they may not be the right one for you .

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This is a decent article. I wish I had done the same before I married my exwife. I had that "pit in my stomach" feeling too and I didnt listen. damn. I will not do it again.

what do you think of the article and what were those signs you had about a person you wish you had listened to or you are glad you listened to (you missed a bullet. how did you find out you missed a bullet) ?

 

I havent read it yet, but I know exactly what you mean about the pit of the stomach thing - should have listened before I married my ex. My then teenage nephews were the only one onto his game, and my sister told them to keep their mouths shut because they were kids - I wish they'd spoken up and I'd listened.

One really odd kind of thing - I never liked my ex husbands natural "smell"...I learned, if the olfactory chemistry isn't there, keep the hell away.

 

LOL. I guess if people spoke up before you got married would possibly put a riff between you guys. that is why people usually keep their mouths shut.

you always hear it " I knew that mofo was right. "

then you would ask "why didnt say anything"

they respond " u know . uhhhh"

 

Excellent article. I have to learn to trust my instincts more. A couple of years ago, I met a guy who was so unique - he utterly fascinated me, and I wanted to be in a relationship with him. But there were red flags EVERYWHERE! Waving madly! Thank God it didn't go anywhere. I still look back and wonder why I ignored those flags?

I also had a funny feeling years ago when I got married, but my doubt was vague. I couldn't put my finger on why I felt so uncertain. And because my ex had gone into the military 9 mos after we met and we spent the year prior to our wedding apart, it was even harder to pinpoint why I felt uneasy. However, I felt an absolute sense of calm when I walked down the aisle. If I had known how things would end, and all the monkey business that was about to ensue...

I'd like to think I'm a little smarter now. But having been alone for a long time, I think I tend to try to bend my desires around the person I'm with instead of waiting for the one that just naturally fits what I'm looking for, if that makes sense. I settle, in other words. Don't want to do that.

 

yeah. Im with you on that one

 

Yes you will, most men are suckers for a well-cooked steak and some steady pussy.