When you joined this forum - what was your story?

I was just kind of regrouping following my separation in preparation for filing for divorce, and since I am both a law student and a consultant, I have very little time to get out and meet like-minded people. I thought the forum would be a great way to interact with people with whom I have something in common from the comfort of home since I'm on the computer at my home office most of the time. I have found the random nature of the comments and threads here to be pretty hilarious.

 

Hi to all. I joined this forum because I have fallen for a guy who just happens to be biracial. We met on a dating site and have only been together twice (never sexually), my 6 year old was with us both times. Soo, two dates so far. I am crazy about him. He is the sweetest, most sensitive, caring man I have known. We talked on the phone for about a month before meeting in person and I felt close to him before I even met him.
He tells me that he really likes me. He calls several times a day, everyday. He text me in-between.
As for me, I feel like I could love him forever. (I know how naive that must sound)...but it's just how I sincerely feel.
Unfortunately, I just found out that he is still visiting the dating site (I resigned my profile)....and I wonder if what he tells me should include "Til someone better comes along." Help me out here...need advice..

 

bi-racial baby. How cute, white mother Asian father?

So you have had your 6 year old around a man you just met? Is your son calling him "Uncle yet"....I'm just askin'

of course he tells you he really likes you
of course he calls several times day
of course he's still visiting the dating site

the smell of new pussy is a very captivating smell.

You sound desperate AS FUCK.

advice?

1st IDIOT. No man you are interested in should EVER be around your children until it has been established he is worthy. He hasn't prove that yet

2nd, since you are a single mother, how's about this time you think with your head instead of your pussy.

3rd, OF COURSE he's still on the dating site, you didn't think a few phone calls and a couple of dates (WITH KID IN TOW) was going to make him throw up the peace sign to the site. HEY EVERYONE I FOUND THE ONE.

4th, make sure you put the condom on, cuz if you are this far gone and you don't even know dude yet, the first time you are alone you will fuck him.

/advice

 

I just wanted to talk with nice, sexy sincere black boys:smt054

 

hey dulcie where are you from

 

YMRA, Our first date was at his church barbeque, our second date was 4th of July fireworks. Both of these were children-friendly events.
Why are you so critical and judgmental?

 

None of the reasons you mentioned have anything to do ww specifically.

 

Ymra's words may be harsh, but I think he's giving some valuable insight into the male psyche. Guys who do online dating ALWAYS put their best facet forward (For that matter, most men do. I mean, who highlights their bad points?). I don't think that necessarily means the guy is bad (or good), it's just wise to be cautious. My wife ended our 8 year marriage on the strength of an online infatuation's "interest" in her, which she found flattering because I was too busy doing the unflattering or uninteresting things, like paying for the house, going to law school and running my consulting business. Don't want to sound like this is based on me being bitter or biased because of my experience, but Ymra is making some good points.

1) Don't go all head over heels just yet. Wait. Observe him under less than optimal conditions, when he isn't showcasing his best to attract a woman.

2) Even if it's at a kid-friendly event, be far more circumspect about who you have around your child.

3) Believe more of what you see than what you hear. Actions speak louder than words.

 

I think he gave you really good insight - his delivery is a bit rough but other than that. Very very valid points to think of.
That he is still on the dating site is not something to question - the question is why did you resign from there based on a month talking and two dates???

Its not my beeswax, but I fail to see why your 6 yo was even mixed up in your initial dates, should you not wait until he has proven himself worthy and spare your kid to be attached to someone that may not lead to anything substantial?

Best of luck to you.

 

my message usually get lost my my harshness

 

so?

and?

who does that change the fact that you have a man you barley know (but from phone conversations and walk about) around your child. This shows a PROFOUND lack of judgement. Also that you took down your add and you don't even know those fool just a PROFOUND lack of maturity, common sense.

Look...fuck who you want. Adults do what adults do. If you meet a guy two weeks ago and he makes ya cha chat wet, FUCK HIM; however, you seem beyond that. Bringing him around you child (you need to be slapped for that one) you have fallen for dude and you don't even know dude...

...and just from what you have said about the guy, he's out for some good pussy. WHICH IS FINE....but I can tell in your mind you are already thinking more than that.

You should let me be your life coach.




















.....you don't have to listen to anything I have said, and you probably wont, but one think you need to do and change rather quickly. Is stop allowing men you are interested in around your child. It puts YOUR needs above the needs of your child. (this means I don't want to see your around the forum talking about how you put your child first and a 6 year old at that)

You had a man you met off the internet around you child. WHO THE HELL DOES THAT??

If you want to date and have fun send your child to live with its father, and do anything you want.

 

I don't know women do this.

 

Yeh wow...the words may have been harsh but I agree. Child friendly or not you shouldnt be bringing your 6 yr old on dates. Not only for safety reasons but also for the fact that your little one is likely to be confused about what is going on and it's not fair. Unless someone is a serious permanent fixture in your life, your child and its needs and so forth should always be a priority.

 

if she hasn't been run off by you mean people hopefully she will see the stupidity in her actions.

She seems desperate so I hope she gets laid..........ease some tension. Uncurl some toe knuckles.

 

I wonder what it is. I don't even let hommies around my children. One thing I can say about my exwife her dated her husband for over two years before he ever met my son. I dated my current wife for almost two years before she ever laid eyes on him. It was because for whatever our issues our son came before our own needs.

I will never understand why women do this.........ever.

 

I joined this site b/c I was searching something don't remember what it was and this site came up in the search. I read a few post and found some interesting threads. My relationship status well I may have joined while I was engaged but regardless still with my husband. I like "groups" and like to discuss or debate real topics. I find a few of them here so that is what I like to do with my spare time. Besides the group I was in was starting to get boring.

 

I think it's because there are a lot of women who have kids who are essentially still adolescent girls themselves and easily excited about the prospect of any date or attention whatsoever. And many aren't conscious about how quickly kids form an attachment to a male figure, particularly if the father is far away. I made it clear to my ex before we even separated that I don't want any man but me raising my son. Period.

And I hate to say it, but there's all kinds of freakazoids (dating myself with that term) out there, and my son is the most valuable thing in the world to me. I'll be damned if I'm going to let random people around him. I'm with Ymra on that one. Only 2 of my friends (who have kids themselves and are damned nearly my brothers) are allowed around my son for more than a greeting.

 

I joined this site two years ago but, didn't start really participating in the forum until recently. I was then and still now single. I was mainly looking for a dating site and, wanted to meet someone ( for something serious not just a fling) but, came upon this forum. I wish I had participated sooner because, it seems like I've missed a lot, this is a really cool forum.

I've only been involved with a few WW , one in high-school and two when a was in the Navy but, they were mostly just flings and, not serious. I'm attracted to women of all races and, I like Asian women a lot but, I've always been really attracted to white women also. I have stumbled across sites for WM & BW so, I figured there had to to a site like this one.

It's just cool to have somewhere to read and discuss how I feel about WW, without being judged or criticized (at least not as much). A lot of my friends don't seem to like WW unless they look like Nicole Austin or similar. She's fine but, I like WW of all different types.

 

I joined this site becuz I've been attracted to white women since I was young. I gotta alot of heat for it as a kid, but that just made more attracted to white woman. Interested in how things work on this site.