I love black men

Here's the thing, the MOMENT you put it out here it really stopped being YOUR business. And everyone is going to comment on it.


...but eruummma.. Imma need you to post a picture and I will tell you if THIS black man finds you sex or not. You have not supplied P.O.L. so I think you are lying anyway.

..but that's just me.

 

Man she's got every right to come in here and say what the hell she wants to say. you mutha fukkaz swear yall the morality police. As Nico pointed out, she's attracted to who's she's attracted to...this is a HUMAN trait and a common one a that. You think that getting married means that you NEVER are attracted to anyone, or that you don't have fantasies...

..pftt? You do seem rather slow, so maybe you don't understand that basic simply concept. She hasn't said she did anything. You are calling her a hoe? You are trying too hard to impress women on this site dude...

...sit the fuck down.

riiiiiiiiiiiiiiiight, this is the common Negroid trait...we always like to talk about how big we are, how we are ballin', everyone is makin' dollars, everyone wants me.

...sit the fuck down dude.

 

Ok this was beautiful. Well stated, Ymra.:smt038

 

she was the one complaining he was boring......well what has she done to get things popping. it is a two way street. women love to blame men for EVERYTHING that goes wrong but dont want to reflect on what they have not or have done in the relationship. you can control what other people do just yourself. when you can honestly say you tried EVERYTHING under the sun THEN and ONLY then you can say I TRIED MY BEST. I gave her suggestions and she can take or leave it

 

The suggestions were good ones but you have to remember, not every man is as intelligent as you are. If you get married young, you can land a real dud who will never pick up on the cues and won't care that you are trying. You will suggest marriage counseling and he will say "No fucking way". After trying for years, a woman would be advised to get out while she still has some enjoyable years left.

You did give her advice, goodlove, but it was surrounded by a lot of nasty assumptions (hair rollers, cigarette, hollering like wolf-man Jack). Those were neither necessary, necessarily TRUE, or constructive. You are revealing your own prejudices and possible past experiences here, which we all do, but limit your "painting a picture" to painting one of your own life, instead of creating one that may be completely inaccurate of her.

I mean, she might not be perfect, but she came BACK to WWBM because of this struggle in her heart. She is looking for support, maybe a little guidance, not a lot of gross exaggerative guesses. Meanwhile, a year has gone by since she was last here and you don't know what she's had to deal with in the meantime. I'm not painting a picture here but what comes to my mind when thinking of a husband that doesn't try, is maybe abusive is this Dwight Yoakam character from Slingblade. Here's a clip - watch it, and you might see what could turn a southern woman off of white men. It's extreme, but in a lot of cases down here, sadly realistic. I've met people like this:

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A piece of what? meat? really?

 

It would be silly for anyone here to run you off for your preference. others have offensive preferences and are still here so you should be welcomed too

 

I can dig what you are saying but we ALL men and women need to decide how much fault WE are to blame ourselves in a relationship. are we dragging ass to look good and giving compliments but only complain. we have to ask ourselves that. afterwards then decide if you guys are a fit. sometimes everyone wants to blame someone and sometimes its no ones fault

 

Sorry, I honestly don't understand what this means (statement in bold). But as far as who's to blame, yes you are right, usually there are wrongs on both sides (enabler/enabled), but sometimes the stronger person just has to walk away while the getting's good. ESPECIALLY if you got into the relationship/marriage a long time ago and didn't really know yourself then. Sometimes the other person is just bent on staying the same and there's nothing you can do about it.

 

i dont understand that, whyis it wrong for a married woman to come in and express her desire for black men. Im new here but i see immorality and sin throughout the website(porn, cursing, talks about sex and sex outside of marriage and other deviant behaviors so why not this woman expressing here interests, the didnt say she was acting on it.

 

"dragging ass" mean being slow to do something...being lazy

 

I still don't believe this KY person is a real person but the topic I understand. She is no defferent than any of, the problem is we all want to pretend we are pefect, no flaw, our lives are story book, in reality is not.

 

exactly...it is always the other persons fault the relationship didnt work

 

Gotcha.

 

I never said she couldn't come here and express herself. What I did was call her out for being the trifling ass hoe that she is. I came to this conclusion based on a couple of things she posted in this thread. Lets look at what she said for second.

1) She claims to be married with three kids, yet she's on here trying to attracted other men. Where I'm from decent women just don't do that. I'm pretty sure if she was your wife and the mother of your children that you wouldn't view what she's doing as being innocent.

2) She also said that her husband doesn't satisfy her and she needs to be satisfied. What the fuck you do you think she met by that? Do you think she was talking about her attractive to other men or was she basically saying that she's pursing some black dick to satisfy her? I know I'm slow and I have really poor reading comprehension skills, but it seem to me that she's trying to get fucked.

3) Another thing that jumped out to me is that uses the same line that most married hookers use to justify why they fucking around. "My husband doesn't pay attention to me." I guess that makes everything alright? I can peep game from miles away nigga. This bitch is everything that I said she is.

Now you need sit the fuck down and listen boy. You and none of these other people here have any stake in this shit. You're not her husband or any of her children. If her family gets destroyed over cuckold fantasy you won't give a fuck because it's not going to affect you. Who it will affect directly is her family. The family structure in this country is fucked because of the self centered bitches like the one you're defending right now. Families are getting destroyed everyday because some men and women put their own selfish desires over the what's best for the family that they help build. What I'm doing is giving this dumb bitch some good advice. You see if she ruins her family over her black dick fetish it's not going to have anything to do with her so called love for black men. It's going to be because of her own selfish desires and nothing else.

Before you make the assumption that I'm trying impress someone here you should first look at the body of work I done put in on this forum. I got posts that women might agree with and some that many women disagree with. One way or the other I stand firmly by what I post regardless of how the fuck people react to it. So you better that straight next time. Also it's women here that know me personally. They know that I'm modest, confident, nice looking, cut up, and definitely packin. Everything that I've posted on this thread is a 100% accurate.

 

God leave this woman alone. All this fake-ass outrage is ridiculous.

 

"The lady doth protest too much, methinks"​

 

At the end of the day you are a grown woman and make your own decisions, no one here can alter that I would think.

You have to realize though that in a public forum, you will encounter people with differing views.

There are black guys that are perfectly fine with messing around with white women who are just looking for some fun and no strings attached. Maybe that is the kind of brotha that you will need to encounter.

As for your personal relationship at home, only you know what lies at the heart of that and it is up to you to handle that.

 

thats not the problem the problem is doing that while you are married...shit like that will get you killed

 

Now you need sit the fuck down and listen boy

Why did you have to go there? It's so ugly.

They know that I'm modest, confident, nice looking, cut up, and definitely packin.

This sentence contradicts itself in so many ways.