My two cents..for those that feel they need help in love

This is for those unfortunate guys on this website that are looking for advice on meeting women, "the game," or for a different perspective on the whole dating game. First and foremost let me say that I am no guru, a know it all or anything like that. It simply hurts my heart to see guys struggle with this. Usually you cats are the ones that would treat any woman lucky enough to be with you like a Queen..which any woman would be lucky to have. Therefore, perhaps you would benefit from a new perspective. It all really is simple. Get out of your head. Stop thinking, and just be. Don't be another lost face in the crowd..stand out, dare to be different. Be memorable. Life itself is complicated enough..don't complicate your own love life. It is my firm opinion that women are simply attracted to men. Sure they may have a preference, but at the end of the day..they are attracted to men. That is an ace in the bag gentlemen..it is called procreation. It has been my experience that the easiest women for me to pull are the ones that say "i'd never date a black guy." When I was younger, thats all I would date. I enjoyed the challenge, plus I get off on the fact that I am helping someone open their mind, and grow as a person. Think about it from a psychological stand point. Most of the reasons a person has to say such things are based on preconceived notations, stereotypes..or society. Too easy. Show them otherwise. Granted it is easy for me because I am a very open minded individual. I am a proud black man..but I absolutely do not limit myself in anyway. I love music with a passion, I listen to Hip hop, rock, r &b, country, metal core..you name it. I play the guitar. I skateboard, I talk relatively proper, I dress preppy (with a little swag) and what not. I could fit in with a group of white people, black, mexican, Asian or Alien. I consider myself to be a well rounded person. And I always strive to better myself. In other words, I always work on myself..as should you. And her. Fuck. In reality, I don't even really need to say more past that. Work on yourself. When you are bettering yourself , your confidence will naturally rise..along with your swag. Everything else will fall in line. I know this is a lot to read, and a lot of people won't read it all..but I felt it was necessary. I know that someone out there will take something from this and improve themselves and their life.

 

Fixd.*

Carry on....

 

Looking back on that, I was a little all over the place. Is there anything specifically that you would like my input on LA?

 

Nothing comes to mind right now.

If so, I'll ask about it later.

 

Thanks SkateboardPI, that wasn't bad advice.

 

In other words, I always work on myself..as should you. And her. Fuck. In reality, I don't even really need to say more past that. Work on yourself. When you are bettering yourself , your confidence will naturally rise..along with your swag. Everything else will fall in line.

Excellent paragraph - great advice that everyone can use.

 

Eh, I didn't really articulate or convey exactly what I wanted properly..but I appreciate you none the less Q.

 

It's the truth. I don't think people fully realize the fact that we all at times imprison ourselves with our own minds..and just how much we give our power away being concerned with what the world thinks of us. And for what? Negative thinking is a killer..as well as complacency.

 

Lol. Nothing wrong with that, it isn't for everyone. If someone truly is searching for help on the matter..they will be willing to read it. That shit actually did make me laugh out loud though on the cool.

 

thanks bro. because it was a good read. it needed bullet points.

 

Great points, man!

 

Agreed.

 

Great advice , feeling good about yourself is the first step in making that positive step into the right situation