What do you want out of life ?

Discussion in 'Conversations Between White Women and Black Men' started by velkrum, Sep 3, 2011.

  1. Leksola

    Leksola New Member

    1-4 got them just right and feel blessed for that. 5, not yet but we do want them. Not ready just at the minute but soon.
     
  2. TreePixie

    TreePixie New Member

    For a minute there I thought you meant you had already gotten children 1-4 and were working on five. Nearly fainted ;-)
     
  3. 4north1side2

    4north1side2 Well-Known Member

    All I care about is making my family happy.
     
  4. TreePixie

    TreePixie New Member

    What do you want out of life ?
    Type of job
    How much Income ?
    Type of lifestyle
    Type of Girl / Guy
    Marriage ?
    Kids ?


    I've been thinking about these questions since they were posted, because I'm in such a different place in my life than many of the younger posters.

    What do I want out of life? I'm trying to figure that out. I didn't ever expect to be where I am - I was more successful and accomplished more than I'd hoped. But I didn't expect to be medically retired so young, and I'm still trying to figure out what the hell comes next.

    I spent so long doing what was necessary, or what I thought was right, for other people, that I kind of forgot to ask myself what *I* wanted. So here I sit, wondering what the answer is.

    Obviously I don't want to give birth again. I doubt very much that I'd ever have a serious relationship because of the MS. Kind of unfair to invite someone into an uncertain future - which could remain stable for many years, or end up with me seriously disabled. No way to know.

    Lifestyle - I'm doing ok. I'd rather be making 6 figures again, but I still have a larger income than many, and have no problem handling the bills, so I'm not complaining.

    Honestly, I guess I'm not sure at this point who I want to be when I grow up!!
    :)
     
  5. wtarshi

    wtarshi Well-Known Member

    [*]Type of job
    Currently looking into going back to school in the nutrition field

    [*]How much Income ?
    Enough for a roof over our heads, food on the table and a holiday once a year

    [*]Type of lifestyle
    Relaxed, stress free, full of love and laughter

    [*]Type of Girl / Guy
    he would have a passion for life and learning, love children, accepting of people, able to express his love in words as well as his actions. A desire to explore and travel. A love of animals. Thoughtful about the world in which we live in...respectful of it. Questioning and accepting at the same time.

    [*]Marriage ?
    I would say yes, though I would be happy to just live in sin

    [*]Kids ?
    I have 2 already, wouldn't say no to more though
     
  6. APPIAH

    APPIAH Well-Known Member

    [*]Type of job
    Want to do my Masters, then Phd then set up a consultancy and be my own boss
    [*]How much Income ?
    Limitless
    [*]Type of lifestyle
    Like the lifestyle i have now and that is partying almost every weekend
    [*]Type of Girl
    Preferably white girl with a pale skin and one that can converse on a broad range of topics.
    [*]Marriage ?
    Done that, over with it
    [*]Kids ?
    2 kids,a boy and a girl, might want 2 more preferably boys
     
  7. Leksola

    Leksola New Member

    :eek: no, no I do not have any children yet.
     
  8. Stheno

    Stheno New Member

    what i want? i guess my son to have a good life ..

    for me my life finish long ago
    already know my future just hope i will not live too long ..
     
  9. APPIAH

    APPIAH Well-Known Member

    Jeez Nyx life is that bad?
     
  10. TreePixie

    TreePixie New Member

    Nyxie you've got more to look forward to than you can see right now.

    I understand the sentiment, but truly, you've got a future you cannot even imagine right now.
     
  11. Ymra

    Ymra New Member

    What do I want out of life?

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    Right now I'd like the pain to end.
     
  12. Stheno

    Stheno New Member

    problem is not the bad life it is sort of a life having no life that is the bad
    no pixie i know well my future and not different from today

    but anyways
     
  13. wtarshi

    wtarshi Well-Known Member

    :smt056 must be a horrible feeling ymra
     
  14. goodlove

    goodlove New Member

    trust me I understand. Been there and still there.
     
  15. TreePixie

    TreePixie New Member

    That's so hard. I'm sorry :-(
     
  16. velkrum

    velkrum Restricted

    I am also going the medical route. Do you have a chemistry or Bio degree ? What type of physician are you trying to be ?
     
  17. Morning Star

    Morning Star Well-Known Member

    Hahaha, I don't think she would care what I'd think. It's all flattery at the end of the day.

    Oh, I forgot to add on that note...a non-smoking person who's not all that big on pets or animals nor would be heavy on the alcohol.


     
  18. APPIAH

    APPIAH Well-Known Member

    I studied Economics as a first degree then did professional accounting ACCA-UK which is equivalent to CPA now i want to pursue oil and gas finance up to Phd level
     
  19. curleyblonde

    curleyblonde New Member

    Interesting, interesting indeed.... I DON'T SHARE WELL,,,,, just a heads up... lol
     
  20. GFunk

    GFunk Well-Known Member

    What kind of job?
    Shit, I don't even know what I wanna major in.

    Income?
    As long as I can afford video games, anime, some books n comics and gas to cruise, I don't care. As long as I'm gettin' paid.

    Lifestlye?
    Hella chill and not one that stands out.

    Girl?
    Don't know.

    Marriage?
    Don't know.

    Kids?
    No.
     

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