Most black men date FAT/UGLY white women

Well, there is a difference. I am different in real life, compared to my posts on this site. At least I'm not here for negative intentions, unlike others that were here before. To the last thing you said, you suggested that I shouldn't get into debates with the adults on the forum, because you think I'm trying too hard? Is that correct?

Also, how do you think society would perceive you if you were walking with a black guy in public? Do you think someone would make a comment about you?

 

Is that you Reggie???

 

Nope. He said his birthday was on July 14th, mine is on November 18th. The thread felt "incomplete", that's why I felt like reading it and keeping a discussion going.

 

The only thing that's incomplete is your development years during puberty.

 

Yep, I'm still a kid, you're right. Don't mind my faults, the article I posted explains why.

http://www.actforyouth.net/resources/rf/rf_brain_0502.pdf

 

In this thread, I said nothing about you getting into debates with others on this forum. I said that just because you can do something, it doesn't mean you should AND I said that not all knowledge comes from books. Both are two concepts that you've demonstrated repeatedly you are incapable of comprehending and applying, which is both annoying and troubling. You haven't yet learned when to let a sleeping dog lie, and you're really starting to lose supporters on the forum because of it. You must be aware of it because the undertone of your posts is changing.

And society can kiss my soft, dimpled, plump ass. To take a line from Andrae..."Ya dig?" I've had comments made at me in public- positive and negative. I find the people who make the comments aren't usually old enough to buy beer on their own. People with a little more maturity are aware that people are made of different shapes, sizes, colors, religions, etc. If you have a problem with the way I look- don't date me or talk to me. It's a very simple concept, but one that is apparently also very advanced. It's something I didn't understand when I was younger, so I let things bother me. I don't anymore. Some things you learn with experience.

 

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Not all of the old threads that I've bumped have been based on stereotypes. In general, I read old threads and feel like bumping them if I want to say something. That goes back to something Andre or somebody said a while ago, it was about being able to express what you say without fear of what someone else on here says.

Basically you should just institute a rule stating that no one on here should bump older threads. Plenty of people have done it, I'm not the only one. Besides, by your logic, if it was an old thread I created, the reaction would still probably be the same.

I have no problem with how you look. I was just thinking about American society and the obesity thing with America. I also brought it up because the 2012 Olympics occurs next summer and America should be athletically competitive for it. To the very last thing you said about experience, that makes sense, but you have to be a well-rounded person and know a lot about a lot of things. The thing I lack is real-world experience since I'm not older like the other people here, but at the same time that doesn't make everything I say on here completely irrelevant or BS. Also, I do gain knowledge and advice from others, it's just asinine to expect to believe claims that every single person makes. That's why I don't agree with every single person's opinion about something on the site.

For instance, Appiah is 36 years old, and I think I'm smarter than he is. Some people here would just say that because he's older, he's more wise. I don't agree with that. That's the hurdle we can't get over, you and others insist that I shouldn't try to "act beyond my age", because of political correctness or something.

 

Mikey, the point isn't about bumping old threads. There are some really cool older threads out there. But, tell me honestly...when you read the thread and thought to bump it, did you not for one second stop to think 'Oh, this might start some shit, and the forum is already sick of this topic?' (or something in the same vein)? Can you honestly say the thought didn't cross your mind?

That's the point we've all been trying to make here.

I also never said you did have a problem with how I looked, I was speaking in general. Obesity in America isn't going to go away, so beating a dead horse on why it is the way it is, and bumping threads that perpetuate the same stereotypes that we're all sick of hearing about (and sick of the bashing that goes on!) isn't going to further the conversation. It stalls it out.

 

Well, part of it is definitely with me personally. I tend to be a more private person that isn't afraid to speak out about things. Also, if you think about it realistically, the entire world's obesity rate is increasing. My concern about this is the neurological/other disorders that would result from obesity and the fact that it makes it harder to find compatibility with women. Also, it leads to more scrutiny, even on this website when I was defending Saint. A lot of people on here got upset at me mainly because I was defending her. They made fun of her because of her job status and weight. Now she's not unemployed and has a job. A lot of people on here made fun of her about that. I tried to defend her and I took a lot of heat from a lot of people on here for doing so. But I don't care, because deep down, I know it was right thing to do.

If I had not said anything (like you and others would have suggested) she probably would have been ran off the site. So I did it for that reason. The other reason was to piss everyone else off because some people had problems with SA.

