Southwest tells mother & daughter they are too fat to fly

Now, I know you aren't speaking to me as if I don't eat well.

 

Don't worry about it DB, the only thing different with you is your body build, you aren't obese. Some people here are just complaining and creating raucous for the sake of doing so.

 

Technically I am, Mikey, but its due to a medical condition. I eat well 95% of the time, but my body tries to burn my muscle instead of my fat, so I'm stuck. For me, exercise could be deadly.

 

Perhaps you could try weight training instead of cardiovascular activities? Maybe things would still be okay for you.

There's also this: http://tergana.info/

 

No one said that's all we can be attracted to but its a fair observation when I say that bm tend to big women outside of their own race more so than anyone else. I could be wrong its hard to determine the validitiy of what I see compared to what others experience but I do notice it. Please don't get confused with me saying that I often see bm date big women outside of their race more so than anyone other man with bm can only get or only date big women. There's a difference.

 

No, Mike. My body tries to burn off my muscles (heart, lungs, biceps, etc), so weight training is off limits. I'm allowed light cardio like yoga for about 30 mins twice per week, and I take meds. Sometimes I push it, sometimes I don't...but never by much. It's depressing sometimes.. a last option is a lapband screwed so tightly that I eat enough not to starve to see if it helps, but I don't like not knowing if it would even work. They know so little about my disease that its frustrating.

 

Part of the reason I singled Reggie2k8 out was from looking at Trey's thread about obesity. He claimed that 60% of white women in America were overweight, yet he had not posted a citation (link) in his post. He also stated that over 80% of BW were overweight, as well. I know that over half the country (men and women) are obese, but I'm still able to talk to and relate with white women who clearly don't fit that description. We don't get "bottom of the barrel" white women, as it's called.

Ok. You'll have to a try a different kind of system that doesn't involve intense exercise to lose weight. I have to do a search but those kinds of systems are out there.

 

I appreciate it, Mikey, but I've got a few doctors on this already. It is what it is, and I can't do much else.

 

Andrae these people are full of talk but none of them are intelligent enough to conduct their own research on the topic..

While reading this futile thread, it dawned on me that maybe the bulk of these people that argue facts should actually conduct their own personal research to extinguish their apparent fear of said facts by being conscious of how they react to it. And then making a choice to do something about it. Basically, I challenge any of these people to do the following:

1. Take a venture into a night club whereby white women and black men socialize.
2. Go tonight, to a black club where white women follow.
3. Count, the number of fat white women versus the number of slim white women
4. Use that number to create the ratio of obese/fat white women venturing black clubs.
5. And then conduct similar study on asian/indian/latino clubs where white women go.
6. Remark and compare your findings.

Im not saying clubs are places where you find legitimate/or classy daters but its a pretty solid source for research purposes.

With all that being said, at the end of the day, who gives a fuck? Its a fact you see everyday, at clubs and in your day to day hand-lings: black men date fat white women more so than other non-whites. FACT

I say, live your life, and leave to others live theirs.

 

I don't think this is effective. You can't use a sample of data of 100 people you talk to and then manipulate the data to represent thousands of people. You should use data that's accredited by a government agency instead. Not yourself with a notebook, calculator, and a pencil.

The post I referenced above (Reggie2keight) is what I disagree with. Don't you think there are big WW that like WM also? We don't exclusively (or primarily) attract only bigger white women. The people that perpetuate this only use it as a means of trying to degrade us. You need to realize it and understand it.

 

I truly tried to make this short, but...

You just said certain topics cant be discussed w/o a sensitive reaction...here is IGGY's opening post...

"Fat people should buy two seats instead of trying to squish into one seat.

I'm really getting sick and tired of obese people bitching and feeling sorry for themselves. "

Forget that the story wasn't her bitching about buying two seats, (heck no one even asked her to until the lay-over). It was how she was treated. You know all about that, right Andre? I'm sure you want to be talked to and treated with respect in a place of business you paid your money to.

