Why Some Black Men Prefer Non-Black Women

Point taken. I have indeed heard BM say that as well as WM and, I don't agree with them. I guess I was just basing my opinion on how I feel and what I wouldn't or would do.





Point taken. I have heard BM say that, as well as WM and I don't agree with it. I guess I was just bang things on myself and how I feel.

 

Sorry about the weird double post, i'm typing on my iPad and am having trouble editing my post. Anyway, I hope you understood me IB.

 

Damn, Mikey is getting it in :smt036

 

No, try again... What is your point and how does such a irrelevant question pertain to the topic at hand?

 

LMAO! Because "BW coworker" wasn't anonymous enough? Or was it that your fingers were tempted to out her, but on second thoughts decided against it?

You're too cute sometimes. :smt054

 

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This is going to be a long post, so be forewarned and/or just skip this one if you don't prefer to read it.

First of all, to your original response that you made, I have several contradictions to make which are in defense of myself and the other guys on this forum who have a preference ideally for white women over women of other ethnic groups.

Lets think about the mathematics behind this. We know there are more women than men which exist in this country. The country is predominantly white, so it's safe for us to assume that white women make up the majority of America's population, even outnumbering white men. Based on the demographics, it is clear that some white women would be pre dis-positioned to date interracially. That is why I would say that more often in America, white women make the advances towards black men, and not vice versa. This is one reason of how your claim of us "settling" loses credibility.

Next, you have to consider the environments that some black men find themselves in. My family lives in a high income state of the United States (Maryland), which is politically liberal and ideologically progressive. Even the Universities in the state have more women than men attending them. The university that I plan on going to very soon has a significantly higher percentage of women than men, most of which are white women. So inevitably, I would be attracted to white women because that is the environment that I have to live and function in. It has ZERO to do with retaliating against black women, and I'm sure you're aware that as a BM, if you date interracially with a woman of any other culture besides a black woman, you will still face resentment from black women anyway because they feel a sense of loss from realizing that you're attracted to a woman of another race instead of a black woman. What upsets them even further is that they don't know the motivation for why you had made this choice that you've made in who your chose to be your significant other.

To your last point that you made, some people had already pointed it out a few months ago, I just read on it and never said anything. Since those replies are coming from you and given your relationship status, I believe that you would be pre-dispositioned to say that anyway about black men who engage in relationships with white women. As a result, I don't take what you've said in this particular thread with a significant amount of merit. It is not as serious as you make it out to be.

You will probably find a way to respond back to me and keep this argument going, so we should just agree to disagree about this issue since we probably won't be able to come to a compromise.

Thanks for the kind words. :smt003

 

Perhaps the most logical and well thought out response on this thread.

Thanks mane!

To all that put in there thoughts I appreciate the input and I did not create the thread to push any buttons but I wanted open and honest dialog in which was provided! Thank you all!

 

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Didn't read a word of it. Cliff notes?

 

Nope. Reading is important, no matter how long the content is.

You need to read it.

 

And that is what you call some fake ass niggas. I don't think that's a consolation prize IB, but an asshole at work.

It would be like me saying I like white women, but I would fuck a black woman but won't marry her. What kind of ole garbage is that.

It's up to the individual white woman to weed that sucka out.

I know what you are talking about, there are black men like that.

I look at it this way straight up. As a black man that dates interracially its better for me to not even delve into the whole black women topic, I leave that up to the men that are strictly dealing with them in relationships to do that. Since they are the one's going after them for relationships.

For myself my interest in white women is simply based on stone cold attraction.

I love the way the white women I'm attracted to carry themselves as a woman.
I love the passion and romantic exchanges together in and out of the bedroom.
I love the skin tone differences between us
I love the way I relate to the women I deal with on a relationship basis


To get rid of my LOVE of White Women, it will have to be pryed

 

It's not about the longtivity, I'm just not reading more than 2 sentences of retarded incoherent garble coming from you.

 

I'm a noob here, so my opinion probably doesn't count for much. But I don't think most black men see white women as a consolation prize. I think it's the opposite, most black men see them as the standard. At least in my experience I know who has dated IR, white women have proven to been more attractive, more progressive, more open-minded, more intelligent, and more considerate towards their partners. I think it really just depends on everybody's personal experiences.

Yes, there are some idiots that subscribe to the "I'd fuck her but not date her" philosophy. But I think most BM date IR because they realize they just genuinely like them.

 

Well, stay ignorant about the reality then. Believe what you want to believe in the face of overwhelming disagreement.

To me, it doesn't matter if you're a noob or not. What's most important is your post content. I liked reading it so it counts for a lot. Good post.

 

Careful, too much praise of white women = "self-hate."

 

ROFL.

 

lol its does? i know i heard that one too many times

 

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i seen that vid before, LOL did she call him a stupid fat head mother fucker at 1.41? lmao