Double Standards or Real Talk.

I was conversing with my female colleagues at work today and i asked how they felt about a man who masturbated regularly and they said "ewww he must be thirsty, lonely or a weirdo". Then i asked them how men should feel about a woman who masturbated regularly and they said the man should be happy because the women was discovering herself and would be able to show the man the areas which turn her on.
I found these answers by the women to be interesting so i wanna ask the ladies if you agree with the answers they gave and guys do you think the answers they gave was sort of double standards or you agree with what they said.

 

They're correct.


I often masturbate when I'm thirsty.

 

lets keep it real talking about males masturbating isnt sexy but talking about females going to work is always erotic and thats the way it will always be lol

 

double standard...lippy loves it when her man is working the business and letting her know about it...if i can't be there then i still want him to have that release...now if it is not my man or someone i find interesting then i wouldn't want details...keep that prostate healthy:smt023

 

It depends on what you mean by regularly. This is probably my social conditioning talking, but when I hear a man say he "masturbates regularly" I picture him going at it like 5 times a day. When I hear a woman say the same thing, I assume she means like, everyday or couple of days or something. No matter male or female, I get grossed out about thinking of someone just constantly going to town on themselves. Like the masturbating bear on Conan.

btw, I just realized it might look like I'm stalking you on the boards. I swear I'm not!!

 

Lol cherie you are just answering my questions i know you are not stalking(not that i mind if you are)

 

Resilient

 

I have never, ever heard any of my female friends or colleagues or aquaintaces say anything like that about men masturbating

Thats dumb and a glaring double standard by your female colleagues.
Just stupid.

 

it is a double standard, but it is to be expected based on society's perceptions. most of the time male masturbation is seen as something unnatural and women's seen as gentle. it doesn't help that for men, we have to whip it out and women can find an armchair and just rub up against it. i suppose peeing evens it out, with us just finding a tree or an alley, but women have more of a production.

 

BWAAAAAAAAAAAAAA HA HA HA HA HA HA!!!

 

More often than not I have heard what the OP is talking about. Woman walks in her man jerkin' his chicken to the latest porn flick. "You pig"

...man walks in on his woman flippin' herself to orgasm inducing bliss....."that's so beautiful"

 

They could be right, real talk .

They say, for the man, it only takes only the sight of a sexually provocative woman to get a hard on, while for the woman it takes that emotional connection, I hear too.

In that case, the women might actually be exploring till they find that emotional connection, more like on a cruise discovery.

 

Ahahahaha, so true. I've heard that a lot too.

 

No.

 

lol... what do I know, I am only repeating what they said.

 

Tam, has she healed since the experience?

 

OMG I HAVE A STORY ABOUT THIS! ABOUT ME GETTIN CAUGHT PULLING ON MY STRAP. I SHOULD CREATE A THREAD ABOUT IT...

...I THINK I WILL.