I'm nosey today. Whats your relationship status?

I'm 30 and I totally get where you're coming from. This year alone I have four weddings to go to two of which are my brothers and my best friend got engaged two weeks ago. So it seems like the entire world is pairing off but one thing I've learned recently is I enjoy my own company. At this point the idea of being with anyone just seems infinitely exhausting. Too many people waiting for someone to come along and be their world. Maybe I'll be more open 5 to 10 years from now when more of pears have had the fairy tale knocked out of them and want to try a real partnership. Too many women wanna be taken care of and too many dudes treating women like shit making them too needy or closed off. In the mean time I'm just gonna travel. See the world before the responsibilities get out of hand.


Btw MM I'm marries to myself. Sue Slyvester style.

 

I call them loopholes!

 

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Yeaaaaaahhhhh lol.

 

Very interesting....I know what you mean about exhausting but you know what? When you meet someone awesome who rocks your world enough for you to want to be with them, that is supposed to be FUN. If it's exhausting then game over, it aint meant to be....I believe that when I meet someone that could be right for me, it's going to be a whole lot of laughs and good times. If not, I'm totally fine with my own company too. Getting laid is not a problem, it's companionship and being intimate with someone I crave.

And I'm doing the travel...and loving it. But it would be nice to travel with someone else I can shag on a regular basis in the foreign countries I visit rather than a fellow you meet for a one night stand and then leave...

 

what? meaningful sex? is that real? lol just kidding but sure seems true sometimessssss
a companion to traverse life with would be entirely too awesome.

 

Ahahahahaha!!!! Thanks for remembering. Bless him, I knew he was a good guy and I wasnt wrong - he replied and said that although he is flattered he does have a girlfriend.

Bauuuuuu :smt089

Oh well. Nothing ventured, nothing gained!

 

Sorry, was he lying or telling the truth?

 

Single.

 

Asexual for this week.

 

Thats only cause you live way out in Fantasia. aka Melbourne. :smt002

 

At least you haven't jumped into anything for the sole purpose of being 'paired up with a potential husband'. My last GF was that chick and it was frustrating to say the least. :smt023

 

I'll never know if he was lying. But I think he was decent enough to reply and not simply ignore my email so I think that's a good thing. I certainly hope he was telling the truth because if he lied then it's because I'm not attractive to him and that would make me sad

Agreed.

 

lol...yeah, i definitely need to move...melbourne is killing my dating life

 

Which is nuts cause its no secret that youre an ideal wife. Loving, giving, supportive but with a feisty & strong spirit. A rare combination.

 

DOA endorses this post. Tam appears to be a tough but loving southern.

 

Try a reputable online matchmaking service, it's the best shot.

With regards to me, I don't think it's too hard for me to get into a relationship with a white girl, but the biggest problem is the distance since the ones that really do like me (3 of them) were from Western Canada, Kentucky, and England.

 

agreed...any man would be lucky to scoop that lil lady up

 

So she should broaden her horizons in dating preferences beyond just BM?

 

why on earth would she have to do that exactly...??? not like she's living in australia or anything that drastic