Double Standards or Real Talk.

maybe the husband did not want to put her through too much stress

Some very lucky man there though...

 

Gotcha. True.
I was just talking about womens stand on it, not men about women masturbating.
I cant recall how many times I have been asked to masturbate in front of a bf, but I really have not asked the same in reverse so clearly there is a difference how men and women view it.
Not that I'm disgusted by it - in fact it can be really hot if you do it together while you do the foreplay.

I think that there is a difference in womens view on men masturbating... depending on what we are talking about - sometimes I think women automatically think about some dirty man sitting in his basement jackin off endlessly.. and we forget just regular masturbation we all do.

I think its very much a double standard among many women if they say all men masturbation is disgusting but women masturbating is ok.... I don't condone that.

I have absolutely no problem w men masturbating, we all masturbate when we are horny, what is wrong with that??
Its just freakin normal and I would be very floored if a man never masturbated... THAT, I would think is weird.

I forgot that I wanted to say that if a woman thinks its ok for women to masturbate but not men.. then wdf????

 

Not all will agree with the highlighted , FG. It would seem Tam's friend doesn't masturbate from her actions with her husband.

But what about feeling funny or weird after you have masturbated, especially the guys?

 

OH Naija, its a generalization, do I have to write out "many not all".. I didn't know you were a part of that troup
:smt081

 

I agree!

&I like to watch and have made that request before.

 

I am not part of the troop...i thought it was a good time to pull your legs

 

Consider it pulled. lol

 

FG...I think you're wonderful material for such activities...:smt055

 

I have no problem with my man masturbating regularly. No problem at all. In fact, I like to watch it, if he lets me.

 

More people need to do the deed, more women need to accept it and we can stop having so many unwanted children.

 

Agreed

 

Many of you girls have a brotha handle his business on a daily basis.

 

I don't care, its a known fact that jerking off for men is like breathing. I would be more concerned if my man DIDN"T jerk off on a regular.

 

It feels great..trust me.

 

Some double-standards work in men’s favor, while others tend to work in favor of women. If a man is known to sleep with many women he’s automatically classified as a player/prince of the city. If a woman is known for sleeping with a lotta dudes she’s unfairly called a slut or whore depending on what region you live.

If a woman is ever caught masturbating she gets a pass and it would appear that she needs to get off in order to relieve any stress she may have. If a man is known to frequently masturbate he's almost instantly labeled as a "pervy-wanker" or worse: "creepy".

 

this. masturbation is healthy and natural for both men and women

 

I find this strange, since I've never been taught or told this by anyone. I mean I know this feeling exists, but I've just never been exposed to this opinion.

 

Women will either reply to a situation in the positive, reply in a manner that questions men ie. "Well, if men were doing what they were supposed to, she wouldn't need to double click her mouse, now would she?"

To each his/her own. If she needs help, I have hands to give.:smt029

 

From your very logic?...seems like from a women's standpoint, they wouldn't chastise men for beatin off, if more men beat off more often without feeling bad about it, maybe, just maybe they would be sleeping around as much too. I know it's. Stretch but....