Idris Elba On Being A Sex Symbol

*ding*

 

That sounds odd to me, but I don't argue that it happens in your life, but in my opinion, insecurity doesn't have different channels when it comes to other women. Some women would see your co-workers or women on the street as a threat just as much as the celebs. Maybe they don't vocalize it, but I just can't see that happening.

 

That came out back when I was living with my last long term boyfriend. TOTALLY freaked him out. He fell asleep that night watching tv, and rather evilly, I put it on a station with nothing but static and raised the volume.

Interesting to watch a man elevate from sound sleeping to clinging to the ceiling that fast ;-)

 

You're pure evil lol

 

Because you're a fine little Jewish goddess who knows better

 

LMAO!

Thank you :::::curtsies:::::

 

Thank you! I couldn't resist, because the film wigged him out much more than it did me. I *hate* horror films and had to be dragged to that one. It was creepy as hell, but both he and my son had nightmares for a week, and I was fine!

 

Tam that's so anecdotal it's not even funny. It's far more common to see women being allowed to openly lust over men despite having a significant other than it is to see men do it.
Great example to me is Twilight. If we saw middle aged men behaving the same way those twilight moms do over the young actors in that movie there would be a shit storm. It's like IB said men rarely give a fuck.

 

Which is also anecdotal. My last serious ex flatly refused to see movies with Jude Law in them because he thought I thought Law was sexy. I told him "Love, don't worry about it if I think some guy on the screen is hot. Worry about it when I think the guy sitting at the next desk to me is hot."

He had *such* a thing for Sandra Bullock it was hilarious.

 

Silliness. The whole "allow" thing would be a deal breaker for me in any area. I'm not a child. If you have a monogamous relationship, it's based on trusting your partner won't stray. If you think they'll stray just because they see an attractive person, you don't have much trust in them.

 

Ok wonder twins. If you guys say so. I've yet to hear any man get bent out of shape over shit like that. Our insecurities are far more about money. Now if a SO was to come home and tell me about much her friend's husband was making and how envious she is of them for being able to do more then you might see a little envy pop up but her wanting another guy wouldn't phase me in the slightest. Because the truth is men are very aware of the fact that our women can get dick at anytime of the day and twice on Tuesday so them ogling other men means nothing. Her being impressed by his success or things now that I can understand.

 

LOL Maybe it's an age thing...but a guy would have *way* more to worry about if some guy's looks had me drooling than if he had money. I've got my own money, but I don't have my own dick ;-)

 

Good point. I guess I deal without a lot of chicks who don't have money so thats what they're concerned about and one day I won't have my devilish good looks to fall back on lol

 

You could say the same about me, but I seem to be managing in spite of my age.

 

It is very silly. I can understand being jealous of someone attainable, but a celeb, nah!

LOL @ getting jealous over gramps

I never had any dude get jealous like that. My friends ex was jealous of our friendship and I tried to get to know her, but she wouldn't let me. I wanted to show her I wasn't a threat, but she didn't want to.

 

sexy sexy...love his voice and accent...how did we go from talking about how sexy this man is and how we would let him eat crackers in our beds to the insecurity of a few men that decided to pop into this thread to talk about something other than how sexy sexy this man is...ooooo lala...i'm with sin...fainting in his presence

 

That sucks, and I've been there. My most recent longtime ex and I are still very good friends - you don't spend 8 years with someone you don't really like. But his current on again/off again girlfriend is totally freaked out by me even though I'm 2000 miles away. I hear from him frequently in their "off again" times, and not all all in their "on again" times.

I think she might be a bit of an airhead anyway, when she found out I have MS she sent me an email saying she knew exactly what it was like because she had a hairline fracture in her arm once. :smt043