Stats on interracial dating

It's all about self-entitlement. These types of men who feel this way have been told since their childhood whether by their family or subliminally through media that they are better than everyone else. So when they see a woman they feel is supposed to be theirs; it irks them. They can't wrap their minds around why a women they feel entitled to is with a man that they feel is beneath them in the social hierarchy.

And don't underestimate that factor of fear here. Fear that their dating options are being eliminated, and that other races(particularly black men) are conspiring to disenfranchise them for things they've have had control over since our nation's birth. It's pretty misguided to say the least, but then again, we are talking about human emotions.

 

I think the amazing thing, though, is that white men don't just do well with white women, they do particularly well with asian women and hispanic women too. They've got it really easy, and it's infuriating to see someone who has it so easy complain about "losing" white women, as if they are automatically entitled to our affections.

 

It is about entitlement, and privilege. If they "lose privilege" they see it as a loss, full stop. How it impacts other people doesn't occur to them. For blacks, other minorities, LGBTQIA, or women to make gains in the world, WM have to lose privilege. If you've always had *all* the candy in the world, even if you can't possibly eat all of it, giving some to other people is seen as losing something that's yours by right.

 

That's a great analogy. As I've been saying, white men really dud gave all the candy. They do especially well not only with white women, but asian and hispanic women, too.

And yet if you take one piece of "their" candy away, some of them get upset.

I do think it's worth pointing out that not all white men are like this. Many of my friends are white men and they have no problem with the fact that I'm dating a black guy. This should be obvious, but it's worth pointing out just because it's such a sensitive topic. There are wonderful white guys in the world.

 

There sure are, I've dated a number of them!

 

White men control most of the power and money in America, which is why they SEEM to have it easy. Many women are attracted to that power and money which has nothing to do with the character of a person.

 

Looking at the numbers, it was evident that white people like each other...I wonder why black males are the most open?

 

Good post...

 

That is a spot-on post there. And nowadays, white men are losing that "entitlement" left and right. They come off as arrogant, cocky, and self-centered. And they should because they've run the country for centuries and control the business world too. However, that power not only attracts white women, but it also corrupts white men to no end. They lose their morality and composure and become criminal in their dealings. And this corruption permeates itself towards their relationship with white women whereas they treat them like garbage (i.e. physical abuse, sexual abuse). With the world changing and black men taking the mantle alongside white women, these white male realize that they are losing their hold on them. And the thing is there's nothing they can do about it.

 

This. It's exactly why I don't envy any white males who hold positions of power and always hope that any black males who gain any postions of power don't settle for being like or repeating the stupid ego crap that most white males with power revel in.

 

yall hit it on the head its scary. they were screaming this "we are losing our rights all thru the 90's especially on talk radio"

in the mid 90's One local talk show host stated " we are losing our rights and no one is representing us."

I called in and asked " did you say you are losing your rights and no one is representing you guys?"

he replied "yes"

My response was " you ever heard of the white house. I mean really. you guys run the legal system, white house congress and 99% of the business and you are whining because we are tired of hate racist rants? really and this is suppose to be a christian based country ? the bible speaks against that kind of rhetoric""

Of course he hung up on me and screamed thru his mic "what a liberal ....yadda yadda yadda "