So why are you shocked when people complained about Iggy's uncalled for attack on overweight people?

You also said you "comment on bm with big ww always in an inquisitive fashion" - no you don't - you make a sarcastic remark and then whine about the women here who will bash you for saying something sarcastic. You're a shit stirrer.

When you say,
"I point out obvious discrepancies in qualatative dating values when dealing with American BM and American WW....I notice that bm seem to date overweight women outside of their race more so than other men and I wonder why."

you simply IGNORE the fact that BM in general date bigger women. You'd certainly have a legitimate argument IF majority of Black men date skinny Black women, and only Black men dating IR date fat White women....but we know that's not the case. Since more women (and men) in America are bigger than anywhere in the world, this by default leaves the Black man a limited choice in sizes to pick from (in BOTH BW & WW). So I wonder if those choices ACTUALLY sitting fine with MANY Black men is what's really bothering you. Because frankly while your dislike of big women may be real, the "stereotype" (as you've called it) you think is affecting your image in a negative way is actually a fallacy. If you hate your limited choices you'll probably have to expand out of AMERICA to satisfy your hunger. (puns intended)

One more thing...you act like a Black men dating IR are the only ones with limited choices. Not even WM who are into skinny White chicks get to pick and chose these days like before.

 

I didn't include your Latino Club because we KNOW WW in general, fat AND skinny love them, but the odds of finding a WHITE woman PERIOD in an Asian or Indian club is extremely low. So really, you can't compare.

 

Kunoichi I'm too tired to go sifting through threads to point this out but I'll be my left nut that if you polled 100 bm if they prefered women who were over 200lbs or under 200lbs they'd pick the latter. Big women have become so normalized in our culture but if you want to know a man's truest desire take a look at the porn he watches and it reveals all.

 

I don;t know why you bench marked it at 200lbs. Let's go by the WM's acceptable weight scale of "she's fat". Over 150lbs. (I'm being very generous, btw).

Now I'll be my left tit that if you polled 100 BM if they preferred women who were over 150lbs or under, they'd pick the former. Sorry, to BM it's not that big women have become so normalized in our culture (look at advertising), it's that BM tend to sexually gravitate towards plumpness. While White men love to see a WW with plump boobs but skinny body, BM want to see some hips and some thigh to go with her plump tits and phat ass. If you want to know a Black Man's truest desire, yes I agree, take a look at the porn he watches and it does reveal all.

 

That, and truth be told- I won't reveal my weight, but we'll suffice it to say that I'm over 200lbs.

No one, AND I DO MEAN NO ONE...has ever guessed me even remotely near to my actual weight. So, if you ask a man if he prefers a woman who's under or over 200lbs, he'll most likely say under...but most men really don't have a clear enough concept of weight to know what that means. Some do...some don't..and some women just don't look like the weight they are.

For instance...woman on the left in this picture is 320lbs. Damn, girl must be eating out all the time and need to get some veggies...

oh, wait...

 

I love how you just moved the scale to fit your bs theory. The generalization of this board and what most of the arguments are about women on here trying to say that women over a certain weight are normal. The girls you fuckers try to pass off as normal or as a bmw are definitely over 200lbs knock off that wm standard bs. And once again STOP LYING. There is a huge difference between plump and fat. Using wwbm as litmus test for what bm generally want(since we're all black well except for Nico of course) we tend to go for Scarlet Jo body type over a Kirstie Allie 9 out of 10 times.

I get people like what they like and its fine I don't care about that but stop trying to piss on my back and call it rain. You're full of shit right now kid.

 

DB that woman looks like shes 6'5 cut the shit

 

She certainly doesn't look 320lbs. It could be her height and very large boobs, i could not have guessed 320, wow.

 

Yup.

Thanks for helping to prove my point.

 

I hope that she's taller than that height. Shaq is 7'1" and weighed 325 for most of his career. Paul Gasol is 7' tall and weighs 250 lbs. I would want to see her on the scales before I believe that she weighs that much. No offense DB, it just seems improbable