Seriously men..what is it with y'all???

Okay, so when a woman doesn't want you why persue? and when a woman IS a good partner, then y'all take it for granted??? Nature or nurture?????????

 

Thanx TS....Great help :smt023

 

the same reason when a woman has a good man she doesn't cherish him. Same reason when woman have a man that would move heaven and earth for her she feel "pressured". Same reason a woman feels she can change a man from what he is to what she wants him to be.

 

it could be the thrill of chasing, most guys like unattainable woman, they like challenge, etc...at least that's why my boys who chase women hard core tell me, lol

 

No person can change another...you only change if you want to and it can only be for you.

 

ok...but I am talking about when HAd the woman..let her go...she meets another dude and he has this weirdo 6th sense to want to come around again...do y'all have a radar?

 

I don't pursue. so I can't answer. You know I always wondered the same about women when they took for granted men being a good partner. It may be nature for people. They say women go after men who are nice when they are not ovulating and go for jerks when they are ovulating.

 

you don't say?

 

challenge and concur:smt077

 

but usually the relationships fail so challenge concur fail! hence why you shouldn't challenge because it is going to be a fail.

 

lippy would never suggest that challenge/concur are the end all be all...i am only telling you what i know of men...they love a challenge...hunting...seeking...to concur their prey...lippy has a list of men (ex bfs) that just feel the need to keep in touch...they never really go away completely...random phonecalls...texts...emails...saying, i thought about you today...you crossed my mind...how are things going...then the age old question: are you seeing anyone? would you like to get together? men are quite funny

 

^The Gospel.^

 

Well I am telling you as a man!. We like it all easy. no challenges. We like to make our millions of dollars for free(no challenge i.e. working for it). We like to get our cars for free and not work for it. and we like to have sex for free. The fact that the exs are going for known territory over going after unknown territory is proof of that. Women are a lot harder to win over when you are a complete stranger. The ones that know us are going to give us a better chance.

Ask a man if would he like a challenge to get a hot woman or to just automatically get her and I bet he will say the latter.

 

Maybe it's not men maybe it's the men you choose. The common denominator is always you.

 

some women are more irresistable than others...here is your answer bosox...the man can't get you out of his mind...you made a lasting impression and all women since then have paled in comparison...just be flattered when he makes contact

 

what is easy about getting turned down? obviously bosox is not accepting this man's advances...i don't agree that it is easy for a man to come back to what is familar because many times that means that he may have to make consessions or straighten up...not all women are willing to give a man a second...third...chance

 

nature. no different in women wanting bad boys.

 

Sounds like she's venting. I could be wrong though.

 

thats it right there