How to keep a man by Amy, thoughts?

Discussion in 'In the Media' started by 4north1side2, Aug 28, 2011.

  1. 4north1side2

    4north1side2 Well-Known Member

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    U mad?
     
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  2. jaisee

    jaisee Well-Known Member

    I think the first girl said only said one thing that I disagree with. I would marry the hell outta this girl. The rest could eat my balls.

    My biggest complaint is the nagging nagging nagging nagging.

    Edit: Her presentation of her topic could have been a little better, but the general ideas. Give the man space, don't nag, show interest in the things he's interested in. Even with sucking dick.... what's so wrong with that? The other side of that "Men keeping women" would say 'fellas, go down on your ladies.... study that shit and practice your technique until you perfect it'.

    The other 4 girls just came off militant and nagalicious.
     
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  3. Tamstrong

    Tamstrong Administrator Staff Member

    Even though her delivery could've been much better, she had some valid points. The only thing she said that was crap was about the cheating (men & women cheat because they want to & it's no one else's fault or responsibility).

    She was on point about the nagging & the idiots trying to control a grown man & not give him the space to be & do himself. No grown man wants his woman to be his mama, drill sergeant, or jailer. Just because he's in a relationship doesn't mean he's not still an individual with his own mind, interests & opinions. A man needs to be appreciated for who he is & what he needs, & it's silly for a woman to expect that from him but not give it to him herself. If a woman isn't genuinely interested in her man & what's important to him, then why is she with him in the first place? If a woman truly loves, appreciates & respects her man, her actions will reflect that & he'll know he's valued.

    Men also need to do the same for their women. It's definitely a two-way street, & a good relationship is a balanced one.

    The other women evidently didn't get a lot of what she was talking about...it seemed to go completely over their heads. The stuff they did get obviously struck a nerve considering how defensive & petty they were in their responses...they seemed to take it very personally. All the effort they put into trying to make her look & sound stupid backfired & made themselves look bad. SMH
     
  4. mama

    mama Well-Known Member

    I think she had some good points.
     
  5. Tamstrong

    Tamstrong Administrator Staff Member

    Yep.

    Gorgeous new avi, Mama! :smt038
     
  6. mama

    mama Well-Known Member

    Thanks chicky. :D
     
  7. MissWacy

    MissWacy New Member

    ha, alot of those women getting mad at her because they know shes telling the truth, she hit too many of those types of females nerves, ive had the same abuse from women, some of em will get all nasty and try and talk over you and get bitchy when you make a point they dont want to hear
     
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  8. satyr

    satyr New Member

    She understands a decent amount of male psychology. Her delivery is a bit street but that's only for effect.

    I think her critics were possibly getting burnt left and right during the seven year period that she was in a relationship, which makes it difficult to relate.
     
  9. Iggy

    Iggy Banned

    Men are ridiculously easy to please. We are very simple creatures.
     
  10. TreePixie

    TreePixie New Member

    You keep a man like any other meat. You can salt him, pickle him...etc....

    :::Running:::::
     
  11. Morning Star

    Morning Star Well-Known Member

    It's a pretty damn good video on Amy's end. Sure, the deliverance could have been better, but the points are pretty much spot on.

    As for the opposition, it only tells me how they have trust issues. And secondly, they kept calling her "white" when...she's Puerto Rican and if I'm correct, Taínas tend to have African roots in their heritage, so it only shows how unintelligent they are.

    I'd say more, but I think jaisee, Tamstrong, and satyr already delivered what I wanted to say.
     
  12. qnet

    qnet New Member

    Yeah, you and the posters you mentioned about nailed it and, I agree. I really liked the first girl a lot and would love to meet her (though she may be a little on the young side for me, I might make an exception). It seems like the other women have been through some stuff, which is sad. They didn't seem to get it at all, none of it. The men were giving her props for a reason and, it wasn't just about because, she talked about giving oral sex.
     
  13. Morning Star

    Morning Star Well-Known Member

    I'm only going to argue that they have little means of trust for men and they seemingly want to assume that all men are untrustworthy. For women like that, the best solution for them is to simply remain single and stop searching if they think men cannot be trusted.

    Maybe they should recognize why they have bad luck in relationships and even if they are in one, they're only making the relationship worse.

     

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