1. stiletoes

    stiletoes Well-Known Member

    Can't continue to try to make up for my mistakes time to move forward
     
  2. wtarshi

    wtarshi Well-Known Member

    healthiest option. looking back is good to learn from, but it's what's ahead of us that's most important. don't dwell & hugs
     
  3. stiletoes

    stiletoes Well-Known Member

    Thanx...nobody has ever made me cry before
     
  4. lippy

    lippy Well-Known Member

    :smt056it can only get better...crying isn't such a bad thing...i always feel like a good cry cleanses in prep to move forward...don't beat yourself up over this...we all make mistakes and "fuck up" if someone can't deal with bumps in the road then they shouldn't be trying to travel on the same path
     
  5. Morning Star

    Morning Star Well-Known Member

    What just happened, dear?
     
  6. wtarshi

    wtarshi Well-Known Member

    i'm with lippy on this one. i'm a HUGE crier and i always feel so much better for it...such a release and cleanse
     
  7. curleyblonde

    curleyblonde New Member

    Tears help the soul cleanse....
     
  8. stiletoes

    stiletoes Well-Known Member

    I would have to write a novel to explain....just suffice to say,,, I had 3 chance..he said he could forgive me...I am sorry in my heart and would be perfect in the future, but he can't trust me...I want to hang in there with him..but this is too hard...I need to go to the corner cry, regroup and if I get a good man again remember that relationships arent that hard..you just find someone you are crazy about and hold on..
     
  9. Tamstrong

    Tamstrong Administrator Staff Member

    Moving forward is definitely a positive thing, even when it hurts to do it. As long as we learn from our mistakes, they help us to become stronger & better people. We all mess up, but it's best not to dwell on it & beat ourselves up for it. Let those tears flow & let their release help you heal; letting it all out is good for you in the long run. I'm sorry that you're in pain, but it will eventually get better...hopefully sooner rather than later. Much love, hugs & positive thoughts to you. :smt056
     
  10. TreePixie

    TreePixie New Member

    Human beings make mistakes. The best you can do is sincerely apologize. It's not up to you to "make" someone forgive you and trust you again - that's on them to do. If they cannot - that part is their own issue to deal with. At that point all you can do is wait for the hurt to scab over and try to move on. Sometimes it takes awhile. But it's all you can do.

    Hang in there.
     
  11. Bookworm616

    Bookworm616 Well-Known Member

    I can't really add more than what the wonderful ladies have already said.

    It's hurts to move forward at the beginning, but it gets easier. It's hard to remember when you're in this stage, that things do feel better with time.

    Let the tears flow if you need them to. It'll help the healing process.

    Keep your chin up and the best thing you can do is learn from your mistakes, keep yourself a work-in-progress, always trying to improve and things will get better.

    *HUGS*
     
  12. stiletoes

    stiletoes Well-Known Member

    All I can say it that with Chad Ochocinco and Single Stiletoes in town.. Boston is NOT a safe place to be ;)
     
  13. TreePixie

    TreePixie New Member

    I've been missing my hometown this week.
     
  14. stiletoes

    stiletoes Well-Known Member

    My girls are at Blue Wave and want me to go out NOW...not a good idea...think I will stay in for a few hours,,grab a coffee and watch the sun rise on Tenean Beach :)
     
  15. TreePixie

    TreePixie New Member

    A friend of mine has been in Boston all week on business, his first visit there. I sent him up Route One to Kowloon for dinner one night, and he went back three times!!
     
  16. stiletoes

    stiletoes Well-Known Member

    Good pick.... but I love Al Dente in the North End
     
  17. TreePixie

    TreePixie New Member

    That's a good one. But I grew up in Saugus, so Kowloons was a part of my life from the time I could eat solid food ;-)
     
  18. satyr

    satyr New Member

    Sounds like she fucked somebody else. Whatever.

     
  19. 4north1side2

    4north1side2 Well-Known Member

    lol
     
  20. stiletoes

    stiletoes Well-Known Member

    Nope, not it....
     

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