Awesome post, Birdie!! :smt038 There are a lot of idiots that actually try to say this is the case because if it wasn't, the women wouldn't be having orgasms. Just another way to blame the victim IMO. It pisses me off. Like Birdie said, you can't apply your views & experiences to the general female population. There is no "generally" to it. Sometimes a woman wants the total emotional/spiritual/mental/physical connection & sometimes a woman just wants to fuck. When I just want to fuck, emotion has nothing to do with it. Another excellent post, Birdie! I'm curious about the vibrator question, too. I love my vibrator, but I'm not in love with it. :smt047 I don't know, DB...I wonder if that just falls into the friends with benefits category. My vibrator is my friend & that friendship definitely benefits me. :smt077 LMAO! :smt023
Dont try and change the subject. And I didnt think this would need explaining but the vibrator business is what one calls...hmm I guess a cross between sarcasm and tongue-in-cheek (forms of humour). Maybe it's my Australian-ness that makes the humour hard to pick up. Back to the sweeping generalisations you claim apply accurately to the general female population. In addition to myself, 99.9% of my female friends (actually, add to that also the girlfriends of some of my male friends), it would appear also that some of the female members of this forum also disagree with you. It would appear thus that WE are a majority.
Well I can say one thing for sure. I own no dildo. I don't need one, there is no toy that could ever fulfill me the way my husband does.
Brilliant. And this you can own. And this is truth. But your own sexual needs cannot be generalised to the rest of us. We're off the topic a bit but FYI all my friends had vibrators before I did. In fact some of them have a damn collection as I was cheekily amused to find out! And most of them have boyfriends and partners or husbands.
rayer: So You know it all and medical science are complete idiot's. It's a proven fact the majority of women have cheated with someone that created an emotional attachment too more often then someone that just wanted to fuck. That doesn't mean that it does not happen. I use to believe that in my wild days I was just horny and wanted to get laid. Which I did but I also realize now that it was really deeper that just the dick. That doesn't mean I was looking for love, commitment or any of that b/c I wasn't. But I was ALSO looking for the companionship during sex aswell the sex it's self. But lol that doesn't mean I don't get horny. Hell I masturbate if I got a twitch that needs some relief. But even that's better in the presence of my husband. The words generally, most the time, etc do not mean by any means every time. The subject at hand and why we are discussing the difference between and man and women is b/c I said typically they cheat for different reasons. Are you arguing that fact?
My mother has them too lol and she is married and so does many of my friends and relatives married or not. Hey if that works for yall great. Just saying I don't need them. It's an individual choice.
No I dont know it all. I say you are making specific generalisations, which I have clearly identified and disagreed with and so far every other lady on this forum is backing me up. I have never once mentioned cheating. I think I have been pretty clear in which particular points I dont see eye to eye with you and the reasons why. Hahaha make sure you have some popcorn and water just in case you get hungry or thirsty.