Oh. Good to know. She's seen me at my worst both before & since we've been married & I'm too old to be doing the kind of stupid stuff that would piss her off enough to make her tired of me, so she's stuck. Sorry. But, Thank You. 8)
cool, if you don't mind me asking what field or industry are you in ? If you can work for long periods of time and you have a great memory, the world can be your financial oyster. Humility is good, I combine that with the kill em with kindness mentality myself. Feels awesome when I treat people well.
Since to OP came into the thread & deemed my question as not worthy to answer, I can safety assume that I am looked upon by him as one of "the type folks" he obviously sees as making the forum the negative & lowly cesspool he sees it as......
I gave an answer and you didn't like it.... I post here because some threads interest me and there are times I want to learn about different people (regardless of how I view them). I have not read many of your posts to know if you are part of the collective pool I'm talking about. I don't recall you saying anything nasty to me or anyone else in the past.
Okay. Let's not play the childish "you didn't like my answer" game. Your answer didn't not make any sense to me. If you are here because you find some threads interesting and to learn about other people all fine & good, but it comes across very arrogant of you to make remarks on the fact that you find this forum unpleasant, but still frequent it. Just a simple observation on my part because most individuals who usually come across in this manner in the past on this forum have usually had a negative agenda. That is all I'm saying. Just be mindful of that as you continue to frequent this site.
I have such a poor memory. I have always envied people with photographic memories. In all seriousness is there a way to train your brain to be better?
Back to the topic at hand. I'll answer these questions for real now: 1. I really don't know what makes me special. I seem to attract guys without doing much of anything. It does come and go in spurts, but mostly, it boggles my mind. I don't wear make-up, I don't dress to impress (waiting for my good body to come back for that. LOL), I mind my own business, but somehow, I seem to attract guys to me. I don't get it. LOL. 2. I try to be a good friend to my friends. I listen mostly. I'm not a big talker. So that makes it easy for people to talk to me. I try to help them and guide them if I can.... 3. I'm an introverted person mostly. I tend to keep to myself. I like being behind-the-scenes. If I'm with people I'm comfortable with, then I'm extroverted and fun and flirty and I laugh...alot. And if I'm drinking, I giggle even more. I smile a lot and my brain is a giant sponge for useless information, so I'm very good at trivia games. I once was a team by myself, playing against 2 couples and I kicked their asses. LOL. Okay, I'm finished patting myself on the back. ;-) Like someone once told me: you're awesome. I'm also a very good mediator. I have the ability to see both sides of arguments and discussions, and I'm very empathic which can be a curse as well as a blessing. That's about all for now. :smt023
I'm very sensitive to how I am perceived by others and would never want to be seen in a negative light.
