help..wonderful white women/parents

Discussion in 'Conversations Between White Women and Black Men' started by Ymra, Jul 11, 2011.

  1. orejon4

    orejon4 Well-Known Member

    Is property affordable there?
     
  2. TreePixie

    TreePixie New Member


    Oh yeah, it's post-class too, so everyone can have a McMansion. With a pool. And a hot tub.
     
  3. orejon4

    orejon4 Well-Known Member

    I am Elmer Fudd, millionaire. I own a mansion and a yacht.
     
  4. lippy

    lippy Well-Known Member

    pixie charm;-)

    my sister from another mister

    lippy has already taken that quote:p
     
  5. ReginaStar

    ReginaStar New Member

    I don't deny the brain aspects of some transgendered people. But sexual classification isn't about the size of the corpus callosum. Sexual classification is about the phenotypic difference between a man and a woman. As long as a person has a penis their classification is male and as long as they have a vagina their classification is female. Once surgery is done and that person now ALSO has the phenotypic difference they will then be classified as the gender of the that sex. It would be incorrect to call a transgendered male (pre-op) a female. You can say "transgendered female" or something to that nature but female is equal to female organ.

    As far as how people get treated it alot more complex then that. Do all biracial people get seen as black? No they do not. Their is not a set phenotype for a biracial person therefore you can have many different appearances. They may look European, they may look African, they may look Asian, Native American, Arab, Indian, and our non race that we often classify racially and stereotypically any way, Hispanic and everything in between. One individual may spend their entire lives only been seen by one thing others multiple different things. The reality for most US mixes though is they are normally seen as multiple races/ethic groups. Therefore "treatment" will be based upon what the individual beholder sees and how they choose to treat some with that phenotype. Black, white, Indian, Arab, Native American, Asian, Hispanic are all groups now to receive various kinds of racial discrimination in the US (white only at personal and not institutional). And different kinds of discrimination within each group based on skin tone, hair type, features. So to say that if you are mixed with black you will be treated as black is not correct. If you do however have disguised features that are associated with black it is very likely you will face discrimination at some in your life for being a member of the black race even if you are not aware of it. But that is not to say you will not ALSO receive racism for being thought to be of one of the other racial groups, and like I said not even all mixed with black people are even identifiable as black. If you are mistaken for monoracial white you will be a recipient of white privilege and may undergo racism on a personal level. If you look like your mixed with white you may also encounter racism for being a member of that racial group again on a personal level. But how you are treated and seen in society is only a small fraction of racial identity. Some choose to identify wholly with a race based on culture and where they feel comfortable. Quite different from allowing others to choose your identify for you and very unhealthy to allow others to choose for you.
    If one's reason to not identify with their race is b/c no one will accept them are view them as a member of that racial group then one is choosing oppression for themselves. Oppression as in allowing someone to take your right to classify your self. Injustices are meant to be fought not bowed down too. Those who are mixed of two or more races deserve the right to be able to identify themselves by their racial groups. Refusing to allow them that right is only holding us back as a society.
     
  6. TreePixie

    TreePixie New Member

    A little moment borrowed from another message board -

    ::pixie grabs a scrub brush and busily begins work on the nearest raccoon:::
     
  7. swirlman07

    swirlman07 Well-Known Member

    I really appreciate the kind and gracious words of everyone regarding this issue. As always, my desire is to advance the discussion is some way. In this way, we all benefit as each posting triggers thoughts in other members and we gain a better insight based on many different viewpoints.

    Understanding does not come down like rain. For some of us, that moment of clarity comes as we focus of "listening" rather than thinking only of responses.

    In the end, people can choose to stick to dogma and rhetoric regardless of any presentation of well stated positions.

    It's interesting that she chooses to couch each of her responses, whether in this thread or other equally controversial threads, as simply her opinions. After some point, repeated insistence and defense without acknowledgment appears more to be an attempt to sway others, and not just share an opinion.

    But then again, that's my opinion...
     
  8. TreePixie

    TreePixie New Member

    Repped. I like your opinion.
     
  9. Tamstrong

    Tamstrong Administrator Staff Member

    Well stated, Swirl. I agree. :smt023
     
  10. Mikey

    Mikey Well-Known Member

    Yeah, Swirlman, I like your opinion. I think both sides are correct, if you have a bi-racial child, classify himself as whatever you'd like. Something could be created to identify the ethnicity of the children of an interracial family by the 2020 US census anyway. I would say it's based upon how the people who organize the US Census interpret it, not us.
     
  11. swirlman07

    swirlman07 Well-Known Member

    Thanks so much and welcome to the forum. I enjoyed reading your responses on this topic as well.

    It's not coincidence that we share common thoughts. Someone has to "fight" the Jethos and Jethrines. It might as well be us, lol.
     
  12. TreePixie

    TreePixie New Member

    Thanks!
     
  13. Tamstrong

    Tamstrong Administrator Staff Member

    We definitely think a lot alike (as great minds do), but I wish I had your finesse when it comes to expressing those thoughts. ;)We may as well; I think we'd make a good team in the fight against the Jethros & Jethrines. lol
     
  14. orejon4

    orejon4 Well-Known Member

    Was that the name of the female version of Jethro that was played by Max Baer in drag on the show?
     
  15. Tamstrong

    Tamstrong Administrator Staff Member

    Yes it was. lol

    [​IMG]
     
  16. Ymra

    Ymra New Member

    WOW!!
     
  17. Ymra

    Ymra New Member


    We like to call it "Pulling a Mikey"
     
  18. Iggy

    Iggy Banned

    meh, let them call their kids whatever they want esp if they are black/white mixed.
     
  19. Inner Beauty

    Inner Beauty New Member

    Wow, it's like agree with Iggy Day for me...lol

    I agree with this, (coming in this thread all days late and shit, so I'm sure this was said) but being that those of us who are American, they need to realize that they'll be perceived and labeled as Black, no matter the mixture. Basically, they can tell us how they'd like to be labeled, but the reality isn't going to be the same unless you look Wentworth Miller or somebody...lol
     
  20. ReginaStar

    ReginaStar New Member

    Bill of Rights for Racially Mixed People
    By Maria P.P. Root


    I HAVE THE RIGHT...
    -Not to justify my existence in this world.
    -Not to keep the races separate within me.
    -Not to be responsible for people's discomfort with my physical ambiguity.
    -Not to justify my ethnic legitimacy.

    I HAVE THE RIGHT...

    -To identify myself differently than strangers expect me to identify.
    -To identify myself differently from how my parents identify me.
    -To identify myself differently from my brothers and sisters.
    -To identify myself differently in different situations.

    I HAVE THE RIGHT...

    -To create a vocabulary to communicate about being multiracial.
    -To change my identity over my lifetime -- and more than once.
    -To have loyalties and identification with more than one group of people.
    -To freely choose whom I befriend and love
     

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