Idris Elba On Being A Sex Symbol

Most of my friends are guys, so it comes with the territory. Him and I are very close friends, so I can understand why she'd be like that, but she never gave me a chance. She's trying to reconcile with him, but that's one of the things he wants her to change. He used to have to sneak and call me like we were having an affair and mind you, I'm like a sister to him all because of her insecurity.

You could hear from him once a year and live on the moon and I'm sure she'd still be jealous....lol SMH...I had another friend whose girlfriend was like that too, but this was would always ask about me, whereas the other one didn't. She would've probably been open to talk to me, but they had some tension, so I didn't want to be apart of that.

LMAO @ the hairline fracture...OMG!

 

Friendship with someone you never had sex with is cool but you chilling with dudes that use to bang you out. No bueno

 

The two I've mentioned, are platonic friends. I've only been friends with one ex. He would always tell me how he wanted his current at the time girls to meet me, but that never happened. Dudes I've dated, I don't call them friends and we're not close like that.

 

Yeah, that was funny. I told her straight out "Look, if I was still wanting a relationship with him, I wouldn't have moved 2000 miles away." But I still make her nervous, apparently. He can be a bit dense, socially, so I'm sure he speaks of me with great affection (as he also speaks of his ex wife, who is a really nice woman - I'm sure she's persona non grata now too).

But seriously, if your man's ex voluntarily moved 2000 miles away, wouldnt you conclude she was sorta DONE with that relationship?

 

Either get married soon, or get over this. Grown women have pasts. They slept with other guys, some of whom were friends at the time and always, and some of whom went from being love interests to being friends.

I'm friendly with *most* of the men I've been involved with. If I liked them enough to sleep with them, why would I stop liking them just because I'm not sleeping with them anymore?

 

Two exes to contend with and being that insecure? Yikes!

Yeah, one would think, but if she compares a fracture to MS....lol

 

You shouldn't but I know I wouldn't be cool with being with a woman who hangs out with men she use to sleep with frequently. All thats gonna do is make me very distant from you. I will never allow myself to relax, I guess because I had ex who left to be with one of her "friends" I just don't trust the scenario and to be honest if they're platonic friends and both attractive people I don't trust it. Have all the fat, short, and gay friends you want but handsome successful BFFs ain't cool with me.

 

I knew you were from NY. Keep proving it kid

 

So if I were born elsewhere, I'd have guy friends I had sex with? lol

To me, I can't call them friends, cause we had a relationship or dated. I just call them exes or ex-whatevers.

This dude who I would call the love at my life, used to call me his friend and I'm like no, I don't see you as a friend, cause I don't fuck my friends.

 

Yes, there's a double standard. Now, can we get back to drooling over Big Driis??

Hot and sweaty after DJing his gorgeous ass off.

 

He needs to take that shirt off

 

And those pants. :smt045

 

Yes. I'll even go as far as to lick that sweat off his body for him

 

From all that you told me, yeah he was an outright deranged sicko.

It's really hard, but I can understand why, but like just meet us and you'll see we're not a threat.

 

Insecurity is a mf'a...lol

 

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