Mechad Brooks & Serinda Swan

I'm assuming you're part of the 40 and over crowd huh

 

I am indeed, but not much has changed about what I have always looked for in a partner.

 

Well as a dater of the twenty something crowd I've yet to see that present I guess I have something to look forward to in my forties lol

 

its funny how upset people get over seeing two people together, i got some wicked gifs for them

 

Come to Canada......there are lots of girls like that here

 

It's part of the current plan but it looks like it might take years to get there but I'm on my way. Visiting soon again though, I miss my nephews and nieces. I want to be a bigger part of their lives

 

Good plan

 

Why would you think that based on her post...and you were right!

 

Because the 20 something to early 30something crowd isn't usually that mature unless they're forced to. I'll rep you later when it's allowed to elaborate

 

I was laughing so hard I had to catch my breath after reading that.

 

I honestly wonder who on earth some of you men are or have dated. lol

If my boyfriend told me to "keep the weight down" I would go have a good look in the mirror and if needed hit the gym even harder.

If the person who loves me and looks out for my best interests says lay of the cake....he might be on to something.

 

For the love of God please stop making so much sense I seriously can't take it

 

That would depend on whether he was eating muffins when he told me that. The Pillsbury Doughboy look isn't terribly sexy either ;-)

 

It works both ways. If I told him to put the beer down and do a few laps he would.

 

That's ridiculous. So even though you seemed to be happy and no problem with my body I'm not allowed to be unhappy with yours unless I'm perfect? Apparently the dough boy look doesn't bother you since I have to say something first in order for you to have your own opinion.

 

Huh? What I'm saying is that people in glass houses shouldnt throw stones. If you've gained 10 pounds, you've got no business telling someone else who also gained 10 pounds to take it off unless you're working on doing the same.

 

That's like saying unless you're impoverished you can't comment on poverty. It doesn't make sense to me.

And who said it had to be an insult it could be a helpful suggestion. If I'm no longer attracted to you wouldn't you want to fix it? Or am I expected to ignore it?

 

I just think the standard should be across the board. It's like some guy with a 3 inch dick complaining some woman's tits are only a D instead of a DD and suggesting she get them enlarged. It makes me giggle.

If you love someone, btw, you have to get used to the idea that people aren't going to look 22 forever, both men and women. Attraction goes deeper than just looks if you're involved with someone seriously. I wouldn't think 10 pounds would be enough to make you fall out of love with someone.

 

Thank you! I was stating a LOT of women OVERALL(in this country) are looking for a provider. She was merely talking about her little circle of friends.

 

So are most of the men you know deadbeats that lack confidence?
Are you looking to travel all around the world and the men can't afford it or something?