for me there is a skill set with a variety of different attributes as varied as each individual: if a man has a good working knowledge of female anatomy; communicates well - isn't afraid to ask questions and/or is observant of non-verbal communication; sincerely wants to provide pleasure & is willing to experiment. one, two or a few of these qualities in former partners have been instrumental where there was a lack in the size department. You seem to be a highly intelligent & intuitive man, Ymra, I would think you're well familiar with what it takes to please your lady. :yawinkle:
If I had to choose, honestly I'd rather be known as an incredible lover instead of merely having a huge dick. Both is the ideal, but the former makes the latter irrelevant. But to be an awesome lover means learning about your woman exclusively. One size doesn't fit all, metaphorically speaking!!:smt110
Ok I wasn't gonna say anything until i realized some guys have posted so here i go: Stereotypes are usually formed out of something which is mostly consistent so i have an inkling that overall black men have bigger wangs than any other race though there will be an exception to the rule in all cases. Now size does matter but not in the way we think it does. Whether we like it or nor if you have a big dick you are more confident than when you have a small dick because that is how men are wired period. Now one IMPORTANT THING is if you have a small dick trust me even if a woman says size does not matter, you better make sure you don't dump her or piss her off too much else the first thing they will point out to you is how small your dick is, hell even women who haven't seen your dick call you little man if they are mad at you so given a choice between big or small most men will choose big.(I think i have gone off track )
Damn it I saw the perfect post for this a week or so ago and now I can't find it. I cant remember what thread it was on, or who wrote it (though it was a guy) but it paid some attention to G and A spots.
Is this the post you were talking about, Pixie? http://www.whitewomenblackmen.com/forum/showthread.php?t=9507&page=51 (post #509) In combination with chemistry & mental stimulation, it definitely takes control, rhythm & style, & knowing how hit those spots to make a woman insane with pleasure & to make her toes curl.
I think it was a bit more explicit than that, but that conveys the general idea. And yes, you're right about what it takes.
Just an observation! Many women could care less about a mans dick size! Women are emotional creatures by large and only wish to be loved and cherished....! If men thought with their hearts and women expressed men to do so the world would be a much better place....! As to say,,,, majority of men in 2011 still think with their dicks as oppose to their God Given ability to Thunk! Majority of men.... are still stuck on stupid, being led by the sniff of panties and the fragrance of women's perfume! Not to mention... a nice rack. and ass. that she holds! Does a woman hold more weight..... than that.... ladies.... and gentleman?
Thing is women and men should think with the organ that was primarily created for that exact purpose and that is the brain. Most often women think with their hearts and men with their dick as you said and it ends up bad. So we should think with our brains and feel with our hearts and for men fuck with our dicks instead of thinking with them
