Would you be mad , relieved or happy?

Discussion in 'Conversations Between White Women and Black Men' started by APPIAH, May 24, 2011.

  1. lippy

    lippy Well-Known Member

    lippy is going to go with mad...sad...angry:eek:
     
  2. z

    z Well-Known Member

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  3. Morning Star

    Morning Star Well-Known Member

    Good call, brother! But I do think if Tamstrong and Sam Jackson were to get together...can you imagine the influence they'll possess?

     
  4. z

    z Well-Known Member

    Truth, Tam appears to be a tough southern Christian.


    I love that passage Ezikel 25:17
     
  5. wtarshi

    wtarshi Well-Known Member

    i've had two friends discover that their husbands are in fact gay.

    the first had been married for 25 years, 2 teenage kids. she thought everything was wonderful and it blind sighted her when he told her he was leaving her and the kids for his boyfriend. i've known them both for 16 years and had always suspected that he was gay, so i wasn't that surprised by his announcement, more surprised that he took him so long to admit it.

    the second friend discovered her husband was gay through youtube. he said he was spending nye with he mates camping one year and then one of our friends caught a video on youtube of him at a gay club, shirtless & pashing a man. he 'came out' to her shortly after that and admitted he'd been seeing men throughout their relationship.
     
  6. Sin Mari

    Sin Mari New Member

    I'd be devastated too. That'd be worse than catching him with another woman, because I can't compete with a man. But if it was a woman, I'd have a fighting chance to save the relationship.

    As for him catching me? He would be just as devastated and probably repulsed, because he doesn't like lesbians or lesbian sex. One of the few men in the world, I'm guessing. :smt043
     
  7. Morning Star

    Morning Star Well-Known Member

    That is just messed up. But you know...all of that would be avoided if society didn't scrutinize nor exhibit any hostile behavior towards homosexuality and allow them to be at peace and enjoy the same benefits as any heterosexual couple.

     
  8. Morning Star

    Morning Star Well-Known Member

    I'll have to dust off my Bible and read it...and this time...with some content.

     
  9. Tamstrong

    Tamstrong Administrator Staff Member

    I've had one friend who found out her husband was gay by catching him in the act. She was beyond devastated when he told her he was leaving her for this guy. Then she pretty much lost her mind. At first she was in denial & then she started blaming herself for "turning him gay". She started stalking him, trying to convince him that whatever she'd done, she'd never do again. He even left Texas to get away from her. She developed a weird obsession with gay men & it got to the point where that was all she talked about. I tried to be a supportive friend (I prayed for her a lot & I suggested she get some help, too), but she got so crazy that I had to start avoiding her. I haven't seen or heard from her in a couple of years. I'm thankful they never had any children.
     
  10. z

    z Well-Known Member

    Oh no, hope you're not gonna come up with some kook prediction like Camping, you know he was a civil Engineer, lol.
     
  11. wtarshi

    wtarshi Well-Known Member

    i don't think that australia is hostile towards homosexuality...just look at the gay and lesbian mardi gras that happens in sydney every year to celebrate their sexuality. i do agree that all people deserve to be at peace within the relationship they are in with the same rights and benefits as others.
     
  12. wtarshi

    wtarshi Well-Known Member

    that's horrible tammy.

    my friend with the ex in the club moved on after she received some counseling and is now in a very happy place with a wonderful man.

    the one who was married for 25 years has been able to remain friendly with her husband, even sharing christmas with him last year (all this happened last year mind you). she's an amazingly strong women.
     
  13. Morning Star

    Morning Star Well-Known Member

    Oh no. I'll read it from a Christian standpoint, but also an atheist's perspective and retain that part of me. I'll NEVER give in to any fallacious belief system, no matter how many times people inject that into my livelihood. And I'm aware that Camping's a civil engineer. But based on his projections and numbers, he only knows how to make a quick buck through people's paranoia. Why can't he just stick with working for a firm or build one and keep adding to his credentials instead of being a twisted and delusional jackass?

    I'd say that Australia, much like the rest of the world still has a lot of growing up to relating to gay rights. Sure, there are big events relating to LGBT causes, but so do other countries with more restrictive policies towards gays. The day when every county in Australia accepts gay marriage and joint petitions and adoptions, then I can truly give some merit to it all.

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  14. Max Mosley

    Max Mosley Well-Known Member

    The important part isnt about the initial surprise. Its how she handles it AFTERwards. Truth be told, she flat out consciously disrespected you whether you got aroused at the end result or not. You werent meant to find out.

    If respect isnt a criteria for your relationships then have fun :cool:
     
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  15. Tamstrong

    Tamstrong Administrator Staff Member

    I'm glad your friends made it through the experience okay. I can't imagine going through something like that myself. Although I have my doubts about her doing so, I hope my friend finally got the help she needed.
     
  16. archangel

    archangel Well-Known Member

    There isn't enough room for me, my g/f and my self centered ego so no.

    however I am fine with two women wanting me.
     
  17. blackbrah

    blackbrah Well-Known Member

    Not necessarily. Cheating is cheating.

    I'm sure I'd enjoy it if we AGREED upon it but no.
     
  18. FRESH

    FRESH New Member

    If I walk in on it, didn't know....I tend to lead with my head and not with my heart, nor dick. I'm going on principal, if a girl of mines cheats on me with either or, she's getting the boot. I want girl that can "man-up" and tell me anything, whether or not I agree or not.
     
  19. lippy

    lippy Well-Known Member

    many of the women here stated that they can't concentrate during 69...how in the hell can we concentrate with 3 people in bed:smt017
     
  20. APPIAH

    APPIAH Well-Known Member

    The answers here clearly prove that men are from Mars and women are from Venus lol , the women most definitely would be mad but the men here ,well most of them would either wanna partake or at least not get mad.
     

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