Do nice guys finish last?

there you go rite there. I will explain later why she is rite.

rite there you beat me to the punch but im gonna add on.

the problem with most dudes they bitch and whine and suck their thumb when they get rejected. I look at several different ways:
1) She could be in a situation where she cant date you. boyfriend/married or she trying to get off crack or something

2) maybe she just having a bad day.

3) I look at as a time to learn. maybe I didnt assess her rite and didnt tailor my approach. I like grenade macking myself. meaning I see a woman in a store and then I put myself on a timer like a grenade...if i dont approach her within 5 secs of seeing her you are thru. walk up introduce yourself in a smooth and calm voice with a look of confidence in your face and walk and its on. do it work all the time....NO...do I care....NO. I have had plenty of success. after banging a few they usually tell me that it was nice how I approached them.

4) tell a woman the truth with sugar on it. In my case " I think committed relationships are great but Im just looking for a noncommitted relationship rite now. maybe things will change tomorrow. I have to see what happens" . that means Im open to a committed relationship but if it happens between us cool if it dont cool. whatever. they see it as a challenge. women like challenges.

5) ask creative questions so you will not get one word answers. the more questions you ask the better for you to get to know her and you will remain a mystery to her.

THAT IS ALL for now

 

right there. all u have to do is dont mess it up. the less you talk about yourself the better.

oh come on. really. people love lies. LOL

 

It doesn't matter what a woman wants, be it Prince Charming or Henry VIII, just be yourself.

 

Not me. I like the truth as it ALWAYS comes out.

 

Put it into perspective. Is that a lot of the women you're age or most women of various ages?

 

how much sugar do you like on em. LOL

 

Age most likely has something to do with it. I'm going into my junior year of college and most women in my personal life are pretty immature in that department when it comes to relationships.

 

get a thread and needle and tailor your mouth toward your situation or fish in another pond

 

A lot of young dudes don't realize this until it's too late. Fortunately for me, I had an older brother to show me what was really up.

 

THIS. Women are not slot machines, and too many "nice guys" aren't really being nice, they think if they put in chivalry, out pops pussy. Be a nice person and you'll do fine. Be respectful, treat a woman like a person, not a pussy-dispensing machine.

If you're running into women who like "bad boys" then you're seeking out the wrong women. FTR, bad boys get *really* irritating in a very short time, and most women figure that out in their teens, certainly by the time they're 30.

 

Especially you. Dude you go to Princeton which gives you major stock. Don't mess with any of the girls on your campus huge waste of time. Mess with those sexy as girls who go to Rutgers cause they couldn't get into one of the Holy Trinity. You'll be treated like the academic rockstar you are. Oh and always mention that you're working on something they love that. Was a total score for me when I was in UCONN and messed with chicks who went to the local community college.

 

LOL. Well thats cool but also even a princeton he should still be able to get his game flowing. he just need to (maybe) change his strategy and see how it works and like you stated he also may need to change where he fish. when i was in school i always had it better with older women. they were more my style...so I went to places that got my style

 

I start out nice and somewhat of a push over but then later I become Jeckyl & Hyde.
I have more females contact me just to tell me how much they miss me. For me the bad muthafuckas finish first!!!LOL

 

In a place like Princeton where all the other people are exceptional its easy to suffer from little fish big pond syndrome. In my experience women want a guy who stands out ESPECIALLY at his age.
It's better to be that hot guy from Princeton then that nameless guy who tried to talk to me in history class. He's also 20 where is he gonna meet older women? Church?

 

That's what I talked about in my first post. I changed my approach, but I did it by being indifferent and my luck with women has gone through the roof. I was merely contrasting my personal experinces being "Mr.Nice Guy" as advised given to me by other women I've been friends with at a younger age and "Mr.Indifferent" as advised by my older brother.

 

If you are a nice guy, you let the woman finish first.....
Oh, wait - thats not what we asre tsalking sabout???

 

aawww man. you aint said a thang. you would be surprise . I dated a woman that was older meeting her at grocery store. she was slightly older than me. the difference was she was in the workforce (professional college degree woman) and we dated for years before she died. so go to places where well to do people reside and go into their stores and get to macking. go to resteraunts with bars where professionals hang out....like cigar bars, or the like. stores are the best for me.

 

gotcha.

 

Everyone sticks to where they fit in on a big campus like ours. But yeah, over here women do tend to gravitate towards the dudes with money(their parents' money) or some of the frat boys who were admitted beacuse their parents were alumni.You'd think that this type of stuff doesn't go on in Iby League schools, but it's prevalent.

I still get play too don't get me wrong, but it's not by being "nice"

 

Women are smart they know its better to hook into a guy who comes from money than a guy on the come up, Bill Gates may be a prize win but there's very few of him and as far as numbers there seems to be a lot more Rockellers.

Just hoping you're enjoying the hell out of your time in college fam. I wish I had more and focused more on the things I wanted. Anyway just be safe.