I didn't read any of the replies, so I apologize in advance if I happen to repeat something, nor did I watch the video (not in the mood, sorry). I think a lot of guys start out nice, but it goes two different ways. One, he stays nice or with the second one, his true colors come out and that was his bait to reel women in. I think a lot of times, people misconstrue a lack of confidence for being "nice". Also, if a woman isn't attracted to a guy, she also throws him into that category as well. I think this label is thrown around too loosely. If we were to boil down the characteristics of a group of men, you'd see you'd have your cocky ones, confident ones, quiet and introverted ones and then you have your lames. BTW, the former 3 can all have confidence or a lack thereof. Some women think a man who isn't cocky or extroverted is lame. That's where some women are wrong (and usually immature). I think if you have a backbone, it doesn't have anything to do with being nice. Any woman with self esteem and some sense, wants to be treated nicely. I think when you bring a man being a so-called "challenge" into the picture, as opposed to putting out all his cards on the table, then that's where the lines get crossed.
Funny you mentioned that, I removed my polish, so I'm ready to give myself a pedicure...lol I owe you one!
Well said my friend. I'm just realizing this now as well. Any girl who tells you she isn't used to men treating her well its time to run for the hills. Unless you're a teenage girl that shit is a major red flag.
Thank you. That's true, but even if she's not used to it, that she can be aware of when someone is treating her nicely. Aww, Whiks, you made me Thank you, Chica! I've missed you too! We need to catch up. I signed on to Skype for a sec the other night, but you weren't on. I tried to rep you last night as well, but it wouldn't let me. Your workout plan is showing some great results. Looking good Mamacita!
Yes, nice guys finish last. Women love assholes & they worship the ground they walk on. I have gotten super model material when I act like a prick and not so much when I am Mr. Nice guy. The moral of the story GZ is going to be a prick.
You wouldn't believe how many women I've dated and know can't stand someone being nice to them all the time. They say it shows no passion. My advice to women out there is to stop watching so much tv. Real love means wanting us to be as happy as possible and that includes not sweating small insigificant bs.
I can believe it... I think it stems from maybe not having a loving father who taught them how men should treat them or lack of self esteem and not realizing they deserve better. It could also be that they don't understand the difference between a man who's a challenge (mystery) vs. a disrespectful asshole. I think with some women, you have be "nice" in small increments and some don't deserve anyone being nice to them.
So I know this is an old thread, but I'm a relatively new member who's been slowly working her way through the archives and this is something that hits home for me. There are a lot of supposedly "nice" Chinese guys who are similarly annoyed that they don't get all the ladies, and they bother me to no end. Guys: being "nice" is helping someone when you don't expect anything in return. If you expect something in return (and you clearly do), then it's not being nice; it's called a transaction. Listening to a girl's problems isn't "nice" if you expect her to repay you with sex, any more than a movie store owner is "nice" when he gives you a movie that you paid ten dollars for. Most of these so called "nice guys" who can't get women treat me like a vending machine they need to put kindness coins in until sex falls out.
Thats one way to put it lol. Take it from a certified nice guy fellas, its not about who cums first, second, or last... whats important is how you finish.... preferably for me in her mouth or glazing her face.
