Why Some Black Men Prefer Non-Black Women

My response still holds, if they are happy at the new store then they won't leave. Also consider that since the original store ran out of my favorite candy before, what's to say that it won't run out again? As long as the new store keeps it shelves stocked with my favorite candy and I can count on it being there, I would be foolish to disrupt that transaction.

LOL@but it does get the point over. I hope.

 

LMAO! @ the whole store thing....

I get what you're saying, but this is hilarious to me.

I definitely got the point...lol

 

I don't know where to begin with this, Frankly how could we generalize a whole group of people? As if all black women world wide is the same? I had good relationships with black women(American), and i also had some bad relationships with black women, same with white women i had dated, which was good and bad! In other words, each of the relationships i had with each of the women whether black, white or otherwise was different and a individual basis, and each of them had different personalities. We have a tendency to forget we are dealing with individual people, who have their own personalities, perception of the world or otherwise both good and bad. Currently, my wife is from Eritrea, and it was the best discussion i made when marry her. Many occassion people confuse her for another race, but she straight up and tell you she is African. Lastly, I don't see color in a relationship, what we should be looked for in any given relationship is shared values, and of course the chemistry needs to be their as well.

 

I can overstand that,,, what made you compare and contrast that ultimately led you to select a woman of African decent that you did not find in American Women.... Race not being an issue!

< not a loaded question > I just want you to expound on what you found in the lady that you did not find in the others.... as a prior military member ( Marines ) I notice there are quite a few differences in women raised in the states and those abroad..... before the crew comes out to get me.... I know the old argument about women from overseas.... so save it!.... American women do the same thing as women do all over the globe!

 

As someone who rides Metro to work, it is difficult to find a friendly female face at all. The only friendly women on the bus are 50+. If you are not careful, they will talk your head off. Most attractive women are too busy on their cell phones.

 

Not necessarily

 

I feel that a great amount of the males drawn to this website "settled" for white women. I was going to create a thread about this when I was a noob but I felt like it was to controversial of a topic... didn't feel like reading all the white man/black woman pretending to be black responses.

It seems the stereotype of white women seek black men because they are unwanted by white men holds just as true if not more for black men regarding their stance with black women.

We share the same experiences lol.

 

I think you should create it, but be careful how you word it, cause like you said, it's definitely controversial. I'd be curious to hear to hear everyones perspective.

 

Yes. No one likes to feel they've been "settled for." Personally, I wouldn't be with a man who wasn't enthusiastic about being with me.

 

I share the same sentiments....

That's why I'm so anti-consolation prize, even though my stance has been debated. I still feel that some approach it that way without even realizing it (hence my store theory...lol)

 

Be careful you are being set up, don't fall for it and create it

 

No ones setting him up, especially if they read this thread.

 

This is an innocent question, will you encourage him to do same if he had a feeling most of the WW here come to "settle" for black men?

 

I'll make it simple:


Its no mystery for me. I have had a 'preference' for as long as I've been interested in the opposite gender.

I simply favor their looks because in my opinion--more often than not--WW appeal to me the most in regards to that. No rocket science behind it. Also, I am deeply interested in Euro culture so, for me, its an ideal situation to be in.

That being said, I am not so biased in my favor that I completely rule any other options. That will never happen. It's just that I simply pursue what I enjoy most.

 

First off, no one referenced the men on this site, but BM in general.

Secondly, I can't imagine that any of the women I've met here are "settling" for black men, or that the BM here would want to be with a woman who was "settling" for him either. Too much self-respect and pride on this site for that to be the case on either side.

 

That's not an innocent question at all...lol

That's hard to say, cause I care more cause I'm a WW who dates BM, so of course I want to hear what BM have to say. I already know that there are some WW who settle for BM. They go to BM when they want to satisfy some sexual craving, fetishes, cuckholding etc. Then we can get into the stereotypes about overweight WW, women past their primes etc.

 

Because Beckys are stupid and they're willing to take it up their ass & pay my rent with out any argument.

Another repetitive mind–numbing topic in this piece, next.

 

Exactly! Thank you! lol

 

Don't forget she lets you drive her car to pick up other bitches. Gives you her paycheck so you can spend it on yourself and whatever hoes you like. [sarcasm]

 

and she doesn't ask for nail money and hair money. Coz her hair is all naturale like that.