C'mon, Mikey - you don't believe we are? Wow, I've never heard of that...lol I had one Asian friend who was Japanese and she was engaged to a Filipino. I don't think there were any family beefs, but an interesting observation you've presented nonetheless. My Asian friends dated Black or White, but never Asian, except the above chick...lol
http://shanghaishiok.com/2011/05/10/white-man-asian-woman-bias/ There's a link there too. I think (and this is personally my opinion) if you're in an interracial relationship of any sort, we're basically in the "same boat", if you know what I mean. I don't think one type is worse than the other. I also browsed on racist site and came across a thread where there was an overwhelming amount of hate towards white men who dated asian women. The folks on there called the White guys wiggers and said the asian women looked ugly.
Japanese were notoriously racist...remember WW2? Japan was trying to take over the Philippines. But yes, there are some Asians that have a disdain for other Asians. Kinda like some blacks share the same sentiment towards other blacks. Also no one discussed how Asian Men in America are sometimes even rejected by Asian women themselves. When it comes to interracial dating I think Asian Men and Black Women sometimes get the short end of the stick.
I'm not talking about this site you fucking moron. In general bm/ww couples get scrutinized more than any other. Why do you think people always stereotype white women who date black men as trash? It doesn't matter how good she is or how fine she is. She will get devalued just based on the strength that she's with a black man. They are also indirectly devaluing us as men. You can go to any forum outside of this one and when threads come up about bm/ww couples it's always filled with negativity and hatred. They take the very worse BM/WW couples they can think of and try to pass it off as your average BM/WW couple. WM/AW couples don't receive none of the hatred that we get at all. So shut the fuck up boy. You don't know shit about the world.
Okay, we'll play by your rules then. Show me some links. Here's one I've got: http://www.city-data.com/forum/relationships/197845-why-do-white-women-love-black.html
I'm not denying or disagreeing that the other couplings don't get backlash, but I'm sorry, we do have it the worst. I know they have disdain, but I never heard that in reference to choosing a WM over an AM of a different ethnicity. That's a new one to me, but like I said, all my Asian friends dated only Black or White. Yeah, I remember reading about AM and BW were last on some list(s) of IR dating choices.
It's sad but some minorities believe dating white is 'trading up' so to speak, so to some asian women dating a white man is an example of that...some black people believe dating a white person is trading up too. There's a difference between having a certain preference but IMHO internalized racism sickens me.
Yeah, I know all about it. It's very sad indeed. I agree. People need to do some self-introspection, especially when they date interracially for the wrong reasons and more times than not, they don't think they have a problem, yet the issues are deep-seeded.
Money is one reason for that. White people (especially White men) make more money than people of other ethnic groups.
http://www.topix.com/forum/news/journalism/T4OEHSDBMNH57PPAT http://www.topix.com/forum/afam/TQCPPTT6PFOC7N7KR http://www.topix.com/forum/topstories/TLDI4NFTT1MGKM1CU/p2 http://www.chimpout.com/forum/showthread.php?78666-How-dumb-can-a-Cougar-Mudshark-be& http://www.chimpout.com/forum/showthread.php?78634-Niggerlover-Miley-Cyrus-does-her-mudshark-rap.& http://www.chimpout.com/forum/showthread.php?66538-Joss-Stone-mudshark& http://www.chimpout.com/forum/showt...shark-and-Nig-thrown-out-of-Northern-Ireland& http://www.chimpout.com/forum/showthread.php?140588-Niggers-and-white-women http://www.youtube.com/user/Estonianbeauty http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=itD9NNpA7nI&feature=channel_video_title http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=f2S9o3YLfvM&feature=related http://www.youtube.com/user/Chicaloka310 This is a small sample of the hatred that many people have for BM/WW couples. Nobody is coming close to be as hated as these unions. Like I said boy you don't know shit about the world.
the good news is that not all white people look at IR between bm and ww like that. Just keep your head on a swivel, that's all. in other news, the UK still does not understand the deep-rooted racism towards blacks from whites in america.
True... Nobody bats an eye lash for wm/aw couples..... probably only sf people and they don't count anyways.... wm/bw or bm/lw dont get an ounce of what bm/ww gets and its just weird to me. Oh well.....
Well, here's an answer coming from a WM. He's saying that black men carry themselves like assholes towards white men while they're with their significant other. Maybe it isn't necessarily about our race, but the character and the way we act. I guess he believes that IRs just occur with the intent to "aggravate" that person of a certain race. http://thefreshxpress.com/2009/08/interracial-dating-if-white-men-dont-care-why-should-we/
Dehumanizing, like the nutcases who think women have no agency. He's assuming that neither the ww nor the bm in this situation have anything better to do than spend their lives thinking up things to annoy him.
