When you get all nervous around them and excited in many ways at the very thought of them as well. This can also fall under the same feelings as when you first meet/date someone whom you're really attracted to.
When you see yourself rubbing her knee with balms because it still hurts her from that injury she had 50 years ago.
When your left butt cheek shakes 9 on richter scale for no apparent reason... Something like that...I don't think I've ever been in love, in love so I'm not sure.
For me, all that airy fairy stuff like feeling like you're floating and not noticing anyone else except the two of you, having your heart beat faster at the sight of them or the touch of their hand, is all just infatuation and lust. It's part of the process of love (IMO) but isn't love itself. To me, I know I'm in love when I just want to 'be' with the person. I mean, sit in the room with them and just relax. Don't have to talk or do anything at all and I'm happy. It's when sleeping alone in bed is a novelty for a night but I then miss the snoring that use to shake the walls. It's when I can look at him while he's sick and all gross, or after he's been working all day and he looks like a dirty bum and I think "He's my man, and I'm so damn proud". It's when we can disagree or argue and we both KNOW that we're both cool with each other (even if we never came to a compromise). It's when sacrificing my own happiness for the happiness of my partner makes me happy (as odd and unhealthy as that sounds). It's when my goals in life include "have his baby". It's so many things. Small things, boring things, bizaare things, that let me know I'm in love. Love surely is a wonderful and strange thing.
You know you are in a serious relationship when a woman takes a leak and she doesnt close the bathroom door.
you know you are in a serious relationship when you can tell by the expression on her face she wants to take a dump
If I'm dating someone who leaves the door open when they pee, I just consider them well trained I think that you know when you know. I don't think it's something you can quantify or explain so easily, it's a feeling and words don't do it justice & I don't think I have the words to even begin to explain it.
Exactly. I don't want an audience while I'm on the throne & I don't want to see anyone else doing their business either. lol
lol...i don't have a problem 'relieving' myself and walking around naked in front of my closest of close girlfriends. though my ex used to walk in and sit on his throne when i was in the bathroom & it would drive me nuts
^Yeah, poop time is alone time. It's only peeing that's a spectator sport Awful just about sums it up, tbh. Thank you for asking though :smt049
I know exactly what you mean! I've had a couple previous boyfriends do #2 while I'm in the shower. Thats just gross! I do believe potty time is private time and I can't go with an audience. I have no issues being nude in front of my man and letting him do his exploring in the light, but there are somethings that are better alone. As far as the topic...when your lust for someone turns into a smile when they call and you hear their voice, when they enter the room and you light up and your admiration turns to respect and pride. Oh gee...that sounds pretty corny and old-fashioned... ;-)
That would drive me crazy, too. I especially don't get the folks who want to leave the door open & try to make conversation while their on the throne. Why in the hell would someone want to do that? My parents used to talk in the bathroom while my dad was taking a dump. I don't know how my mother could stand it.
