The Negative Thread

Another selective reader lol. Now I have an idea how some white guys feel lol. You say one word and that's the entire focal point. When I said past prime age I specifically explained I was talking about child rearing not desirability. I don't doubt many of you get advances but there is a point when you can't have kids or its harmful to the fetus for you to try and THAT'S real talk my friend. You ladies are fierce I swear lol.

 

I can still have children sweetie. I just need your seed :smt039

 

Windsor for Xmas hold on woman im cumming I mean coming lol

 

Thanks.

 

hell to the no girl...before you got here lippy was the oldest dried up sandy pussy...lol...like you i have guys 20 year younger trying to get to know me...there are a few idiots on this forum but i can tell you that at least 3 on here i have sent video of themselves jacking off trying to lure the lipster with their lovely dicks...several more penis shots...some with their mother fucking clothes on and sexy as hell...not too mention delightful texts...emails...phonecalls...

soooooooooooooooooo...for those having the problem of grasping that a woman can be sexy at any age...i say stop being a victim...get out of your house and get yourself a god damn date...so tired of you putting women down here just because you can't get any play...fucking losers...all it takes is a couple of rotten fruit in the in the bin to make you want to throw out the entire lot

 

^^^^^^^ ahahahahahahahahahaha

 

Oh wow. I cant NOT comment on this. I just cant.

This this this and THIS. I see this on the forum all the time and it's rubbish.

You do this ALL THE TIME! The world outside NY cannot be covered by media and the women at work. You always try and tell me how women see things or feel and base it on these sources. You do it for men too. And I find that more or less every single time, you are way off the mark!

I dont know whether NY is just this zone where EVERYTHING and EVERYONE seems to act differently to every single country I have ever visited or lived in or every different nationality of person I have ever met, but it certainly seems like it.

This forever and ever, Amen.

Real talk. And actually, the difference between 24-25 and 30 is quite substantial in terms of maturity. In fact, I do believe you yourself have said this to me in conversation before Dark Knight, my dear friend.

I still love ya dude, but I had to put in my two pennies worth, sorry!

 

I am sure that you saw the mini aftermath that came after my posting. I have no animosity towards Dre and think he is an intellegent young man, but I chose to word my response to him a certain way because I wanted to see if he would respond & reply back in a certain way. And unfortunately he responded how I knew he would. Dre is always saying that he likes to engage in "honest debate", but "honest" for him is everything from his point of view. Being that he is and educated 30 year old man, if he were truly about engaging in honest debate then there was no need for him to respond as he did with me. He would have simply chose to engage as an adult without fear & with reason and countered what I had said with the truth & facts that he says he uses in debate. Instead he chose to response as he has on numerous other occasions on this forum by going the childish route and using what I call Ghetto Jedi Mind Tricks. It's basically the tactics that folks that have no interest in getting out of the ghetto & improving their lot in life use on others who do not wish to be part of the ignorance cycle & attempt to leave the environment or try to bring something positive into. They rather keep it "real" & "gangsta". And anyone not keeping it "real" & "gangsta" well.....I'm sure you know the deal and see the similarities.


Dre for all intents & purposes outed himself. It's more important for him to have control of the debates & disscussions here and that they spin his way, rather than face the possibity that he could be wrong on his POV. It's frustrating to see a bright man waste so much time & energy "debating" others on what he believes is "reality" rather than listen to what many intellegent women here, both American & non-American, have told he repeatedly on multiple occasions and excepting it as an actual possibility: You can change your "reality" if you chose to. But sadly he obviously doesn't seem to want to. And also sadly it not only Dre here on this forum who is like this.

 

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When you fight for your limitations, you get to keep them. DK's experience proves that.

I'd be thrilled never to see another post by a man which said "Women believe" or "women think" or "women always do." We're not a monolithic group, and treating us as though we were indistinguishable from one another is silly. It's also silly to tell every woman who differs from one's own opinion of women that she is "an exception." Frankly, that tactic went out with the misogysaurs.
We are not exceptional, we *are* women.

If every woman you date fits some profile you find disturbing or upsetting, look in the mirror, dude.

 

It is unfortunate, but true. Quite a few on here have no interest in what really is going on, everybody is wrong in their eyes - and their way of viewing the world is the all encompassing truth - even though the majority tell them that it aint so.

I find it heartbreaking that they don't listen to others experience and try to discover that rather than pigeon hole themselves to a very limited and sad view - cheating themselves out of so much.
The stubbornness is mind numbing, why they do wanna stay in their own little limiting sad realm is just .. odd.
Why do you want to stay unhappy and bitter when there is so much more out there.

If we strike out w the opposite sex based on the same thing - why blame the opposite sex when the most likely answer is what you go for.

And this whole thing about all studies show that women only focus on money and career of the men is just laughable - what studies.. who made the studies... whats the source.. all studies, all experiences everywhere, in college, in media bla bla.. that is a bunch of lame crap that isn't true.
Drae IS very intelligent, why he chooses to ignore where he gets that information from, sources and motives behind it is beyond me. I guess because it makes him feel good that he is "correct". Of course these women exist, we all know that. Is it the majority, far from it. He picks and chooses "information" based on his view and clearly ignore the rest.

