Who adores their men more?

Discussion in 'Stereotypes and Myths' started by Galiant, Jun 18, 2011.

  1. Sin Mari

    Sin Mari New Member

    :smt043
     
  2. hntr18

    hntr18 Well-Known Member

    always happy to bring some humor to any topic,lol
     
  3. Hussani

    Hussani New Member

    Great answer!
     
  4. Tamstrong

    Tamstrong Administrator Staff Member

    I don't like favoritism as a good word choice, because it refers to something negative, unbalanced & unhealthy. I believe a woman's SO should be important enough to treat him well & show him how special he is.


    Someone who sincerely loves, respects, supports & appreciates her man & cares about his well being & feelings & needs is a good person. It doesn't matter who they are, where they live, what they have, their station in life or what race they are...none of those things determine whether or not someone is a good person with a good heart. When a good woman has real love for her man, loving him will have her purring like a kitten when he gets home. ;)
     
  5. swirlman07

    swirlman07 Well-Known Member

    Outstanding Tamstrong. It's always a pleasure to hear from a lady who's both objective and real.
     
  6. flaminghetero

    flaminghetero Well-Known Member

    BW adore their men the least...hell...they can't even give our children decent names...much less adore a Brother.
     
    Last edited: Jun 19, 2011
  7. Tamstrong

    Tamstrong Administrator Staff Member

    Thank you, Swirl. That's very much appreciated. :smt003
     
  8. stiletoes

    stiletoes Well-Known Member

    :smt043:smt043:smt043:smt043
     
  9. archangel

    archangel Well-Known Member

    What qualifies as a decent name?:smt017
     
  10. archangel

    archangel Well-Known Member

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    Each person is different hence different experiences with mates. so this question pushes sterotypes where there is none. blah blah blah please don't try to introduce sterotypes because then you help with the nonsense.

    Speaking on the woman part. I have the ying yang thing going. so ...I'm not outging and magically of course women who are some how come to me. just how the universe works. ying and yang
    The other thing is all the women I have dated were pretty nice no matter the race. If you are nice to them then you will get the same back.
     
    Last edited: Jun 19, 2011
  11. Sin Mari

    Sin Mari New Member

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    White people do that too though. There was a woman in my class called Showalea...pronounced (apparently) Shoal-lee. Where the hell her bogan ass parents came up with that abomination, is beyond me. Woman has to correct every single person who ever reads her name, for the rest of her life. Also had a baby in the paper a while back called Aqua Waters. Yup, she was a white girl. LOL
     
  12. The Dark King

    The Dark King Well-Known Member

    Yeah especially hippies. I never got what flame was talking about like black people are the only ones who gave their children shitty names. Tell that to all the pilot inspectors and moon beams of the world.
     
  13. lippy

    lippy Well-Known Member

    the best care any man can receive is from his mother as he is growing up...as women we hope she also taught him how to take care of himself;)
     
  14. Athena

    Athena New Member

    I can't rep you until I spread the love Lippy. Great post.
     
  15. Galiant

    Galiant New Member

    You are a cutie!
     
  16. Galiant

    Galiant New Member

    The positive people seem to like the thread. And you are asking people to stop posting in a thread that you yourself are posting in. Hmm?
     
  17. Galiant

    Galiant New Member

    Kindness is not a stereotype. People are different and we can agree or disagree with that. Their are some people who value men more, and some value women more. In my home, the women treat the men differently than in others. My mother has many Caucasian traits and values that I see in women who are like her, and do not see them in others. A prime example of this was when I was working for IBM. I worked with a Chinese girl. She had a son and her parents came to visit. They stayed with her for three months, then took the child with them back to China. You can have traits and act one way. She did this because either she did not want to raise the child, or it was her cultural attitudes. If everyone who is of the same race and does these things, then you can make an argument that this raise acts in this fashion. This is not nonsense, it is fact. Different people act differently. Also by speaking about stereotypes, you can prove them true or false.
     
  18. GQ Brotha

    GQ Brotha New Member

    Yeah I definitely think it's an individual thing.

    Women of all backgrounds can be a pain in the arse.

    Its all about finding one you click with, how she was raised, her experiences and her views on life and love.
     
  19. GQ Brotha

    GQ Brotha New Member

    Oh so true, of course women get nervous he might be a momma's boy.

    I love my mom to death and she has always sacrificed for me.

    Could never thank her in mere words or actions alone. :D
     
  20. archangel

    archangel Well-Known Member

    All of this points to people being different hence different treatment. It has nothing to do with race which is why " In your own personal experience, what race of women do you think cater the most to their men? " is a question that makes no sense.

    By caucasian traits, do you mean biological traits?

    I know a lot of chinese women that would not allow for their parents to take the child. That is really not the norm when it comes to parents to allow for your parents to take your children. There is more to the story than that. However this trait or culture is not done only to one particular race. You will find this in every race because everyone is human. The trouble with this is that not everyone in the same race does that action and also there are people in different races that do this. This is what lends to sterotypes. When you see a couple people do it and you think oh well everyone in that race does it. My best friend is black and doesn't swim. My mom doesn't swim. It doesn't mean that black people don't swim. I swim. My brother swims. My father swims. Just because we swim doesn't mean that all black people know how to swim. These constraints are for a particular person because all people are different.

    This is why trying to stick people into one cookie cutter such as your question does not work.
     

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