We're smart here, Tarshi. We'll just wrap you up in a Magnum sized condom ;-) More comfy, I'm told, than the regular sized ones.
FUNNIEST SHIT EVER!!!!! LOL!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! :smt043 :smt043 :smt043
This thread is another doozie. Where's YMRA? I'm sure he would find this one amusing. You guys kill me :smt081
I like the way you try so HARD to be sarcastic but lemme point a couple of things out to you. The correlation you made between the media thing i said and Eddie Murphy and Maher is wrong unfortunately unless in your world, media is only TV but in mine, radio and print also constitute media. Now i did not say people should not watch TV but they should be smart enough to read further after watching it when it concerns real life issues. Who said i believe whatever John Stewart says or the Maher guy?, i was making a point about satire and when did Coming to America become TV? i thought it was a movie.
In America we have channels with movies. You can see pretty much any old movie on any given weekend. That movie was a made in 1988 so it's not in theatres. A lot of people never see movies in theatres they just wait til they come to tv.
This paragraph right here says a lot, Sarah. You begin it with "money is not a problem for him" then everything that you use to support that statement says the exact opposite. If he needs so much financial support there, what do you think is going to happen when he gets here? Listen to your heart, but make sure you're also listening to your brain.
I'm all for long distance love, but like everyone else said, it sounds very fishy. You're in VA, theres so many Naija American brothers you can meet. I don't get why you have to call him Black next to his pic...lol What's up with that?
thx mikey....but this knowledge just increased my concern for her. You both are really young....( i have a nineteen yr-old-son). as a parent i would definitely step-in on this situation....but that is me.:neutral:
I understand being "in love" at that age, but too many warnings signs and she's not heeding anyones advice or wisdom here. It's too bad because there are a lot of BM her age she can meet in her own city, state and country...
agreed IB...i was married at 19 and do not advice it. I pray she doesn't just blindly jump. All we can do is give our advice and sit back and wait....dear gracious..............
I agree with you as well.... She's going to do what she wants anyway, cause her heart is the one talking the loudest and overshadowing everything.
this is hilarious the nigerian dudes game must be outstanding to bag a 19 year old chick across continents.
I think the whole thing is weird and confusing, IMO. Anyways, great first post and welcome to the site.
:d I am really starting to like this APPIAH fellow. I get the impression he is TWICE as smart as most of the idiots on this forum !!!! Bravo, Appiah. Finally, someone who doesnt talk out of his ass.