Poor Drae is missing out. He should be less interested in being right and more interested in opening up his heart, and eyes/ears to others views and possibilities and start to do some self evaluation. Its not unique to him, a lot of us need to do that, perhaps all of us at some point. I certainly have had to.

 

dusty or not, you still have big natural tits worthy of a hard on, and at the end of the day, we like meat to grab on to

 

Oh boy another selective reader. I am the only one I've noticed that faced with logic that I can't argue is honest enough to conceed. I am always willing to admit when someone has a point and it with my patented" fair enough". When we have debates about shit like this I am open to hearing other's pov but when I say I've read studies and posted them or documentaries about what I've learned its dismissed as evo pysch with absolutely no evidence on the contrary just a flippant" explore the world and see attitude. I don't just base everything on what I see I notice what other men on here post as well yet I'm just some crazy sheltered person pulling this out of my ass.

And let's be clear I only replied to you the way I did because of your passive aggressive attempt to try and call me out fam. If you have something to say to me the direct approach is the most efficient way.

I'm not trapped in a ghetto mind set. I often admit that a lot of the foreign women on this forum express and carry themselves in a way that makes me want to explore the world but it doesn't excuse what I see in the states in the women with in my age group. The late 20something to early 30 something crowd go through a desperate phase worrying about getting married and having kids. Is it everyone? Of course not but I see it often enough to think its extremely common.

And I know we have women on here who are quick to say not me that's not how I think" im not that way but let's consider something else. If you're on wwbm, if you're open to dating bm you're not of the norm anyway so using them as a sample of what's normal is a hard sell.

 

Who is fighting for anything? Dude I date a lot. I'm not one to brag on here because its pointless but I'm a reasonably attractive guy who is educated talented and somewhat charming (others words not mine). I don't have a problem meeting women and I date women from all kinds of backgrounds but I have to admit I have had far more enjoyable and easy going interactions with women from different countries closer to my age. The greater New York area is filled with young women who want to live a sex and the city lifestyle some want to live an artist's lifestyle or even that of just a young urban professional but in an area where rent for a studio apartment is commonly above.1000 dollars a month and the cost of living is higher here than other part of the country people tend to gravitate towards those who can afford a decent lifestyle since its so expensive.
Dinner and a movie cost damn near 80 bucks everytime you do it and if you want to do a show it usually cost 300 bucks. Entertainment isn't cheap, cost of living isn't cheap so many women like men who have higher paying jobs so everything isn't a struggle.I think many of you ignore that since you live in cheaper parts of the country. I'm living a student lifestyle right now and my bills and living expenses come to 2300 bucks a mont for just me in a studio. I don't think people are necessarily always gold diggers they just don't want to struggle just to exist.

 

Don't forget, I came from Boston, so I'm aware of what living in a larger metro area costs, even NYC. You're missing the point that several of us have tried to make however. I'm sorry. One day you'll see it, DK, of that I have no doubt.

Sometimes you can be told something 500 times and it doesnt sink in until the right person says it to you at the right time.

 

This right here is what kills you, son. You see yourself as an unbiased agent of logic & truth on this forum. You can't appoint yourself to that position. You're giving an opinion out about yourself. No one can give an honest unbiased opinon of themselves and yet here you are doing so. And if you can't give an unbiased opinion of yourself how the hell can you give opinions on or about others as "truth" and expect anyone to except it?

Oh. So the response that I gave to you last night was not direct for you? It was passive aggresive? Okay. How is this for being direct. You are an educate & intellegent black male with too much damn potential to be wasting your damn time & energy always debating people on an internet forum about your perpective on reality & playing games for your ego & foolish vanity. Yes. That is what you are doing. That damn energy should put forth in the real world trying to make some much need change out there young man. But no. You would rather hang on the internet and fake at being somebody where it's all nice and safe because you are scared. Scared that you might get hurt or lose something. Guess what that's life, son. Especially if you are black. Black folks have been getting hurt or lossing something in one shape or form since we have been brought to this country. You know what? Just forget it. I'm not going to waste my time & energy on a selfish, foolish & prideful individual like you who has it all figured out. You're a grown ass man. Do what you will. If being on an internet forum using your education & knowledge to fighting "hypocrisy" & "double standards" and all the other online "injustices" you see and enlightening others who are so unaware of reality as it is like you are (hoping they will be the ones to take action and be the ones to make change) is so much more important than actually fighting against the real injustices we both know about & see on the regular and making a difference in the real world, knock yourself out.

 

Not that is pure comedy my friend - I think you are one of the last ones on the forum to do so. Many many here do, you dont in general. You are the most stubborn on here when it comes to discussions and being right.
I love ya, but nope that statement if so untrue.

 

Lol...to give him some credit here, I have witnessed it a couple of times