 

reggie hasn't posted since 3.2.2011...what makes you think reggie cares that we left him hanging...you want to be left hangin with reggie? keep it up:smt018

 

Well, maybe it's just me, but I don't completely see why everyone here hates him.

 

Right now we aren't discussing what happened there with SA. She's an adult and can manage her own business, anyway. Right now, we are talking about Mikey and how Mikey responds to things. We are talking about how Mikey, and ONLY Mikey makes the decisions he makes and responds the way he responds. For the sake of this thread discussion, the ONLY person you need to be mentioning is yourself. No links. No redirection. Just you and I.

Now, answer my questions...

Did you really not stop to think for one second that bumping this old thread might cause problems? It really never crossed your mind considering the drama you've seen on this site regarding weight?

Also, do you get what I was saying at all about 'just because you can, doesn't mean you should'? I'm glad you wanna be all PC warrior about things, more power to you- but the phrase 'pick your battles' might be another one worth writing down.

Look, I'm not trying to be a bitch to you. I'm really not. But, let's face facts. Almost everyone here is sick and tired of the way you behave 99% of the time, with the links, and condescension, and what really boils down to your inability to pick up on the 'culture' of this board. We chalked it up to age and inexperience, and many of us took you under our wings. We mostly thought 'That Mikesandy is kind of adorable... it's nice to have fresh blood on the site!' and tried to guide you a little to help you fit in.

And you ignored us. You couldn't understand why people were frustrated with you. You didn't seem capable of acknowledging any personal fault, instead directing the conversation back to another topic or thread to throw the spotlight off of you. You didn't seem to think that you were capable of anything wrong, by virtue of the fact that it's not explicitly written in the Guidelines.

There's a reason they're called 'Guidelines'. They're not the be all and end all of the site, either. Not every single situation and scenario are covered, and they shouldn't be. We expect that people will come in, pick up on how we interact and how things are done, and they will make the decision to become a part of it and enjoy it, or they won't and they will move along. Everyone wants this place to be a place we can come to and enjoy spirited discussion on various topics, but when you get the collective groan of pretty much everyone when certain threads pop up, you gotta know that it wasn't the BEST idea, so why continue to do it? Like I said- you're not furthering the discussion, you're hindering it.

 

To your first point, I really haven't seen that many obesity threads on here, since it was something that I hadn't really paid attention to in the past. When I first came here, I didn't think that the topic of bigger white women existed. To your second thing about picking my battles, I'm capable of doing that and handling it on my own. The obesity threads that I remember seeing include the one that I created, one that Goodlove made, and one that Trey made, and apparently this one.

To your second thing about the "culture" of the board, what exactly are you referring to? I speed read through this thread, so that's why I impulsively decided to reply. One of the things I did notice with this thread is that if your views slightly differ from what the "culture" is of the site, you would get flamed. The bigger concern I have is that there is some ignorance towards someone that says something that they don't want to hear. There's a difference between a person who is a troll and a person who is speaking from a real-world perspective about this. Basically, I would just have to adhere to what people like Tamstrong and other users say, and there wouldn't be problems. The way I view interracial relationships is through a real-world perspective, I don't create my own envision of IRs and then become ignorant to the real-world realities of it. I'm just trying to piece everything together, so when I do get into an IR, I can minimize my chance of breaking up with a girl. Now you might reply back and say "Well, you'll break up and your relationship will fail anyway."

Not everyone here hates me, I stay true to myself, just like Ymra and other people here do. It's really not that bad. I'm just like anyone else on the site, where some people like person ABC, and some people dislike person ABC. You'll just have to deal with it, because there are plenty of other people who have the same/similar problems. It's not 99%, as you claim it to be, that's clearly an exaggeration.

As Saint has said anyway, I will be successful in life, based on the way that I address things, my intelligence, etc, and I feel that some people here are misleading me in the wrong direction. I'm doing fine on my own and I'm obviously heading down the right path. I don't have financial problems, I don't have criminal charges on me, I can speak up in class about something and nobody would flip out (unlike on here), and I don't degrade/devalue women on here. As I already stated before, some people on here do those things and yet, they get a pass. Again, it's a double standard, plain and simple, because I'm a kid and the other people here aren't.

 

In what threads? Those are threads where I disagreed with others, which included the Bin Laden thread, the thread about Kygirllisa being here, etc.

Besides, I'll achieve something great in my life. Then you can't say I'm silly and clueless.

 

Dude is so seriously dense that there cant be much light escaping his house.

 

so much drama on wwbm,lol