Hey Ladies....quick question

Can you tell a good man from just one date?

Fellaz, can you tell a good woman from just one date?

 

good for what?

 

No, because what you see on the first date is usually their representative.

 

...See

...spot

...run.

...Jane

...likes

...cake.

I figure my question was a simple as I could make it, but then I just thought of something even simpler than that.

 

alright smartass...you obviously don't know and/or understand how women think...when i go on a first date, i couldn't possible know after just one date if he is a good man or not...

good man for me?
good man for someone else? big difference...huge!

good for what?
good at what?

 

LOL...well I can't say I'm all that shocked. I do love coming to this site I never knew how much I never knew I didn't know....

I don't know pussy
I don't know how to be a father
I don't know how to raise a son
I don't know what women think/understand

...how the hell you got that from a simple question. Umm........hell, stranger things have happened.

And why on earth would I ask you if a man was good for someone else on a first date?

Lippy it was a simply damn question.

If you think good for sex
If you think good for friendship
If you think good for fixing cars
If you think good for break dancin' and Micheal Jackson impersonation
If you think good for rollerskating
If you think good for nothing.

wonderful. Can you tell a good man, however it applies to you.

...good for what?
...good for whatever you take the question as Lippy.

...your answer. "when i go on a first date, i couldn't possible know after just one date if he is a good man or not"

great! good answer.

 

ymra, did you forget to take your meds today:smt043

 

LOL..well no one has ever confused me of being sane.

 

You still didn't answer the question. But I understand.

 

my mind runs through too many variables when asked a question like that...lippy isn't quick or simple...sorry:smt074

 

No at first people present themselves in their best manners to impress you often. It takes time to really be able to tell.

 

right.

I agree, unless is something really blatant. Like...I went out with a chick that kept picking her nose at the table...

...not good? Well I don't know. But that was a clear indication.

 

ewwwww...i would not have been able to enjoy dinner:vom:

 

Human beings by nature are the shadiest, 2 faced people of all God's creation so no one date wont do

 

I'm pretty good at making assessments about people the first time I meet them after a few minutes.

 

If I listen to the vibes I get from people, I can likely get a good enough reading on a first date. At least enough of an idea to decide if there will be a date number 2.

If you listen closely to what they say, you can get a pretty good feel on how a person thinks/operates in their every day lives/how they treat others....you just have to observe.

It's always good to get more time spent together to be certain, of course, but I think if you're open enough, you can get a fairly good sense of how a person truly is, in a small amount of time.

 

yeah, good thread.

People say the shadiness in a person would come out in a person within about 3-6 months. It is up to you to keep your spidey senses on. It is mostly a gut thang

 

I can tell with 100% certainty if they are a train wreck, but not so much if they are a good match for me on one date.

 

lippy needs to sharpen her skills...trains wrecking all around me:smt042at least i can still laugh about it

 

Well said... its the negatives you initially notice that seem to play out as a flaw in the long run. While the positives can go either way.