study shows women love bad boys/thugs

Discussion in 'Conversations Between White Women and Black Men' started by goodlove, May 27, 2011.

  1. goodlove

    goodlove New Member

    yes, women (WW and BW) love bad boys/thugs according to CBSNews.com and other websites are talking about the same study

    CBS news
    http://www.cbsnews.com/8301-504763_162-20065652-10391704.html


    black planet
    http://elev8.com/spirit/relationshi...taff/new-study-women-really-do-like-bad-boys/

    the gloss

    http://thegloss.com/sex-and-dating/science-comes-up-with-new-reason-why-women-like-bad-boys/

    so stop whining fellas....just act like a badass with some intelligence (the president, sean connery, denzel, brad pitt, taye diggs are good examples. look at their photos.). look at how they carry themselves. confidence, confidence , confidence.
     
  2. Athena

    Athena New Member

    First, this was a very small study of collage aged students that simply looked at photos of people smiling, not smiling, looking apologetic/meek, and another set was neutral. The young women in the study preferred the non-smiling males, and the young men in the study preferred the smiling female photos. There was absolutely no reference to the character of the person, that is inferred and may not be accurate.

    Anyhoo, I disagree with the findings of this small study, but I am also not 21 so that could be a part of it. I absolutely LOVE photos with the men smiling, I find non-smiling pics to be a huge turnoff. Bad boys need not apply :D
     
  3. Nico

    Nico Banned

    lol wtf is this? I just went through that slideshow of 21 men and didn't see a single one that I'd consider a bad boy.

    LL Cool J? Hasn't he been with the same girl since High School?

    hahahaha
     
  4. goodlove

    goodlove New Member

    well he did do his messing around before they got married. that is well reported
     
  5. goodlove

    goodlove New Member

    you women say that shit but when push come to shove you will have that one nite stand with a bad boy or even try to have a relationship with him because it is a challenge.

    also when you see a person the immediate thought is oh he/she is hot. never oh they look like they have integrity and seem to be honest. nope, the immediate thought is they (he/she) look like they would be great in the bed.
     
  6. APPIAH

    APPIAH Well-Known Member

    Teenage women and very young girls early 20s might like bad boys for the excitement but when they are ready to settle they do that with the solid reliable guy(then cheat on him with the bad boy from time to time):cool:
     
  7. Cheri2626

    Cheri2626 New Member

    taye diggs? :-? I always percieved him as kind of a little bitch. A good looking one, but never got the bad boy vibes from him.

    I'll be honest, I might lust after the bad boys but I'd never sleep with one. If I can't trust a man with my keys, I can't trust him with my vag. But seriously, I agree 10000% on the confidence thing. In both men and women, a lack of confidence is a huuuuuge turn off.
     
  8. APPIAH

    APPIAH Well-Known Member

    How the hell can you lust but not act on it if the chance is available? That is why its called lust and not love so its fuck and goodbye no feelings thank you.:cool:
     
  9. Cheri2626

    Cheri2626 New Member

    Easy, because condoms do not prevent the spread of all STDs!!!
     
  10. blackbrah

    blackbrah Well-Known Member

    Women don't know what they wany.
     
  11. Nico

    Nico Banned

    Amen.
     
  12. hntr18

    hntr18 Well-Known Member

    my theory is that most women want a bad boy early on to have fun with aka someone who isnt a nice guy as in someone who doesnt nessarily do what thyre told and is unpredictable and a man she raise a child or children with who is dependable and honest in her later years
     
  13. saintaugusta

    saintaugusta New Member

    This run-on sentence makes no fucking sense.
     
  14. karmacoma.

    karmacoma. Well-Known Member

    Don't be fooled by that shit. Women know *exactly* what they want. Only when it blows up in their face do they play dumb and innocent.
     
  15. saintaugusta

    saintaugusta New Member

    I have to agree with you there, Karma.
     
  16. APPIAH

    APPIAH Well-Known Member

    That's why trusting a woman totally is dangerous see how Adam trusted Eve and see the shit we are in now
     
  17. Athena

    Athena New Member

    This thread is an
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    I know exactly what I "wany", and it isn't a stupid ass immature "bad boy." Never has been, never will be. Keep up the broad generalizations, it will get you everywhere (in your own mind).

    Fail.
     
  18. 11eleven11

    11eleven11 New Member

    Where can I see the pics?

    &I don't think anyone actually wants a real bad boy, the image appeals to some people, but they don't want some of the personality traits of real bad boys.
     
  19. stiletoes

    stiletoes Well-Known Member

    Bad boys are fun, good guys get it done.
     
  20. stiletoes

    stiletoes Well-Known Member

    At times no. one of my best friends decided to try match.com to find a serious guy. yeah she is still hooking up with an idiot on the side.
     

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