How important are looks to you?

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Damn. You are just slow on the upkeep. SMH. And "yes" I am trying to piss you off since you were dumb enough to let me know you can't stand me. Watch me make you crash & burn. :smt077

 

Guess your ass is out of luck then, seeing as how most of the people here recognize that you are phoney as a seven dollar bill.....

 

Did she say YANKS? I thought only old bitter pot bellied drunkard is the UK midlands say that oh well

 

To me this is someone trying to sound British and educated, but failing horribly at both.

Whatever. By now everyone realizes who you say you are and the TRUTH aren't remotely the same.
Too bad no one really cares at this point. You're an insufferable bore who's not really that amusing. Pass.

 

I disagree with that. My dad loves to call Americans 'septics'

 

Considering your previous claims about geography, and your general disdain for the rules of grammar and spelling, the snippy tone comes across as an epic failure

 

When I got my dog I chose the cutest of the litter. He hasn't let me down....he is kind of stupid and behavior challenged but he is loveable. Looks are important............in dogs.

 

I sooooo appreciate this mindset in a man.

 

Looks are somewhat important but not too much. But there have been women I never thought I'd be attracted too (they weren't horrible looking or anything just not my type at all) but once I got to know them they started to look more appealing.

On the other hand there have been women I've known who looked GREAT but then you start to get to know them and it's like all the looks in the world aren't going to make up for a sub-par personality.

 

I've always been told I have no standards lol.

 

Ordinary you would be looking for someone you are attracted to however most people don't require damn near perfection to be attracted. A person might have a preference what society puts out there as nice looking (sometimes not) but it doesn't mean the person will not be attracted to those that don't fit that image either.
Also sometimes you surprise yourself and fall for someone your not really attracted to until you get past the outer covering and find something so much more than physical can ever provide you with. And then to people become more attractive when emotions get involved and the more you get to know their personality.

Physical attraction is only what draws you to them. Everything else is what keeps you with them.

 

1. Did we ever get a P.O.L. from you?
2. Looks....me being attracted to the person is important. Its not PC to say so; however, for me I need to be physically attracted to the person. Looks are what get my attention, its what is inside a woman that keeps my attention. We tend to always make this an either-or-sum when its not. Look are important to me. I don't expect she be MODEL like but I do need to be attracted to her.

 

That's the truth, for everyone. Whether people want to believe it or not. :smt045

 

Me too, physical attraction is what gets me first and then it's what's inside that keeps me...

 

I think the big thing that either confuses people or makes people think they're right about looks not meaning anything, is that every single person has a different idea of what is attractive. What is gorgeous to one, can be hideous to another.
Doesn't change the fact that looks DO matter though, it's just that everyone is looking for something different.

 

Agreed again my dear! For me, the thing that attracts me looks-wise is different with every guy. I do go through 'phases' where I have a type, but then it changes again. And then there can be the most random thing that gets me, like someone's teeth!

 

They become less and less as I mature. I needed to be attracted to a man, but looks are not the only element of attraction.

A while ago, my two good friends and I were looking at pictures and talking about our exs. They knew 2 of mine and had seen photos of another. The one that was the least good looking was the one that I had the BEST relatioship with and he is the most honorable man I know. The one who is dropp dead head turning handsome could be the biggest douche on the planet and had control issues and was unpleasant to be around.

The bottom line I will take an average looking GREAT GUY with substance over and Adonis with a complex.

 

I will take the average looking great guy over an Adonis with no brains any day.

I can easily be attracted by things other than looks, especially now in the internet days. A man's intellect, his humor, his sense of the outrageous, his erotic imagination - lots of things which can catch my attention, and if those hook me his looks don't matter, unless he's truly Quasimodo.

 

The looks do matter though, really. You have to have that physical attraction, otherwise how could you have sex with them?? Without the physical attraction, they're just friends.

Just sayin'.