Who has the worst time - ww&bm or wm&bw?

Ok. I'm not completely getting what you are talking about. Hopefully you can explain it to me tomorrow.

 

Tam, Tam, Tam

I have no idea what you look like, but I have crush on you.

 

This is a no brainer BMWW relationships. lets go ahead and say it for what it is. society , when it comes to relationships, is a male centered thang. thus in the old days when wars are lost the losers (men) would get killed of and the women are taken as spoils of war. If you wanted to slow the population or get rid of it you killed the men.

BM are the target of IR.

WM are as targeted as hard as BM. they are however targeted. they have been beaten for being with a BW.

what is funny if a WM or a BM date an asian or hispanic it is not quickly jumped on as an IR but it is IR but it is not a controversy as much as a Black-white

 

BM&WW got it the worse when it comes to ir dating.

 

Makes it all worth it when you find that woman that you spark with bro. The intimacy (kisses and sex), the emotions, the passion, everything is just so intense because of all the haters out there.

 

i wasn't talking about.....i was talking about your significant other's family and their reaction to you. if they are being racist, education doesn't matter, they aren't judging you on your education. if they had legitimate concerns that are based on character that's fine. race isn't a legitimate concern.

on your second point, i would agree that a higher education opens you up to more opportunities and a larger world. most ppl grow up in a homogenous area, when they go to college you meet ppl from around the country and the world. it gives you choice. but that being said there are good choices and bad ones.

 

You could always defy what your parents say when it comes to relationships. It's your life and you can chart your own directions and paths for it. Don't let anyone else put restrictions or handicaps on what you want.

 

very true, at the end of the day its your life.

 

As black men who love white girls we have to be prepared for a lot haters. People in general seem to hope that we fail and our relationships fail with white women. They also find joy in criticizing us and the white women we date. There is no interracial couple on this planet that receives more hate than bm/ww couples. I can live with that because I'm use to be hatin on me anyone. However, I will not accept any form of disrespect from anybody at anytime. As far as I'm concern people who hate bm/ww can hate all they want as along as they don't get bold enough to say something to me or my peeps they alright. Life is too short to worry about a group of miserable and insecure people.

 

well said, you prob will come across a few chancers who want to open their mouth, im the same aswell they can hate all they want but once they want to come up to me and my bf and come away with it their "opinion" (they like to call it) will have consequences, and people do seem to rejoyce at a bm and ww breaking up, kinda sad really

 

You got that right baby. People rejoice when they see bm/ww relationships fail. I guess they feel that they can use the failure of some of our couples as a justification of why they oppose our relationships in general. Based on my experience black men and white women couples are the most scrutinize.

 

yeah but they arent gonna look at the divorce rate in their own nieghborhood. example the church are screaming gay marriage is bad for the institution of marriage....uh how about divorce ? divorce rate in the church is just as how if not higher than people who consider themselves nonbelievers

 

You knocked that one clean over the fence.

 

LOL

 

That's always been my approach, you don't have to like me but mind your P's and Q's around me. Step out of your face and you'll wish you never did. I'm a no nonsense kind of individual and don't do foolishness whatsoever.

 

It's not like that is going to actually stop a ww and bm from liking one another, one couples personal life has no bearing on another random couple, but haters are so blinded by ignorance they grasp at anything and I do mean anything. Definitely something pathetic about that.

 

same here

 

does the thuggish guy HAVE to be dark-skin, i'm just saying:-(