really think that's how I feel?" At any rate, she's not here any more to defend herself, thanks to you. Give yourself a pat on the back.
They always come back people lol. She'll probably just lurk until it seems better like many people who "leave"
She's going through a lot right now. I'm sure she just needs time and truthfully this place ain't the best answer to a broken heart
she left because this place is beyond negative and after disclosing some very personal information, she's called a pig. at this rate, they'll be so many women leaving this forum that it will all be just angry black men ranting at each other
Tarshi after she disclosed what happened to her I expressed sympathy and tried to explain where a lot of us are coming from in terms of cops. I wasn't negative towards her nor were any of the male posters except for Flame who by the way can just be put on ignore if you don't like him. If we're not ass kissing or complimenting each other than this forum is thought of as negative. I don't get why we can't just have disagreements and move on. I just want to point out the men do it all the time. I got into with swirl today and guess what its already forgotten. I've gotten into with you and FG and a couple of hours later I am completely over it or if I'm not I just take a break. You're a veteran and most repped member of WWBM. How would you prefer we interact?
Yeah she's mentioned it several times and I imagine that's part of the reason she doesn't want to deal with the bs right now. Can't blame her.
Tam is good people but like a lot of posters we get so fixated on something someone said that we didn't like that we can't appreciate good stuff. There are certain people who have to stay on ignore for the good of the forum and my own mental health but for the mass majority of people on here there isn't anything that was so bad that couldn't be forgiven and looked past. I don't know if some of us are too negative or some of us are just too sensitive. You'd think with all the brave survivors on this board of have been through personal wars and literal wars we wouldn't be so easily rattled, so easily shaken. To our core everyone on here is a decent person capable of far more light than darkness(had to borrow your line from earlier I liked it lol) and I guess we get so wrapped up in the negativity almost waiting to be offended that we forget that a lot of the people on here have been supportive and caring through a lot of the shit in our lives and on a lighter note just there to entertain and take our minds off the mundane of the everyday. I don't have to ask can we get along just wish more of us would just choose to.