Yes. We have given up!

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=8GE0wjL9yjU&feature=related

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=wIjqaIx2800&feature=related


And we aren't coming back either.

 

Same old bullshit!! Black men we are two things in society "A Fucking thug or you are gay". I didn't even have to watch the entire video to know what other bullshit is going to be said about us.

 

Just be happy and live your life. Everything else is secondary.

 

Cool. Anyways, Bhayes, I think you'll enjoy listening to this one, because she sounds like a teacher in it. Tell me what you think.

[Youtube]p5e2lHSNQow[/Youtube]

 

She is not wrong. Just very inaccurate on alot of points. She it takling about the men in her black social sphere. and she left out foreign WW.

She right about the fact that we are the only type of men that create music that degrades our own women. That is true. Some of this is our fault.

And when you look at rap videos and just media in general we see a Latino, White or Mixed Race preference as oppesed to Dark and or brown skin black women. So simply put we have put some of the attitude that BW have in them. Alot of this is our fault.

however. She is making alot of non-sense.

- Self Hating black men - Do they exist? Yes. they do - do we all hate ourselves and want to have mixed race babies because we hate our black skin. most certainly not.

- Fat Ugly White Women preference - Well i made comment on this a long time ago - Simply put. Alot of black men who cannot handle the attitude and the booshie attitude of alot of sistas but cannot also attract a attractive WW end up with what are called the left overs.

the best example i can think of is this guy from millionare match maker. i mean damn he is not a male model but he is a decent brotha with money too. And he can't get a woman. the fact that he has money means he should be able to attract someone. right? Wrong.

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=xpUyLnewQdQ

- in this clip he looks like he is doing better. that ww in the back looks like she is his woman. not sure though.

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=_iMvhbjW2kY

Attractive BW with options often diss this type of man so much to the point where middle class min like Ayinde feel like he lives in the shadow of the succesful media personalities like Will Smith, LL Cool J, 50 cent, Kobe Bryant. Rick Foxes' etc., - because of that phenomenon men like this feel isolated and alone.

So he learns to be attracted to something that no body wants. that way there is no stress or competition over her. She is easy to get. and sometimes that's the unattractive - average WW. that white men don't want. i have heard white men say they only care when they see a BM with an attrative WW. if she is hot. if she's ugly or average looking like Cuba Gooding Jr's wife. then they don't care at all.

- Light Skin black man don't date interacially as much - this could be true ( I don't think it is) but its because BW women have the same light skin preference that BM have. its not self hate, its because sometimes women from other cultures appreciate the dark black skin - as opposed to other bw go "yuck" so - she is wrong about that.

- Black men tolerte crap from other women except black women. Well this depends on her social sphere she is in. she could be right about some of that. but it doesn't apply to me or the men i have known.


and she has commented on foreign white women.

take a listen to this.

http://www.generation-x.net/viewVideo.php?video_id=3263&title=BLACK_MEN_SEEKING_NON_BLACK_FOREIGN_WOMEN

 

Bhayes you spend too much time on Youtube letting people psych you out. Go live life and learn from your own experiences.

 

you could be right. do you follow your own advice?

we will never know will we.

 

hmm, but in america dont mixed race babies get seen as black? its just something ive wonderd, how people say black men or women want mixed babies because they self hate blah blah (dont agree) but if the kids get seen as black then its shouldnt be bought up

 

She contradicts herself and is pretty much off-key on a lot of points. From the looks of it, she's been in many failed relationships and have a difficult time finding a guy she likes and yet they won't return the favor.

 

well its really stupid reasoning but - simply put. here one drop of black in you makes you black. doesn't matter how light you are.

i know that's not really the case in europe, but it is what it is.

 

You don't see me posting up video after video that I have watched on youbtube. Right there's your answer.

 

good statement.

too many people try to justify themselves for dating outside their race (they arent feeding and fucking you so dont worry about it thus why argue) and people try to justify hating on black men dating outside their race (they need to look at themselves and see where they are messed up at).

 

yup i know, just i dont get why people bring up the mixed babys thing with self hate if the children get seen as black anyway

 

VISUAL AIDS HELP TO STIMULATE THE MIND.

 

Yes, we know that - because you don't see her post a gazzillion pointless youtube videos and cry about them like they are the all encompassing truth. Neither do you see anyone else do it. It would do you good to not spend so much time there - it isn't the truth-bank you know.

 

its called having dialogue. its funny this is an wwbm site and he posted a vid about what people say about BMWW relationships so we can discuss and he gets villified.

if you dont like him posting this then go to the WW feet thread or ww big booty thread or something like that.

You dont have to come in here.

Im not too into the topic because its worn out but still

 

Perhaps this documentary can help you understand what's happening better. but the opinion of what black is here is clearly stupid. People over there clearly have a healthier and logical attitude towards black.

http://dimewars.com/Video/Melyssa-Ford---Toccara-Give-Their-Opinions-Of-Light-Skin-In--Complexion-Obsession--Part-2.aspx?bcmediaid=ea0ebfec-da32-4478-8f35-9e93bec8c7f9

http://dimewars.com/Video/Movie-Trailer--Light-vs--Dark--Somebody-Profiting-Off-Of-Willie-Lynch-.aspx?bcmediaid=80949e71-fe15-4f69-bc5d-e61798e2679b&activetab=1

 

agreed, ill give these a watch

 

I could unpack the cognitive dissonance that leads to such paradoxical statements, but I can't be bothered at the moment. Just know, the discourse changes depending on who the parties are.