hello

Thanks, Jordan!

 

Welcome Pixie, nice to have you here...I see our dear brother, Ymra, has welcomed you in his customery fashion, lol - he amuses us constantly with his antics. Jump on in & check it out.

 

Indeed he has. He gave me quite the welcome. Thanks for your welcome too

 

Welcome pixie :mrgreen:

 

hey, Tarshi baby, good to see you on...

 

well hello ms j, you divine woman you...!!!! :smt058

 

bless your cotton socks, to quote a dear friend of mine :mrgreen:

 

damnit...you wouldn't date me cuz I'm younger than your son. dat hurt.

...and you don't want to leave me to my imagination, bad things could happen....

but hey I have big...



















.....xbox 360 collection.

 

Big...imagination is a good thing. My son will be 24 next month.

 

Hey us 21 year olds have to get it where we can...


side note: What doe he think about mom being teased by a 32 year old young black buck

 

I didnt tell him, at first. My friends knew. And then my 75 year old mother found out...which was hilarious. Picture the typical white middle class Yankee matron. I thought she'd have a comment. She did "I don't blame you dear. I just wouldnt want to see you get taken advantage of, but this rather sounds like the other way around."

Then I told my son, whose only comment was that he was offended I hadn't told him first. And "Do I get to meet him?" To which I responded "Probably not."

 

don't forget to thank your mother for the rabbits whilst you're at it

 

I should explain - I didnt tell my son because he's only known me to be in long-term relationships, which this is definitely NOT.

I sorta felt weird about saying "Yeah, I'm having a no-strings affair with a guy 9 years older than you are."

 

lol...i understand that...and it's none of his business anyways

 

Yeah, that's what I figured. I've generally been a very long-term relationship person, but the last couple of years things changed so much for me. Being diagnosed with MS, which is completely individual and totally unpredictable did knock me down for a while. At my son's graduation one of the speakers told a story that rocked me back on my heels, and made me stop feeling sorry for myself. So I decided the hell with it, who knows what the future will bring, why *not* do some "out of character" things? When the hell else if not now?

So....I met this guy and he's gorgeous, but I was shocked when he reciprocated. He's way too young for me, and we don't have a lot in common other than a rather embarrassing inability to keep our hands off each other. But I'm having a blast. I earned that.

 

no need to explain I was just curios. Actually you are better than me cuz I wouldn't have told my son SHIT. I'm Dad, Father, the King Lion....maybe its different for women.

..and the only women I tell moms about are the women are seem like they will be sticking around for the long haul.

Son: what are yo doing this weekend?
Dad: I'm going out

Son: Really? With who?
Dad: Did I go to sleep, wake up and somehow you were the father and I was the son. I'm going out that's all you need to know.

 

Probably it's different with my son because we've been on our own since he was 4. We have a relationship which is intellectually closer, and closer on a lot of levels, than a typical mom-son thing. Fer instance, and he'd be horrified if I told this, but I was the one he came to and told the first time he had a wet dream, and the first time he had sex. Most boys don't tell Mom about that, but he is comfortable enough with me that he could.

 

good for you is all i can say pixie. if the rumors are true and we only have one life on this earth, then may as well make it one worth remembering...make it full & without regrets.

 

Thanks - that's the thing, I started realizing that many of the things I regretted were the things I had *not* done. So...I'm doing 'em! ;-)